What if I want to have love and become a Buddha?

It's not a contradiction, it's okay to get married and believe in Buddhism.

I don't think your brain is very good.,How beautiful love is.,Hey,Love.。。。

Only by keeping the five precepts can we truly enjoy life. Enjoying life is not getting drunk, not knowing the east and west, north and south every day, can it be called enjoying life? Isn't it playing with women, messing up other people's families, or making women lose their bodies, resentful and wanting to kill themselves, can this be called enjoying life?

It's not bragging, it's a happy mouth, and people don't believe it behind their backs. It's not the delicacies of the mountains and the sea, it's full of Clostridium botulinum, three highs of cancer, and it's painful, not to mention theft and greed.

To truly enjoy life is to do what you want without exceeding the rules, which is the highest state of life. Only by abiding by the rules can you enjoy life, and the five precepts are the most basic rules. Keeping the five precepts is practice, so there is no contradiction between self-cultivation and becoming a Buddha and enjoying life, the key is how to understand.

Be a Buddha on a single day, and love on a double day.

Divert your attention.

Actually, at your age.

Both men and women should get married, so this mentality is normal.

You should be pampered by love for a long time.

Suddenly I don't fit in, jealousy needs to rely on, I need to care.

It's not a good fit for you to continue looking for now, but you can't be quiet, so I suggest you talk to your parents and then divert your attention, and then look for it after a while when you find that your mind is not so messy, I dare say that if you look for it now, it will definitely not be too perfect.

I don't know if you're trying to ask how to solve love, or if it's your current desire for love.

Do you think 23 is a big deal? I'm 27 years old and I'm too early to get married, and of course, I think, I don't want to get married at all. If you're trying to unravel your current desire for love, listen to it. The light of sorrow, for example, the time limit of growing up, mourning, the sound of silence, etc.

If you are trying to get love. Then I feel like you're probably just getting sex, not love. If there is sex first, it is impossible to give birth to love.

Obviously, the man is a more conservative and traditional person, and he deserves it, so take your time.

Fully explain that love has become a habit in you, and your life without love is strange to you, so you are so eager to get love, I personally feel that the landlord should not be so eager, the most beautiful and sweet process of love is the uncertainty and not the pit in the constant temptation and speculation, this process is like a suspense film, full of twists and turns, full of unknowns, it is recommended that the landlord and this boy start to enjoy the process、、、 but also wish you a happy and happy ending.

You just have someone to accompany you all the time, and suddenly you are lonely, and you want to find someone to accompany you, but the more you have to be cautious when you get older! Do you tend to emphasize color over friends? Otherwise, you can spread your time away from your family, to your friends, to yourself.

Don't pursue love so blindly, don't abandon friendship even if you have love in the future, people who don't have friendship are very sad.

First of all: understand what you need, and then look around you to see if your friends are worthy of your love. If not, just wait for the other half of your life to appear. "Fate is destined", this sentence, sometimes we have to believe.

Calm down and think about what you really want. Often at this time, the calmer you are, the more you can see the real situation of things, otherwise you will always be entangled. As the saying goes, "the bystanders are clear, and the authorities are confused", the more you drill the horns, the sharper the horns.

Do more of your hobby! Distraction, that's it! It's good to go back to friends more! Don't have too much free time!

If the conditions are good, it is recommended that you can go on a blind date, expand the social circle, if you don't want to make do, then try to find a person who is not improvised, start a relationship, girls have a relatively short youth, they need to hurry, this is right, it takes time to fall in love, and girls should not get married too late.

Then you just need to be observant and believe that you can get acquainted with him in a short time. I'm in favor of that.

Don't be in a hurry to adjust your mentality, love is not so easy to get.

Grow your career! Love is a matter of fate.

I understand... Two words... Idle... Let's go play, travel with your family or something, the world is so big, and you can do a lot of happy things besides love. Love is a part of life, don't you feel bad about falling in love because of emptiness? Whatever happens.

Feelings are always mixed with things like desire and social morality.

Didn't you tell him what you thought, you should tell him what you thought

If you miss him in a relationship, you can call him and tell him that you miss him, or you can go to where he is and surprise him. If it's in the case of your crush on him or if he's still your friend, you can call him in the same tone as you would a friend, and talk to him.

I miss him so much, I've been separated from him for half a month, I cry every night, I think about him, I think about the bits and pieces with him, but he's so ruthless, the more ruthless he is, the better it is for me.

There will definitely be a breakup in life.

