I m 23 years old, I ve never been in a relationship, I really want to talk, but I don t know how to

Well. I think it's because you haven't met a girl you like.

Don't set yourself a limit.

In fact, many times the girls you better find are not the same as you imagined.

I think you should get along with girls in your usual study and work.

Discover the inner and outer beauty of a girl.

Sometimes it's not that you like someone and you chase her.

It's that you get along with her for a long time before you get along.

You might as well find a girl who you think is better looking or has a good character to spend some time with.

Slowly you will find out what kind of person she is.

Maybe slowly you will be attracted to her.

Like a person depends on feeling.

It is the means that pursue a person.

And that means usually needs to be accumulated by experience.

Of course, it also depends on your own sincerity.

You want to be nice to her.

So do a lot for her.

For example, sending a girl to and from school (picking up a woman to and from school), or you remember her birthday or other special day, give her a gift, etc.

Don't let it be because you're getting older.

But I didn't worry about meeting the right girl.

There are many times when it really takes fate.

Don't be too anxious, there will always be someone who suits you. Girls, because of their personality to decide how to chase!

You're more entangled, you don't know the type, so let's get married.

Often, you want that? I don't know if you're talking about the one that Cang @ Kong often shoots, and it's not just sex to find a girl to fall in love.

Girls who don't fall in love behave.

1.In the face of other people's care and closeness, the first reaction is resistance. I obviously like it, but I have to pretend to be cold first, and I regret it to death when the other party leaves!

2.If you can't understand the other party's hints, falling in love is not like doing arithmetic problems, the relationship itself is an ambiguous thing, and not being able to read the hints can only indicate that the emotional intelligence is not enough.

3.I don't know how to be romantic. Love must be carried out in a very ambiguous atmosphere, if you don't know how to be romantic, you don't know how to flirt, then what kind of love is there!

4.Don't know how to care about each other. Everyone who is obsessed with love is hypocritical to death, and they all suffer from gains and losses. So it's very important to care about each other and give them a sense of security.

5.I don't know how to create an atmosphere, and the other party said a warm word, which should have been an ambiguous moment, but you didn't show moving, but teasing the other party and laughing. This kind of self-righteous humor, how will the other party speak next time?

6.I don't know how to think from the other person's point of view. More than 50% of singles don't know how to empathize. There is an old saying in my country that you know yourself and your opponent, and you will not be defeated in a hundred battles. Don't start from the other person's point of view, go your own way, so it's strange not to be single.

If you feel that you are already 30 years old and will not be in love, then I think that in fact, if you are 30 years old and will not be in love, then you can take the initiative to find a love, there is no need to wait for love to take the initiative to find yourself, if you have been, waiting, then it is very likely that you will not wait for a lifetime, so only if you take the initiative and talk about a few more loves, you will be able to understand how to fall in love.

In fact, you are past the age of falling in love at this age, and now you just want to end your singleness and get married and have children as soon as possible, but it doesn't matter if you are mainly looking for a boy you like to fall in love, because the most important thing about falling in love is to look at your own feelings, if you like this boy and have feelings for this boy, it has nothing to do with your age.

If you really can't fall in love, in your thirties, it's not too young, it's time to work hard. Take the initiative to contact the boy you like, take the initiative to approach, and exercise yourself more to make friends of the opposite sex. You say that you don't feel like you're going to fall in love, I think it may be that you have some characteristics that are not easy to approach, or other reasons, otherwise, you won't be able to talk, and there will be boys chasing you.

Find a specific reason, prescribe the right medicine, as long as someone takes the initiative to chase you, it's easy to do, among the boys chasing you, choose what you like, try to contact as much as possible, and fall in love over time, it's easy to do together.

There is nothing particularly difficult about falling in love, as long as you can communicate with people normally, it is okay, love is to find each other's good and bad, if you feel that the other party's life habits and character, you can accept it, you can continue, if you can't accept it, break up directly, and then look for the next fate!

Then you should ask the other person to give you a sense of security, and you already feel that you will not be in a relationship, indicating that you are seriously insecure. If you don't live in a happy relationship, then you need the other party to give you a sense of security, tell the other party what is in your heart, and let the other party know.

If you don't talk much about love, and you don't want to be left, then mobilize relatives and friends around you to introduce more boys, and then talk about it, it will be better, if you meet it alone, the success rate will be very low, and there is a danger of leftovers!

This falling in love requires feeling. This one is like an animal, everyone is actually born in love. Girls, in fact, you don't have to be so active, just wait for a boy who likes you to pursue you.

So you don't have to learn to fall in love at all, it's innate, it's human instinct.

Through your narrative, you can see that you have not yet fully developed a sense of trust in him, so you always feel that you can't let go. If you want to change this situation, you can only change it through your efforts. The so-called love must first be talked about, and you can do this.

You find one, you ask him to come up with a topic of mutual interest to discuss, it is okay to have a quarrel, as the discussion deepens, you will find that the two of you talk more and more, through the exchange of ideas, the two of you will deepen their understanding of each other, and in the long run, you will reach the point where you have nothing to talk about, and the relationship will naturally develop. Second, try to create opportunities for the two of you to be together, you might as well participate in more outdoor activities, go for a walk together, participate in exercise together, and go on an outing together. At the same time, care about him and be considerate of him in life, such as often asking him about his physical health and whether his work is going well, and use your carefulness and thoughtfulness to impress him, so that he feels that it is good to have you, so as to have a feeling of reluctance to be separated from you, and then your relationship can be further sublimated.

