As the saying goes, Tea is full of deception, wine is full of respect , what is the emphasis behind

Updated on culture 2024-02-29
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This sentence is mainly reflected in the etiquette, because for Chinese, when a guest comes to the house as a guest, then you must choose good tea and wine to entertain, but in the process of drinking and drinking tea, it is also more particular, if you do not pay attention to the other party will leave a bad impressionTherefore, the "tea is full of deception, and the wine is full of respect" mainly indicates that the cup should not be full when pouring tea for guests, because this will make the other party think that you want to see his jokes, or want to drive him away, and when pouring wine, it should be full, because because in this way, the other party can feel your enthusiasm.

    Tea can now be said to have become a necessity in our daily life, because drinking tea in our view is a kind of health behavior, can cultivate our sentiments, and when there are guests to come to the door, we generally entertain guests with the choice of tea, and "tea full of deception" is just to reflect a kind of etiquette rules, because when you pour tea for guests, you can't pour the cup full, maybe we are out of good intentions, or not too much attention, But in the eyes of some people, they are often unhappy, because when we drink tea, we choose to drink slowly, and talk while drinking so that it will be more comfortableBut if you fill the guest's cup, maybe some people think that you want to see his joke and want to drive him away, because when the tea is full, it will naturally be hot when it is served, so the other party will think that we don't welcome him, so you can pour the tea for eight points.

    In fact, for our country, wine culture is also very popular, especially now many people often like to drink when they do anything, drink when they talk about business, drink when they are happy, and drink when they are unhappy, so wine is now inseparable from our lives, so the meaning here is that when pouring wine for guests, it must be fullBecause there is a saying here that wine is generally made from grain, but in ancient times, grain was very precious, so it was natural to send a message to each other, I was very hospitable, very enthusiastic, so this way of drinking will make both parties feel happy, and each other will drink more enjoyable.

    So when you understand these etiquettes about drinking tea and drinking, you should pay more attention to them in the future, because you must understand that many times etiquette is shown from the bits and pieces of life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's because the tea is poured too much and it can easily spill out, which is not friendly to the guests. Wine is the opposite, and it is necessary to pour it full to show respect for the guests.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The ancients had a saying called "tea is full of deception, wine is full of respect", which is the way of hospitality handed down by the ancestors, serving tea and pouring water are particular, and you can't make mistakes, otherwise it may cause misunderstanding of guests, how much do you know about these traditional etiquette?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is a custom, when drinking tea, the tea is relatively hot, and the guests will taste it slowly, if it is too full, it will make the guests inconvenient, while the wine is the opposite, this is a kind of wine culture, pouring a full glass of wine indicates a kind of pride, which is respect for the guests.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Reflecting the Chinese etiquette of hospitality, pouring tea is seven points full, because the tea temperature is high, whether the guest holds or drinks, it is hot and easy to spill. And pouring a full glass of wine, in ancient times, wine was a precious thing, reflecting the hospitality of the host's family.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I've also heard similar words, tea is half full of wine (probably this meaning), we don't know too specific things, but there must be what they say, because tea is tea tasting tea, little by little drinking, pour more without that feeling, and the tea is still hot, pour full of guests can not take it, but the wine is different, many people gather, what will drink, or happy events, more lively, happy, pour more wine for people, pour full of wine will feel that this person is very hospitable, enthusiastic, will be beautiful.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This sentence refers to the fact that when pouring tea, it must not be too full, it must not overflow, otherwise it is disrespectful to people, and when pouring wine, it must be poured until it is almost overflowing, which is respect for others.

