My boyfriend suddenly stopped loving me, and I couldn t understand it

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1.If you really can't let it go, then you're trying to get it back.

    Give him a time limit and let him be quiet. During this waiting time, you have to hold on, do something, divert your attention, and pay attention to him every day with normal care. It's up to you to decide what you can afford.

    During this time limit, if he really regrets it and is with you as he said upstairs, then I am really happy to remember that I have to change my problems in the future and make myself better and better. Then, you have to pay more attention to him to keep the relationship fresh. And try to convince yourself not to love him so much, because you can't guarantee that there won't be a 2nd, but if there's a 2nd, he's not worth it.

    If he doesn't respond within this time limit, you should take the initiative to talk to him. At this time, you have to believe that something is really wrong with you, he is really not as good as you think, and if you don't feel it for half a month, why don't you think he has a new feeling? Make it clear to him.

    If he makes it clear that he wants to separate, you must also turn around and leave. In that case, you will only say it if you really don't love it... Remember that you can let go and live a better life, and the point is that you have to be happy yourself.

    2.Time will prove that we can let go of any feelings. We can all live well without anyone, the question is whether you want to make yourself well.

    3.Whether it's 1 or 2, you're going to be tormented for a while... Again, hold on, divert your attention, and try to make yourself better.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, sad about it, are you talking about marriage, if not, then everything is a floating cloud! A man can only really tie his heart to marriage and family, otherwise it is easy to change his mind! Half a month has changed so much, alas, nothing happened, who believes it?

    And if you're not young, there's really no need to worry about a negative person! I wish you happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's been too long, I'm a man, I've lived like this, you give him a little time, he will calm down, and if you separate he will definitely regret it in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Seeing that you have left so many words at once, in fact, I believe that no amount of words can fully express what you really want to tell. I can understand your desperate attempt to grasp any possibility.

    One thing you need to understand is that none of us is the man you love, and only he can know what he really thinks in his heart! In fact, I have always believed that responsibility is greater than love in love. I feel that this kind of thing is often beyond my own control, let alone others.

    Many people in love should have this feeling, sometimes they love him to death, sometimes they don't miss him very much, and even feel that it is rare to enjoy a person's life (of course, this situation is mostly in quarrels). The emotional line of people is undulating. After being together for a long time, the feeling will slowly fade into a habit, and I don't mean to say that there is no love.

    It's just that love will become less intense.

    I don't know if you have a big lady's temper, or if you were unhappy before. This led to his alienation. You say he's a good man.

    I can't deny it. Because I don't know the stories between you. But he's definitely a very ego guy, and I don't know how far you've gotten between you.

    But it can be said that he can love you for "love", and he can also leave without looking back for "not love". He is not the first in the relationship, and he is by no means the only one.

    It's true that the relationship between you can't stand the test, but you don't feel it after being separated for half a month, and to put it mildly, you have to ask yourself if you are yourself more and more because you rely on him too much, and you lose your charm. Or is it because he pays too much attention to feelings, and only cares about every minute and every second, and it lasts forever.

    Advice for you: Ask him why he doesn't feel good for you anymore? Find out why. If it's something that can be redeemed. You also want to find your favorite self in the lost love...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Love is not sweet words in the shade of flowers, not honey words in the peach blossom garden, not light tears, not even rigid compulsion, love is based on a common language.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What is yours is yours, and what is not yours is not yours.

    I love this quote, especially when it comes to feelings and money.

    I believe that you will also have your own happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's just that you don't know that you've been kept in the dark, from his perfunctory and impatient with you, not replying to messages, and being cold and violent, all of which have exposed the fact that she doesn't love you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Maybe he never loved you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should ask your boyfriend this question, you don't know why he is like this all of a sudden, you should ask him, if you think your boyfriend is because he doesn't love you anymore, then you can talk, if you think your boyfriend is because you are pregnant, so he doesn't love you, then you can consider whether you want this child, because your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, he won't care about your life or death, he doesn't want to marry you, then he definitely doesn't love you, don't want this child, you can think about it yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The disappearance of love often requires a process, and generally does not disappear suddenly, just as falling in love with someone actually requires a process, and most of the love at first sight is often just a matter of lust, after all, you just see the other person's appearance, so naturally you are only attracted because of the other party's appearance.

    There is a distinction between love and non-love, and generally it is not from love directly to not love, but the degree of love has deepened or become shallow.

    is similar to a girl, when she first got together with her other half, she was gentle and considerate and understanding, so her boyfriend was also very good to her and loved her. And after being together for a long time, she began to slowly "behave", often having a little temper, being unreasonable, and so on.

    And when she first started, her boyfriend was still very tolerant of her, and she could also feel loved when her boyfriend tolerated her willfulness again and again. But maybe one day, when I am willful again, my boyfriend does not come to coax him, but chooses to stay away and break up, and it may be difficult for me to accept, why he loved me so much before, but now he suddenly doesn't love me.

    In fact, no boy would like a girl's willful, vexatious behavior. Maybe boys will tolerate and accommodate girls when they are willful, but they don't like girls' behavior, but just because they love girls, they are willing to tolerate. But every time it is inclusive, it is really consuming the love of boys for girls, and when this love is consumed, the man will no longer choose to tolerate, because he has no love in his heart.