I mean the saddest time I had half my life. However, you will learn to be in control of what you encounter in the future, and you will be wary of everyone who will leave at any time. It's useless, it's useless to persuade anyone when you're sad, life is like this, there is a person who will make you unable to eat, you will never forget, you will lose your color in life, and you will lose interest in seeing every opposite sex in your life.

So many times while persuading others, I never persuade myself to pass.

In a long-distance relationship, the success rate is not very high! It needs to be maintained by both parties, if he changes his mind, it is useless for you to be next to him, he is sincere, it doesn't matter how far away you are

The reason why people are miserable is because they want too much, and when the pain is extreme, you will naturally let go. So tell yourself: he doesn't belong to me. Let yourself die that heart.

It's involuntary. It's painful and blissful. If you can't be together, take it as a memory, although you can't bear it. If you have enough fate, take advantage of it. Thinking about being happy alone is, of course, mixed with heartache.

He doesn't want you.

I don't want to love him, but I miss him even more!

There is no medicine for regret in the world, and regret will regret.

Life still has to go on, take good care of yourself.

If you get out of the hurt early, you can get to know other boys.

For example, at this stage, it is impossible to date other boys.

Just let time accompany you to heal.

He doesn't love you.

I never took the initiative to contact my girlfriend or even wanted to break up.

If you love, you will definitely connect.

If you still like him, you take the initiative to contact him, and he wants to contact you again, the last time he texted you and you didn't reply to him, he thought you didn't want to pay attention to him, take the initiative to contact him. Come on, I wish you all happiness.

When you are calm, think about it, whether he really loves you, you should be able to judge, and then decide whether to divide or continue, don't agree to get married on impulse, this is a lifelong thing. If a man wants to get married, he doesn't necessarily have to find a woman he likes, most of the time when a man gets married, he just needs to find someone who likes him. Don't be impulsive, remember!

Remember!

A: You should think about who they are.

Are you a man or a woman, one will him, one will her.

If he is determined not to love you. Don't think about it. If there is an opportunity. Just grasp it. No big deal. Don't leave a regret in your life.

Hehe, hello, since you want to, you will go with him in the future! That way you won't be suffering from lovesickness!

It doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman, you should calm down now.

Wait for him or her to come to you.

I understand your feelings, you can give an example, this is like holding a fine sand in both hands, when you don't use force, it is a round and full handful, but when you exert a little force, those fine sand will flow down the fingers in an instant, until there is no grain left, and the same is true for feelings! The more you want to grasp it, the easier it is for him to get away from you, why not leave him an extra piece of sky and let him soar Hehe, but remember, you have to think of him as your kite, no matter how he flies, the line that controls him is always in your hands Bless you.

If you want to have love, then go boldly to pursue love.

Happiness is achieved by pursuit, not by fantasy.

Find someone to fall in love with and don't feel sorry for yourself here.

Strive to make yourself excellent and attractive, and love will come naturally.

In fact, love is not only to love others, but also to love oneself. How can you be happy if you get along with people you don't like?

Suitable, you can try; If you don't agree, you can put it aside. Putting the pressure aside? Because love is free.

Writer Yang Daxia pointed out that only when you love yourself will you love others.

Some people only pay attention to whether they love themselves or not? In fact, love is a formality. It's hard to meet, and it's even harder to fall in love. After getting along with each other for a long time, you can see the good and the bad, the true and the false.

So in the process of love, the key is to look at his words and actions towards you, as well as your attitude towards him.

Then you have to find love, it is not distributed by the state for free.

The present world is stable, and the years are quiet. It's a pity that I later learned that it was not Zhang Ailing who wrote these two sentences on the marriage book, but the amazing and brilliant negative person, who had a terrible fate in the turbulent years, and only the descendants who did not know the truth were left to bask in happiness over and over again with this oath in the QQ signature.

All love will be, impermanence is rare for a long time, life is fearful, life is in danger of morning dew, from love to worry, from love to fear, if separated from the beloved, worry-free and fearless.

If you don't look back, why don't you forget. If there is no fate, why swear.

You can have love, but don't cling to it, because separation is inevitable.

There is a cause and a fate to gather the world, and there is a cause to gather in the world; There is a cause to destroy the world, and there is a cause to destroy the world.

Brother, you're too good at, aren't you?

Do you know that a monk can marry someone?

The most basic principle of Buddhism is the "abstinence from sex".

You're still thinking about "color".

Hey (There is a knife on the head of the color word, donor, you are out.)

There are a lot of them, or I'll send them to you!

I think the best two lines of love are the poems, "If the two love is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight?"