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I think your question is coming up for the second time.

Last time, I said that he bought a house in Shanghai

This time, I'm still reminding you to look up the doting information and find out the third question that I'm looking forward to you, I've seen a person ask a question several times, and that person is not asking anonymously.

Every time I ask a question, I think it's about two people, and every time I ask a question, it's changing, from the original frivolity, to the reduction of frivolity, and then to the lack of frivolity, so scary -- the scary in this is a positive word.

Maybe next time I ask a question, I won't meet you again, you can meet others.

For example, I once thought that those cancer patients were out of reach, but one day I was suddenly told that I had cancer. There are also some who feel that those who win the lottery are out of reach, but one day they won the lottery, and there are those who once felt that those who went to Tsinghua University and Peking University were very rare, and they never thought that they would have the opportunity to go to Tsinghua University and Peking University today.

I was devastated by the departure of my loved ones and the failure of my career, and I never thought that these things would happen to me.

First, there is no cheap pick-up, so it is easy to be deceived; Also, I don't know the road in the field and I am asked for directions by others, and I don't know the road conditions, haha.

I know a friend, a single person from the north who came to Wuhan to accompany him, and he didn't want to have a sudden cardiovascular disease, and he needed 150,000 yuan for hospital rescue. Family brothers and sisters take money. Unfortunately, he just met a girlfriend who didn't have much money, so he took care of food and washed in the hospital day and night.

finally saved his life, but the man thought that the woman didn't take the money to save her life, and she was not sincere. In later life, women take care of men with their hearts and understand men, but they can't get the corresponding feeling of heart. The woman didn't expect the ending to be good or bad, but she just felt that life was wonderful and incredible, but something happened to her and she had to face it.

From the time my aunt found out to the time she left, we really didn't expect that it was cancer that took her life, and I felt that I wouldn't believe it for a while, because my aunt is a people's teacher, and in my impression she has always been very serious on the surface, but in fact, she cares about us, and sudden things will make us feel at a loss, as if we are suddenly frightened, which will make us feel at a loss. Whether what happens to us for better or worse, it is beyond the scope of our cognition and acceptance. Therefore, what we have seen before and even something that is particularly untrue happened to us brings us that feeling of helplessness and disbelief.

In that year, the production team implemented the policy of feudalism and the elimination of the four old policies, and destroyed the traditional statues of gods in the countryside, and many statues of gods that had been worshiped for half a century were thrown into the river and destroyed. Later, the villagers re-sculpted the statue of the god and performed a ceremony to welcome the god during an important festival. The ceremony was attended by all the young and old people in the village, including my young father.

According to my father's recollection, when everyone knelt down in unison for the ceremony, three sky lanterns suddenly appeared above the temple, and the one in the middle was the brightest, followed by the left and right, which corresponded to the gods enshrined in the temple, and the villagers were surprised. The sky lantern slowly descended, and as it approached the temple, it turned into several streamers and flashed on the roof of the temple.

In the second grade of elementary school, I accidentally fell into the water and stayed in the water for a long time, estimated to be as long as 20 minutes. During this period, the desire to survive was extremely strong, constantly churning, sometimes rushing out of the water, sometimes sinking to the bottom of the river, in short, it did not stop. However, after all, it will not be anyone's landlubbers, exhausted.

At the very moment when I said in my own heart that it seemed that I was dead, I felt a beam of golden light shine on my forehead. Then I was rescued by a young man in his early twenties in yellow pants and red clothes. Twenty-four years have passed since the time he fell into the water, and that young man should be almost 50 years old!

I thanked you because of drowning, dizziness, weakness and no strength, and I hope you have a safe life!

One day in junior high school, class ended at noon on Saturday, at that time it seemed to be a day and a half off, every week, I rode to my grandmother's house, on the road suddenly found a high fever, sleepy no, no, riding a bicycle, the head was like a chicken pecking rice, several times almost fell, and then I came to my grandmother's house and heard that my grandfather in the hospital passed away, that is, I had a fever at that time.

That year, I was still studying in a city in the south, and when I was about to graduate, I broke up with my girlfriend and was very impetuous. At that time, everyone liked to play with bottles, and the bottles at that time were not full of advertisements as they are now, and most of them were real back then. But there was a woman who broke everything, she was from the county town around the city, met in the bottle and added friends, and then started chatting.

Unexpectedly, one day she said she wanted to come and see me. When the car came, she got out of the car and dressed in a very fashionable way, and then she became my wife. This incident made me feel that it was impossible for a life event to happen to me, which was amazing.

I've always been a pessimist, so I think of the worst before a lot of things, so when that result happens, I'm not surprised, I hardly think about the question of "why did this happen to me", because I always believe that even if this happened to me, I am not the worst one, there are more pitiful people in the world than me, I should be grateful for what I have now, so I rarely feel that God is unfair.

First of all, the landlord does not need to be under too much pressure, because this is just a matter of concept, if there is only this contradiction, it is still very easy to handle

You have to think about the hukou in this way, your future work, your children's schooling, who is the urban hukou, who is the rural hukou, which province has a low college entrance examination score, and whose house you will be able to move to in the future! Convince each other's parents with practical benefits.

About the continuation of the incense, it is pure nonsense! I'm a girl, if I marry a prince of a European country in the future, my mother will ask someone to join our family to continue the incense? The key is to see who has good conditions, if the landlord's family conditions are worse than the woman's, you can consider getting rich, don't forget, you are still young, you can't be rich for a lifetime, right?

What you need is to develop your own business with the help of the woman's family, and then buy a new house and move out to live on your own instead of forever with your parents! You can make it clear to your parents that the income is temporary, and you will work your own to live a good life in the future. As for what the child's surname is, it's just a matter of concept, and there is no genealogy, so there is no need to be so serious, it's simple, two father's surnames and one mother's surname.

Qingse Youlan The answer is very good, I feel that the concept is just a matter of concept, the Chinese attach too much importance to this thing, but you should have the mentality of understanding your parents, after all, thousands of years of concepts, especially for the elderly.

In modern society, it is more necessary to be pragmatic, the conditions over there are good, and it is more conducive to development, so it is good to go over there, communicate with them well, let them know your difficulties, people's hearts are flesh and blood, if you really love each other and insist... Take the marriage first, be filial to both parties, the surname, you decide for yourself, after all, it is your child. If it really doesn't work, if you live in a southern house, you will be a mother, and if you live in a woman's house, you will have a male surname, and see what they do.

You should probably be tougher.

Let's sit down and talk together, after all, it's a shameless thing to let a man into the house, talk to her dad!