If you talk to someone you don t know, what should you say?

1. The attitude of being happy.

Picking up a chick is largely like a fight, but if you're too competitive, maybe your words and actions aren't so calm, even if you say you're especially attentive to her. It is often said that feelings are the things that need to increase your true feelings the most, and whenever a man and a woman get along, an overly strong need between you may make the relationship between you unbalanced.

2. Take the initiative to find common topics.

Since your family lives in different places, your work is also different. So when it comes to chatting with you about one thing, for example, you can say something you like, a sport you like, a movie you like, etc., and when you find the same thing, the chat won't be awkward. Always be careful not to talk about your past ex, so maybe there won't be anything unavoidable.

3. Grasp the rhythm.

You have to learn when it's appropriate to joke, and what's so special about you like a variety show? At first, he had a point of view, which was to talk to promos, personal talk shows, to set an opinion, to revolve around that point of view, and they all started to be funny, saying that those funny things can be said for a long time, even when chatting with buddies, because we can't be funny with one person all the time. Some people do a lot of ways to flirt with girls, in the beginning stage, so it is important to shake out your own humor appropriately, that is, you have to shake out your funny aspects, you have to make others think that you are not just blind, if the show starts to say that it is funny, you will get tired if you say it for too long, and the content of the chat still has to be consistent with the content of your chat.

You don't know what to say to a girl, in fact, you are too nervous, you pay too much attention to what the other person thinks of you, maybe you will be very nervous, and the more you talk, the more nervous you may become, you may always want to find something to say, maybe the more you don't know what to say, you and your friends and family may not be like this. Since you won't pay attention to their thoughts at all, chatting is easy. The more indifferent you are about chatting with girls, the more you will do more with less.

If you talk to a girl you don't know, you can generally say hello to the other party politely in the first sentence at the beginning, hello, can you make a friend?

Create some chance encounters, or just like in school, the same table that I didn't know at first, left and right, and then I got to know each other.

If this girl usually is.

Boys want to chase the girl they like but don't dare to chase her, and they want others to chase her, I'm disgusted.

From a girl's point of view, I understand the psychology of girls better. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, except for brave girls who really like it too much or have more personality. So, if you like a girl very much and think that she is also a little interesting to you, then take the initiative and don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, you will be uncomfortable, and maybe the person you like will also be miserable.

Of course, the mouth should be a little sweeter, such as hello beauty.

Can the beauty tell me xx how to get around this place? Beauty, do me a favor.

Hehe, I want to talk to a girl I don't know.

It's very simple, huh.

Basket, actinium! Is it a shark?

What time is it, please.

Oh. Didn't you bring a watch?

Why still ask me.

I wanted to see if it was the same as my time.

If she continues to talk to you, then it's OK.

If she has no choice but to leave, I can do nothing.

The next thing you can say is that you are waiting for someone

Play for yourself.

The easiest chat start:

1. Find topics according to the circle of friends.

2. Find topics based on your avatar.

3. Direct emoji opening.

4. Find a topic according to the other party's nickname.

I used to be like many boys, I didn't flirt with girls, I didn't have high emotional intelligence, and I missed a lot of good opportunities. Later, after systematically studying in the "Alpine Love Network", after a lot of actual combat, he became a love saint. In fact, even if you are not tall, handsome or rich, as long as you master the correct flirting skills, you can still make girls like you.

Offline life is a small theater, and online life is a theater within a theater. Once a middle-aged aunt falls in love with a barrage when she watches film and television works, it's like a spicy aunt who always has to be an old godmother when she eats, and she is energetic!

On weekends, in the promenade of the Summer Palace, there were middle-aged female tourists from a family of five who took a group photo with them. Father and mother sit in the front row, and the family of three stands in the back row. There was a slight distance between the parents' seats, and before I could prompt them, the daughter smiled and scolded her parents:

How? You don't know each other, do you? Be compact.

One sentence amused everyone.