I sincerely hope that the two of you can live happily together in the future and achieve a wonderful marriage.

Hello, the advice for you is to contact more people, or let the family introduce you, if you are in love, take your time, communicate with each other first, get along like friends first, just like you and your friends, you just treat him as your friend, and then, and then go deeper. And then, it's good for him. Let's take it slowly.

You yourself won't fall in love, it should be because your personality is more introverted, and you are not good at expressing yourself, you should be like this without socializing, you should muster up the courage to go out to socialize more and meet more friends, so that you won't feel like you can't fall in love.

In your 30s, it is normal to crave love and marriage, if you feel that you are not very good at falling in love, then you can ask relatives and friends to help you go on a blind date, I think blind date is the best way to find your other half, and it is also the most time-saving.

Although you are in your 30s and have no experience in love, it means that you are a person who has high requirements for a romantic partner, or you are a shy person, then you have to learn to change yourself, make yourself more extroverted, and go out a little more socially to contact the opposite sex to find the object you like.

I don't think you should pay too much attention to this aspect of yourself, and don't worry too much, your fate is definitely still on the way, and when it is time to come, he will definitely come, but he is walking a little slowly, and the last one may be the best.

1.Don't give up, you still have a chance.

2.Age is not an issue. Just be yourself.

3.I hope to work hard to improve my abilities in all aspects.

You can make more friends, attend more parties, and improve your social skills through communication, and slowly you will like to communicate, and when you meet someone you like, you also like to pursue and communicate.

If you are lucky enough to meet someone who suits you, then in love, just follow your heart, don't do anything deliberately, just go to your heart.

In love, we must learn to be honest with each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, and accept each other's shortcomings, so that in love, two people will experience happiness. Love will also go very long.

Falling in love is also a subject of knowledge and not graduating, getting along with the opposite sex, how to speak, how to do things, are all an art.

You can read the book, just learn to be a person, there is no need to learn to fall in love, love is a natural thing, and there is no need to do anything.

I think that when you are with someone you like, you must show him your gentle side, take the initiative to accompany each other, and if the other party likes you, he will take the initiative to pursue you, confess to you, and love you with sincerity.

It doesn't matter, it's all very normal, no one is born in love, it's not in the process of their own continuous learning and exploration, they learn to fall in love. And a good love will also make people grow, make people more generous, more tolerant, more understanding and tolerant of others.

It's normal, you haven't been in love many times, haven't you? You are not an expert in love, ordinary people don't talk much about love, often just talk about it according to their own ideas, the main thing is that two people understand each other first, if they really have good feelings for each other, two people can engage in that, engagement ceremony! After a while, you can get married.

Maybe it's because you haven't met someone you like for a while, and you are more introverted and not good at socializing and communicating with others, which leads to such thoughts.

When you meet someone you like, I believe you will know how to fall in love, after all, falling in love with someone you like is a very happy and happy thing.

I don't think I need any tricks to fall in love since I'm in my 30s.

As long as the two parties meet and know each other and understand each other, they can have more contact. Don't ask for too much financial conditions from the other party, that's for the best.

Because nowadays, many people don't like it the most, that is, the woman asks the man for a bride price, a house, a car, and so on.

There is no woman who will not fall in love, it's just that you haven't found the other half you like.

If there is a boy who makes you tempted, you will naturally like each other and be willing to give your love, care and consideration to each other.

Falling in love doesn't need to be taught, it's everyone's instinct.

How can we find the object! What should men and women focus on when starting a new relationship? In order to find the right person as much as possible?

Personally, I think that men and women should at least have the following three points in love, and to achieve these three points, it can be said that the following three points are the foundation of love and the guarantee of happiness, all of which are indispensable. In love, the first thing that can come together with each other is feeling. Namely:

After contact with each other, whether it is the other party's appearance conditions, or the other party's words and deeds, speaking methods and attitudes, they all give you a very comfortable and pleasant feeling, and there is no sense of rejection for you, then this kind of love can be worth your continued relationship and continue to deepen. Those who only want the beauty or handsomeness of the other party, but ignore the other person's character, thoughts, concepts, mentality, etc., will definitely not be happy. Because this kind of love is blind and wrong, she is like a cancer of love, and time will slowly punish her.

If you can, it's best if the background of the family can also be consistent, or roughly equal, but this is only for reference, after all, it is only an external factor, it really depends on the love or each other's inner psychology, but it cannot be ignored, because in love, it is not the business of the two of each other, Kikai is involved in the affairs of the two big families. This point is worth considering carefully and taking the source seriously. People with good character have the heart and spirit of self-discipline, self-control and gratitude, abiding by morality, and being loyal to love, because they know what respect is and what is called human.

Therefore, an object of good character is definitely the guarantee of a happy marriage in love and marriage.

Be bold and learn to take the initiative to socialize more, from a girl's point of view, girls rarely pursue their favorite boys, and after meeting girls who like to be rough and happy, they feel that girls have a good impression of themselves, then do it, all girls will be closed when they are chased, don't think that they are observing you, girls also have to convince themselves, they will be afraid of getting and losing, and they must be patient when chasing girls.

The best way to eliminate socks is to go out and communicate with others more, friends bring a lot of losses, and the excitement will slowly get better, and you will meet the person who is set up. The important thing is to learn to communicate and interact with others.