    So in the eyes of girls, boys' hobbies seem to have disappeared suddenly, but in fact, when there is a problem with each other's relationship, love has been slowly decreasing, but they haven't discovered and paid attention to it. When the other party's love is exhausted, I realize that the other party's love has disappeared, so the other party's love is not suddenly gone, the other party's love is constantly consumed, but I didn't find it early.

    Love can arise between two people or disappear between two people, but in general, love does not disappear suddenly, but only slowly decreases. Therefore, the relationship needs to be managed and maintained, and how well you get along at the moment largely determines how long you can be together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, your boyfriend suddenly doesn't love you for a while, there are several reasons, one is that he likes someone else, and the other is that he is not satisfied with some of your parts.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Why does your boyfriend suddenly stop loving you? Yes, perhaps, he was out there and saw a better woman than you, so he didn't love you anymore.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your boyfriend suddenly doesn't love you anymore, what should you do, accept the reality and find a boyfriend you like.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In a relationship, if one party is often needed to coax him, he will feel bored after a long time. Maybe he just feels tired and wants to take a break, and he won't say that he doesn't love the worm Yu You also give him some personal space to calm down.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is never anything that you don't love suddenly, and the emptiness may be accumulated for a long time and you don't feel emptiness. When a man and a woman fall in love at the beginning, they often come together because of the mutual attraction of two people, but if the two really start to get along after establishing a love relationship, what they need after that is to cherish each other and respect each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, you have to communicate with your boyfriend about what problems have arisen between the two of you, and you must trust each other quietly and quickly, so as to better solve your own problems.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think this little boy, well, he has always wanted to go home, is he not at home may encounter some things, I don't think he doesn't love you, but he can meet some things recently and seems to be a little busy, but his real heart, or like you, from him to pull you to joke with you, because only people who love you will joke with you, I love you The people of the stall banquet are really too lazy to joke with you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If your boyfriend has been hot and cold to you these days, maybe he is busy with something, maybe he doesn't like you so much, but you don't have to think too much about not loving or not loving.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I can tell you for sure that he must have no love for you at that time, and he was very aware of the struggle in his heart, and he could suddenly say the words "break up", which shows that he has long wanted to break up in his heart, but there are still some reluctances, so he dragged it like this. Girl, go directly to him for a showdown and be frank, see what he wants to do, if it is not good, then you will directly propose to break up, so as not to make both parties suffer.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It shouldn't be, they all say that the man has tears and doesn't flick, he can cry for you, proving your importance in his heart, he doesn't have the same concern for you as before recently, maybe it's because there is something in his heart, two people care about each other together, your boyfriend is suddenly like this, it is estimated that there is something on his mind, you should close your pants more and worry about his friend.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There are still some problems between you that you don't know about, and he doesn't want to talk about it. It may be a very serious real problem. And judging from your boyfriend's behavior, he doesn't want to be separated from you, and it's because Duan Que is entangled in that problem that he deliberately colds you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Your boyfriend is crying for you, which means that he still loves you, but he doesn't know how to make you happy, not that you are willing to call you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You can observe through his words and deeds and recent attitude towards you, you will understand, if you don't want to ask him directly, then through these things, including WeChat's **, I don't like to contact you, then it is obvious that he is not interested in you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't think there is some Xiangyan misunderstanding between you and you don't communicate well, or your boyfriend usually has a lot of work pressure but doesn't confide, which leads to a brother's banquet between you, so take a little time to sit down and talk about your heart.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Your boyfriend should have encountered something, your relationship should have gone wrong, but the problem should be with him, he may really want to break up with you, you can just bury it and don't meet him to let him think about it, and then have a good chat with him.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You're too sensitive, and he doesn't love you. Guess he's done a great job with you. When he is angry, he will coax you.

    When you're leaving, he'll pull you. And he'll make you breakfast as usual. When you go home, it will also ask you about the electricity.

    Isn't this the type of love for you?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Calm down. Maybe you can't accept it when you leave him. Think about it, and if you think he's not the person you should be with for the rest of your life, let it go.

    If you figured it out, then go and chase him back, even if it was begging for it. Rent well, love him, and don't let him leave!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    When talking about feelings, everyone should accommodate each other, especially girls, to accommodate the stubborn temper of boys, you have all lived together in the same acre of Chihu, and you have passed the time of mutual suspicion, so you can get his favor by showing weakness a little, don't always suspect that he doesn't love you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Maybe he has some hidden disease, and he doesn't have the key to tell you, or he has something on his mind, and he won't solve it for a while, plus you make such a fuss, the misunderstanding will be even greater, you can try to communicate with him and understand what happened.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you meet your boyfriend, break up as soon as possible, he definitely doesn't mean to play with the model, because if you say this kind of thing, it means that there is a crack in your relationship, and you won't be happy with this clever boy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    First of all, your Qingqi relationship has passed the period of hot love, and many things have returned to normal, he no longer cares about your position like before, but the answer is that Tangyu Gao is also maintaining this relationship in his own way, and your way needs to be changed, but as for whether you can go on? It remains to be seen how it develops in the future.

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