This sentence has become a golden sentence for my husband and I to tease each other every day. Its universal applicability is as if we spoofed the Tang poem "A branch of red apricot comes out of the wall" to do the universal downlink. (The small lotus showed its sharp corners, and a red apricot came out of the wall; I smiled at the sky with my horizontal knife, and a red apricot came out of the wall; Don't worry about the road ahead, there is no confidant, and a red apricot comes out of the wall to ......）

Exit from the Summer Palace and pick up your car at the parking lot. The convention is that I drive, and he prepares his mobile phone *** to pay (to save time waiting for the door). When he got to the exit, he was playing a mobile game in the passenger seat and forgot to prepare the payment for the mobile phone *** in advance, I blame him:

Why, we don't know each other, do we? The toll collector laughed.

At noon, eat at the restaurant. After sitting down, I just poured tea for my own teacup, ignoring Mr.'s teacup the whole time, and he lifted the rod: "Why, we don't know each other, do we?" "The next table hides his face.

At night, after the sea walk. I just strode in front of me, and no matter how my husband swayed behind, we were ten meters apart. I happened to meet two neighbors coming to meet me, and after saying hello to me, I met my husband again.

I heard my husband complain loudly: I don't know her. The laughter of the neighbors lasted for a long time behind my back.

We don't know each other" lit up my weekend.

The scenes you encounter in life can always make you so happy.

Take a break at noon and walk around the company with my colleagues. The two young ladies in front of them were complaining about their mothers all the way.

A: My mother is simply "worried about me", worried that I will be cold when the temperature drops, worried about the price ** I will save, worried that eating takeout will ruin my stomach, and worried that I will be guilty of not being ladylike. There's nothing in the world that she doesn't worry about.

To my mom, the world was like an unsewn quilt that would always leak out and stick to me. It was as if her worries were like needles trying to stitch up those horrible cracks one by one.

B: My mom is called "Love to Dance". Jumping in the morning, at noon, and at night, I can't care about cooking for my dad, and I can't wait to rush into the square to pull my mom out, just like she pulled me out of the Internet café back then, not only to defend my dad's rights, but also to avenge her for cutting off my game back then.

Just when I thought that the two young ladies would keep complaining, their words reversed and caught me off guard.

A: I was worried that my mother's cervical spondylosis would happen again, so I bought her a cervical spine ** instrument.

For situations where you are not very good at chatting.

The best way to solve the fundamental problem is to learn to speak more, practice more communication skills, and improve the basic ability to chat.

There are also short-term solutions. There are different responses to different situations. Here are some examples:

1. The other party is very good at chatting, talking a lot, and the language logic is better. At this time, as long as there are some small questions about the content of the other party's statement in the interval between the other party's words, such as why this is happening, it is true, yes, I think so too, etc. And after the other party finished speaking, or in the process, nodded slightly in agreement.

If you don't agree with the other party's point of view, you can choose to refute it, for example, can you say that this is really the case, can you give an example to prove it...

2. The other party has a lot of words, and there is a lot of narrative and storytelling. This situation is still to listen more, and nod slightly in agreement, interspersed with words such as um, yes, yes. And expressed interest in the other party's narrative, asked about the follow-up development, details, etc.

3. The other party speaks less. At this point, you have to take the initiative to stir up some topics, and since neither party is chatting hotly, it is best to choose a topic that is lighthearted and pleasant and the other party is likely to be interested in. For example:

Have you ever drunk Red Bull to two pot heads? The milk tea in a certain milk tea shop is really delicious! The movie looks interesting, have you seen it?

Use these simple questions to find out what the other person is interested in, and then discuss it together.

You're sick of the heart.

Maybe it's your life that has lost its color, so you feel like everything that's happening around you isn't worth being a talking about. But life is tasteless and enjoyable. To be happy, to be sad, to try to discover the beauty of life.

For example, if you see someone interesting on the bus, you can share it with your friends, even if you don't think it makes sense.

I would like to give you a word: on the calm sea, anyone will hold the boat.

If you live like this, it will have a great impact on your future. When you understand what I said, you'll be talking with others.

It's very simple, you can say whatever you think in your heart, and if you think very much in your heart, but you don't know, just say it.

I miss you so much, but I don't know. Your question.

In fact, it is a problem of your attitude towards people and things, a problem of mentality. Nothing needs to be forced. It will only add to your own troubles. Taoism is natural. It's just ordinary, so it's long.