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The sea accepts the swimming fish and gives the swimming fish living space, and the swimming fish makes the sea colorful; The sky accepts the white clouds, giving them a blue sky, and the white clouds adorn the sky; The forest accepts the birds, gives them space to move, and the birds make the forest more colorful.
Respect for others is a virtue, and learning to accept is also a virtue. Only by learning to accept can we respect others, and people must accept each other. If we don't accept others, and if we blame them for their fault, then we will not only fail to see the good in others, but we will also lose their friendship.
We will never have friends if we only see the shortcomings of others. Learn to accept, and then you will look at others with a comprehensive vision, instead of blindly "picking thorns". Even if you see the shortcomings of others, you will not hide his strengths.
Only by constantly learning the advantages, correcting the shortcomings, and learning from each other's strengths will we make ourselves more perfect. Gain friends and earn the respect of others. Acceptance will make people excellent and improve people's moral realm; Acceptance will make people more harmonious and get along with each other without worrying about it; Acceptance makes the world more exciting, richer, and makes our lives more colorful.
If the safflower does not accept the green leaves, there will be no "safflower and green leaves" beauty; If the sky does not accept the rainbow, there will be no wonder of "red, orange, yellow, green, blue, purple, who holds the color and practices dancing in the air". If we could not accept each other, there would be no harmonious society.
May the green mountains always be there and the green water will flow forever. This is always the best blessing. There is more acceptance of the sea in the world, and the feedback of swimming fish; A little more acceptance of safflowers, dedication of green leaves.
In this way, our world will have this "scene" that should only exist in the sky, and it is rare for the world to "see" a beautiful picture.
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Accept your imperfections.
Everyone should have a self-design for what kind of person they want to become. But this design should be relatively vague, imperfect and subject to revision. But in life, there are people who compete with themselves, thinking that they can't do it or that, and they feel that their actual self is too far away from their design self, and they are miserable because of it.
In fact, these people tend to ignore the most basic reality, which is that everyone has flaws. "Jade, it's true that there is a little flaw. ”
There is a private entrepreneur with a leg disability, after more than ten years of hard work, he finally became a well-known sculptor and a big boss who operates fine carving products. Someone said to him, "If you didn't have a disability, I'm afraid you would be more successful."
He smiled indifferently and said, "You may have a point, but I don't regret it. Because if I hadn't gotten polio, I would have been a farmer early, so how would I have had time to study and master a branch?
I should thank God for giving me a mutilated body. "There are also Roosevelt and Churchill, Roosevelt was re-elected to the United States for four consecutive terms, but few people know that he was once a witch doctor and an alcoholic; Winston Churchill was the most famous prime minister in British history, winning the Nobel Prize in 1953, but he was also a sleeper, a drunkard, and twice kicked out of his office for smoking opium. But they all painfully got rid of the bad habits of their youth, and through unremitting efforts, they achieved great things.
The desire for perfection is one of the human nature, and with it, human beings will never be satisfied with the development of human beings. We strive for perfection, but at the same time we must learn to accept our imperfections.
The inability to accept our imperfections stems from the anxiety we often feel when we compare our ideal selves to our actual selves. It must be understood that the ideal self is an ultimate goal that can only be approached after several years or a lifetime of unremitting efforts and can never be 100% achieved. If we can't accept our own shortcomings and give birth to pain such as forgetfulness and insomnia, we can only get farther and farther away from our goal.
The inability to accept one's own imperfections also comes from an inferiority complex caused by incorrect comparisons with others. Comparing oneself with those who are much higher than oneself, comparing one's own shortcomings with the advantages of others, and comparing all aspects of oneself with the advantages of different people, the result of the comparison is that everything is inferior to others, and everyone is better than oneself.
Life is like this, you have to know how to accept your imperfections.
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Acceptance is a kind of heart.
Acceptance is a form of trust.
Acceptance is an understanding.
Acceptance is a form of respect.
Acceptance is a strength.
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There is such a kind of sunshine.
Every day, the sun rises and the moon floats, and you enjoy the baptism of sunshine ......
There is such a kind of sunshine called warmth, there is such a kind of sunshine called encouragement, there is such a kind of sunshine called friendship, there is such a kind of sunshine called care, there are too many difficulties in life to pass, and every time you pass a kind of difficulty, you will experience a kind of sunshine.
There is such a sunshine in the sky of failure, it takes you out of that sad space, it takes you to the next success. Don't be immersed in sadness and frustration for a failure, seize the sunshine when you fail, and walk towards the brightest tomorrow with the sunshine.
There is such a ray of sunshine in the lonely space, it will take you out of loneliness, get rid of troubles, he will let you have friendship and friends, as long as you have this ray of sunshine, you will definitely get out of the lonely space and feel the excitement when you are with friends again.
There is such a kind of sunshine in the world of lies, so that you wander in the mouth of the truth and the fiery heart, as long as you firmly believe that there is sincerity in the world of lies, then no matter how dark the world is, it will make you crimson and brighten, forever, so that you can feel the joy of sincerity again.
There is such a ray of sunshine in the sad territory, it makes the tears no longer fall, it makes the sorrow run away, it takes you out of the sad territory, it takes you to the happy place, where there is a valley of forgetfulness, which makes you forget all the melancholy and tears that should not be there.
There is a kind of sunshine called self-confidence; There is a kind of sunshine called friendship; There is a kind of sunshine called sincerity; There is a kind of sunshine called happiness. On the road of life, we must grasp every ray of sunshine, use all kinds of sunshine to warm the hearts of some people, and use every ray of sunshine to let everyone feel the warmth of the sun.
It is another day of joy when the sun rises, another day of melancholy when the sun sets, but it is also the lonely cold ...... of a lonely moon and cold stars in a night
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