    In fact, this does not only refer to the way of tea and wine, but also speaks of a truth of life. The same is to pour drinks for others, because the types are different, so the way to deal with them is also different, which shows that people should not stick to one way, to know how to be flexible, see things and do things, in order to get along with each other like a fish in water today.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It means that when pouring tea for others, you can't pour it full, only 7 or 8 points full. When you pour wine for others, you should pour it full. Because the tea is hot, if it is poured full, it will burn your hands, and if the wine is cold, it is full of respect and deep feelings for people.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The meaning of this sentence refers to the fact that when the host makes tea for the guests, the teacup can not be filled, which is not respectful to the other party, but should leave a certain amount of space, this is because there is a unique set of etiquette norms when making tea, which has many complicated steps, brewing needs to be done many times, and the cumbersome steps make each cup of tea represent the host's welcome and respect for the visitors. Therefore, you should also be careful when serving tea to guests, if the water in the tea cup is too full, there will be water flowing out during the tea service, and the tea is too hot, which may burn the guests, and will also wet the guests' clothes, causing unpleasantness, in addition, the tea will also overflow the cup because the water is too full. Therefore, the ancients said that there should be a three-point leeway for pouring tea.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This refers to a custom that pouring full tea represents sending off guests, and pouring very full wine represents respect for others and represents traditional culture.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1.Tea is full of deception. First of all, it is not easy to grasp and cannot be held.

    Because the tea is boiled with water, the tea vessel itself transmits a lot of heat, if the tea is too full, the bottle is too hot, so that the guests can not drink it. It is very likely that everyone is aware of these problems, for example, when making tea for yourself or others, boiling water is poured a lot, and it overflows, and this kind of glass teacup cannot be served at all.

    2.Wine is full of respect. Drinking alcohol is not the same as drinking tea, and it is stipulated that it must be poured full in order to show respect for the guests.

    Therefore, when we are eating and drinking, we often hear others toast "full, full". In the past, when receiving relatives and friends for dinner, I would always say: "There is no good food or good wine, but please eat and drink well".

    How can you eat and drink well? In fact, it is the commander-in-chief of the wine to accompany the toast and let the guests drink it. Although there are some people who drink hot wine, in most cases, the liquor is cold, and even if it is poured slowly, it will not burn your hands.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    China has formed a variety of unique cultures over the course of thousands of years, the most important part of which is the proverbs handed down by our ancestors. People always use a variety of sayings in their daily lives, and two of them say that "tea is full of deception, and wine is full of respect". For today's young people, they may have heard these two sentences, but they may only understand the surface meaning of these two sentences, but they do not know what they mean and the origin of this meaning.

    First, it is not convenient to taste the tea when it is full.

    Tea is a unique culture in China, and those who can taste tea must be people who know how to live. And in daily life, whenever you go to visit relatives and friends, the host will often put tea leaves on yourself and pour a cup of tea, but it will not be too full, because if it is too full, the guest will spill out when the tea is gently blown, so it is easy to form an embarrassing situation, so it is said that "the tea is full of deception".

    Second, tea is home-grown and not very valuable.

    In the beginning, every household would grow a certain amount of tea, because it was something that the working people used to entertain guests. But the Chinese love face and will entertain guests with the best things in the house, so it seems that the tea they grow is often worthless, so the purpose of drinking tea is just to quench their thirst, so if they are too full, they will not respect the guests.

    Third, wine represents enthusiasm, and wine is respectful.

    If tea culture is unique to China, then wine culture is a culture shared by the whole world. Because every time there are guests at home during the New Year's holidays, wine is indispensable, and various wine-related activities will be carried out at the dinner table, and the host will also take the wine to the guests to show respect.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    "Wine is full of respect, tea is full of gifts".

    There is such a saying about treating people and picking up customers: when persuading wine, it should be full, and when pouring tea, it should not be full, and when it is full, it is driving away customers. A further statement is: "Tea seven, rice eight, wine ten."

    The tea is poured to the point where it is just seven points full; The meal is full until eight minutes, and after that, it is called "touching the bridge of the nose", which is disrespectful to the guests.

    On the other hand, the particular guests generally do not "return to the bowl", which means that they do not add rice after a bowl. When eating, regardless of the host or guest, you should use your hands to flatten the bottom of the bowl, and if the bowl is placed on the table, you should also hold the rim of the bowl with your hands.

