Where does face come from, what is face

The thicker the lining, the more face.

Face is earned by oneself, not by others.

"Face" originally refers to the surface of an object, and by extension, it means decency and affection.

"Face" is an ancient concept in the rich Chinese vocabulary, so familiar that people can ignore it. It is a kind of action that judges the cause by the result. That is, when people cannot know someone's talent, ability or position of power, they judge them by observing whether they can win face.

People with face are regarded as capable people. So much so that many people love face and talk so much that they can't extricate themselves. It contains the deep image of Chinese cultural social psychology, a word that is taken very seriously by the Chinese.

It doesn't seem appropriate to say that it is an objective entity or an emotional pronoun. In fact, it has become an "unspoken rule" that governs the operation of Chinese society. So much so that to give face is to respect the personality; To sweep away face is to violate dignity.

Therefore, people have always attached great importance to the issue of face.

Many concepts such as losing face, long face, not having a face, thick skin, no face to see people, being decent, giving face, saving some face, asking for face, looking at my face, etc., have become the basic concepts of Chinese's daily life and daily communication. And these concepts are also a reflection of the deep psychological structure of the Chinese people under the influence of Confucianism, thus revealing the prominent position of "human affection and face" in the Chinese bureaucratic system in successive dynasties.

It means to love face.

If this man is shameless, no one will be able to take him.

From ancient times to the present, "face" has always been a very sensitive and mysterious thing. In a physiological sense, it is just a derivative of the "face", but it is so ethereal. Open the English dictionary, there is no special word for "face", and the corresponding "face" has only the original meaning of "face, face".

The Chinese, on the other hand, "trees want bark, people want faces." This "face" naturally refers to the face, "Life does not care about the face, and it is in vain to live in the world." It's not a kind of polite or cliché to deal with people, and even "the head can be thrown, the blood can be shed, and the face must not be lost" There are many people!

For the sake of face, the ancient emperor's Chrysostom did not know how many unjust cases, wrongful cases, and human tragedies were created; For the sake of face, feudal chaste women willingly keep the green lantern alone, or die for their husbands; For the sake of face, someone doesn't even think about how many people are still living below the subsistence line, and how many children are forced to drop out of school because of a few yuan or more than a dozen yuan in tuition, but they do their best to celebrate the birthday of their three-year-old son and build a luxurious "palace" for their future life in advance; For the sake of face, there are far Shi Chong and Wang Kai who are paid for roasting wax, and there are also boring people who fall XO than Kuo; For the sake of face, some people do not hesitate to defy the law and try to give birth to a son "glorious ancestors": for the sake of face, because their chickens lay eggs in the neighborhood, they would rather die of old age than get along: for the sake of face, the talented but macho young man misses the arrow of his son again and again.

Many times, face and face are clearly distinguished, each performing its own duties, but it often makes people confused: some people hide their faces to do things with face, and they can go all the way: some people beg with a thick face:

Give face. Invincible. Therefore, people with different identities and personalities must have different understandings and maintenance of face.

There is a distinction between face and dignity, people need dignity, but they don't need face;

The word Chinese face, many people understand as dignity, but in fact, it is very wrong.

What is the essence of face? In fact, face is the superficial false dignity;

Let me give you an analogy of the image: There is a white bone spirit in Journey to the West, in fact, she only has bones, no muscles, and no ****, what kind of face does she have? But she still likes beautiful faces, so what to do?

So she took off other people's dough and put it on the bone, so that the face came, and after a long time, the skin lost its vitality and used cosmetics to apply and modify it to save the face she needed.

The essence is in**? It's all a face-saving project.

People must have connotation, have real dignity, don't engage in face engineering, nominal face will consume a lot of energy to decorate and decorate, because your fake dignity is not energetic.

True dignity is what you need!

Life is just a few decades, what face do you need? What if you have a false face? Are you at ease?

The moment you close your eyes, when you think back on your life, you will regret everything you did;

Listen to me: Chinese must have backbone, dignity, down-to-earth people, hard work, labor is actually the root of a person's life wealth and happiness, only labor can taste the bittersweet and bitter, as long as there is love to experience joy, anger and sorrow, do not experience these, what is the meaning of your life?

Please, everyone, face is not dignity, ok? Dignity deserves our respect, but the thing that only hurts people can be understood as vanity, and face is similar to vanity.

Smart people think that face is not important, the important thing is to understand what they need? Some people who pursue reality have face by their lives, and no face is equivalent to no life.

Ask why there is always love and hatred in the world) I think there is also a sin made by face!

For those who are masters of the love saint pickling girls: soaking up a beautiful girl is face For those who love money: having money is face.

For buddies: the righteousness of the rivers and lakes is face.

For a writer: a good work is his face.

I think it has a different face for different people.

Face is sometimes not a good word, you may miss the opportunity for the sake of face, for the sake of no face, bankrupt.

It's up to you to see this vicious word, so I think what we need is not to have face, but what is your purpose?

Not everyone who passes by will know each other, and not everyone who knows will be worried.

