I kind of hated my parents

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, the most important thing is that they are afraid that you will be deceived, no matter how much you observe and understand your boyfriend, don't rush to get married, whether it is really worth your effort.

Do you rely on them, and if you don't let go of them after the age of letting go, are you still you? You lack courage and difficulties with your parents and insist on your own confidence Re-examine yourself This problem is from someone else's point of view The father is more or less shy about his daughter, and he is not at ease with his daughter to anyone. Succeed in one and show him that he can see that you don't need to rely on him anymore, that you have surpassed him, that you no longer need his excessive worries.

You can try to empathize with it, or you can make a promise with your boyfriend in front of your parents, pay attention, be serious, talk about your determination, I hope they can understand, or you can try to do wholesale by yourself first, if the achievement is very good, maybe your parents will slowly support you, that's it, I hope it will help you

I'll answer it for you.

1.Your father received a text message from you and said, "You don't read much." (Your father is happy, he accepts it, but his mouth is unforgiving).

2.At the beginning, it was mentioned that he bought a case of wine on this day, and if you want to improve his relationship with your boyfriend, ask him to drink with him a few times and take your time.

3.Of course, whispering to your mother will reach your father's ears, and career matters don't need to be mentioned so early.

4.(They didn't agree with my marriage to my boyfriend, in fact, they were afraid that my boyfriend would cheat on my house,。。 It's ridiculous. I think there's a big problem with my parents).

Answer: You misunderstand, not because you are afraid of being cheated on the house, but because you, in their hearts, your happiness is the most important thing. Always talk about the house, on the one hand, ask the man to give determination and provide a guarantee, but the man can't get the house and needs to take action to show it, you have to think about this again.

years, when it comes to how to break up, you really have to think about it, today's love is based on the economy, and I am against it.

This situation in your family is not uncommon, as the old saying goes: every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and I myself have come over like this, and the current situation is not good, and the difficulties can be pushed a lot, and I am overcoming them every day.

The most important thing is for you, keep a positive attitude, and the rainbow will eventually appear after the storm.

Alas, the child does not worry about traveling thousands of miles, and the mother does not worry about traveling thousands of miles. Fathers are not that, men do more, talk less, the starting point is good, maybe the method is not appropriate, but the son must be considerate of the father, he gave you everything.

It's like a naked marriage, but there is no way to do a lot of things, and your parents are also afraid that you will suffer in the future, you can understand but don't have hatred, talk more, and find relatives to do work.

Divide it, why did your boyfriend go, he can't do a job to please his father-in-law, and he pushes it to a woman. We should do our best to protect women!!

You should communicate with them well.

What if you start hating your parents.

Hello dear! 1. Be aware of the resentment in your heartWe need to know when we have resentment, so that we can seize the opportunity to solve it, so we need to be aware of our resentment. For example, when you remember something that your parents used to do to you, you have an emotion in your heart, and you are clearly aware of what this emotion is, then you can capture it, feel the feeling it brings, and then the feeling slowly disappears.

You need to accept yourself to become aware of resentment. If you always deny that you resent your parents, then when you have this emotion, you will quickly run away, or you will not be aware of it at all, and you will fall into resentment towards your parents and you will not be able to extricate yourself. 2. Don't treat yourself as a victim and resent your parents are actually treating yourself as a victim, thinking that the way you are now is caused by your parents.

For the past, it is just an idea and memory in our minds, and as long as we let go of the memory, we can let go of the resentment towards our parents. When you no longer see yourself as a victim, you are actually letting go of that memory, allowing yourself to start a new life, and using the current concept to determine your future. You don't have to change your present self because of past memories, you are free and you can do whatever you want.

Hello classmates There will be certain disputes between people, including parents. Some people have some quarrels or resentments due to the different concepts of being with their parents, how should we resolve these resentments at this time? In fact, it is relatively simple, first of all, you need to find the cause of resentment, and only by fundamentally resolving resentment can you solve the problem.

Let's focus on this issue. 1. First of all, we must find the key point of resentment, and it is estimated that many people are surprised when they see these problems. There is no overnight feud between parents and children, but that doesn't mean that children aren't hurt.

As the resentment towards our parents slowly accumulates from childhood to adulthood, if we want to resolve it at this time, we must find the key point of resentment. 2. Try to communicate with your parents Now that you have found the key point of resentment against your parents, which is what we call the reason. At this time, if you want to resolve the resentment with your parents, as a junior, you can also take the initiative to communicate with your parents.

If parents are willing to accept our reasonable proposals, then these problems will be solved, so communication is especially important. 3. Look at how the follow-up parents are doing, the formation of a habit is not formed in a day, it definitely takes time to accumulate over time. And some of the behaviors of our parents make us disgusted, or even resentful, then our parents may also have these behaviors in our daily lives.

Now that I have communicated with my parents and reached a certain agreement, I will definitely continue to observe some of my parents' behavior and habits in the future. See if they make corrections, and if it's our own problem, then we need to correct it.