    This statement was coined by working people, and it has been a hospitality culture that has been passed down for thousands of years. There are different ways of saying it in different places, but the meaning is the same.

    The meaning of this sentence is to say: when pouring tea for guests, you can't pour too much tea, the hot tea will burn the guests, and the guests can't drink it, which is very disrespectful to the guests, and it also contains the meaning of chasing customers, so some places call this serving tea to send guests.

    Etiquette is the etiquette rule of people's interactions. Etiquette is a virtue that does not interfere with others, and it is also a pass for oneself to do everything, and etiquette is a variety of forms of respect for people, including the form of action and the form of language. For example, shaking hands, bowing, kowtowing, etc., are in the form of action, greetings, thanks, etc., are in the form of language.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There is a saying in China: tea is seven rice and eight wine is ten. It means that the tea can be poured up to 70% full, the rice can be filled to 80%, and the wine should be poured to 10% full is to respect people.

    The tea should not be poured full, because it is too full for the guests to be bad, and the tea is overflowing, which is not only wasted, but also will always burn the guests' hands or spill on the clothes, which is embarrassing. Therefore, it is advisable to pour tea in seven points, and too much or too little will be considered to be illiterate. It's not original, but I think it's okay.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As the saying goes: Tea is full of deception, wine is full of respect, why do you say that? Does that make sense.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, it is said that drinking wine is not the same as drinking tea, the tea is poured to indicate that it is not welcome, but the tea is poured to express hospitality. Tea is something we have at home, and we need to use hot water to brew the tea leaves and drink them。After all, we all know that the tea is very hot when it is just poured out, and it is obviously not wanted to drink it and not wait to see the other party.

    The one that makes tea is boiling water, you pour it so full, how can the other party drink it? I can't even pick it up, let alone drink it slowly in my hand. Therefore, when pouring tea for guests, everyone will not pour it full, but leave a little space to prevent the tea from overflowing

    Save the guests to burn, come to a trip to the tea did not drink it, but let the hospital make some money, next time I say that I will not come to the house to be a guest, good and decent "brothers", the relationship is getting weaker and weaker, and they still say bad things about you in front of others, saying that you are hypocritical.

    Wine is different, compared with tea, wine is also a must-have for hospitality, guests come to the house, don't stay for dinner, forget it, as long as you stay, there must be wine, even if it is fruit wine, sweet wine, the drink must be the same! For the host's family, the wine must be poured full, and it is best to fill it as a large glass, so that it can be comfortable to drink and show their enthusiasm. Don't be petty, let the guests drink well, drink enough, and drink the kind that they want to come next time.

    If you drink alcohol, you have to drink it with your belly open, so that you can enjoy it!

    Moreover, the wine is cold, you know, it is not hot! Pour tea can not be poured full of fear of burning the guests, since the wine is cold, that is, it is okay to overflow, anyway, it can't be burned, it doesn't matter! Therefore, we can often see that when everyone is drinking, the quilt is all full, and the hands are full of leaks, but everyone is very happy, and even wants to add a few more drops when it is full.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The full saying of this saying is "wine is full of respect, tea is full of deception".

    Because the wine is cold, the guests will not be burned when they take over, so the wine is full of respect; The tea is hot, and the teacup is very hot when the tea is full, which will make the guest's hands burned, and sometimes the teacup will fall and break due to the hot hand, causing embarrassment to the guest.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Chinese custom says, tea seven. Rice eight. A full glass of wine.

    Meaning: pour tea and pour seventy; Eighty percent of the rice; The wine is ten percent full. The tea should be shallow, called ten points of water capacity, pour seven points, leave three points of favor, how can the tea be served by hot guests?

    Eighty percent of the rice can be eaten, less fragrant, more hurt, more food hurts the stomach, The wine should be full, because wine is a masculine thing, and what you want is the kind of heroic act of drinking and binge-drinking, and less wine is insincere.

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