At least we didn't miss the ...... in this life, in that place, when we turned around

Even if you said I was in the wrong time......

Maybe we have all forgotten ourselves and experienced that sincere love.

It's just that there is a relationship that can no longer continue, there is a person who can no longer snuggle up to each other, there is a voice that can no longer ring in the ears, and there is a pair of hands that can no longer hold the temperature and comfort of the palms.

Not every love has beautiful memories, and not every memory is so unforgettable.

Since we can't grow old together, let me bless you here.

Because you are a concern that I will never be able to part with in this life. It's just that no amount of thoughts and worries can be exchanged for the days when I had you.

It turns out that it is not easy to love you as it is to give up on you.

Although you are vague about the questions I have asked, I still give the most sincere heart.

If you really love me, then I am happy. Even if I can't go to the end of the world with you, my heart is still worried about you.

I will pray and bless you forever, may you be happy --- safe forever.

When you're unhappy, I want to shed tears with you. When you're unhappy, I want to be your pistachio.

When you're lonely, I want to talk to you. When you're sad, I'm just as depressed as you are.

When you dream of me, that's when I miss you again.

I don't want you to give me too much, I don't want any promises from you, and I don't want any worries from you.

I don't want you to remember me deeply, I don't want you to remember everything we used to do.

I just want you to think of me occasionally, occasionally think of the person who once loved you so deeply, the person who once gave you tenderness with a smile--- gave you a complete heart.

Remember! Your world, I once really came to ......

If you're too face-conscious, you're never going to take the first step, and you're going to make 10,000 excuses to cover up your cowardice, and in the end, congratulations, you've finally turned yourself into something that people look down upon.

What is Face? In my opinion, it is a dignified life under the premise of ensuring survival, a tsundere who chooses more than being chosen in the journey of life, and a chic and uninhibited life that does not depend on someone's situation. Does face matter?

Of course it is important, but it is earned by one's own efforts and hard work, and it is by no means piled up by false prosperity to deceive the world, and there is no reason to live in this space of self-memory and cannot extricate oneself, "The Grandmaster" said:

People live in the world, some live to be the face, and some to the inside. And only Lizi can win real face. ”

This is the correct "view of face" and "view of the inside".

A person's face is never supported by external things. The real face is given by oneself.

"It's All Good" starring Yao Chen, Gao Xin, and Ni Dahong, I believe many people have seen it, the heroine Su Mingyu played by Yao Chen, she jumped all the way from a workplace novice to a corporate executive, but behind the seemingly successful is also full of embarrassment. In the sales industry, it is common to be rejected by customers, and losing face is even more commonplace. Just imagine, if Su Mingyu insists on saving face and is rejected, he will not fight for it, and he will not become a workplace elite who achieves financial freedom.

Li Ka-shing said that when you put down your bottom to make money, it means that you are already sensible.

When you use money to save face, it means that you have succeeded.

When you can make money with your face, it means that you are already a character.

When you are still there drinking, bragging, pretending to understand nothing, and only loving the so-called face, it means that this is the end of your life!

So, let go of the so-called face, don't let yourself live too tired. Use your spare time to enrich and improve yourself, or read more books, or master a skill, or exercise, choose something that interests you, start and stick to it, and you will find that when you do a simple thing to the extreme, you win.

Only by putting down the bottom can you live out the inside.

Life is not easy, cheers for chicken soup.

The long journey, you and I encourage together.

I am a sunflower, transmitting positive energy.

Face is the self-worth and corresponding experience that emerge in an individual's heart when he or she shows his or her self-worth through behavior or social resources, seeks the confirmation of others and receives unexpected recognition.

"Face" and "face" in their original meanings, face refers to "the front of the head, from the forehead to the chin, that is, the face of a person". Face refers to the "surface of an object", and although the two refer to different things, they both refer to tangible things, because a person's face and the surface of an object are obtained by people with their senses, which can be seen and touched.

However, when Chinese use "face" or "face" to explain and regulate social psychology and behavior, its meaning is extended to a social psychological existence that is both tangible and intangible. The face of the Chinese can be said to be both a tangible and an invisible face.

When you put down your son to make money, it means that you are already sensible; When you use money to earn back face, it means that you have succeeded; When you can make money with face, it means that you are already a character; And when you stay there drinking, bragging, sleeping lazy, pretending to understand nothing and only loving the so-called face, it means that this life is like this.

This is a famous quote that Li Ka-shing has said, other success mottos:

1. Before the age of 20, 100% success in the career depends on the hard work of both hands; Before the age of 20 to 30, 10% depends on luck, and 90% is still earned by hard work; After that, the proportion of opportunities gradually increased; After the age of 60, luck is almost three to four percent.

2. When interacting with new and old friends, be honest and reliable, and avoid big words. We must do what we say, don't let off empty cannons, and if we can't do it, we would rather not say it.

3. You have to believe that everyone in the world is shrewd, and you have to be convincing and like to associate with you, that is the most important thing.