My mother doesn t care about me anymore, my mother only cares about my studies, never cares about my

You, like me, come from a single-parent family.

But I've always been reluctant to my stepdad or anything.

Mom once looked for one, but every time I was bad, I saw that man, I would scold him for worthless, but he never replied, although I said that I was very excessive, but I think the more he didn't talk back, the more I felt that he was a wretch, because I always love to compare him with my father, in my heart, my father is the best, I see other men feel disgusting, maybe my father is really good, last time I also had a fight with my mother for that man's big fight, at that time I knew I was really excessive, But my mother still forgave me, and even broke up with the man for my sake. Because my mom really loves me, I've decided in my heart that I won't be hindered anymore from my mom's happiness.

In fact, how can a mother not love her child, even if she doesn't show it, but you don't have to be too sad, first of all, you have to learn to be independent, do it to them, and you can write a letter to your mother, tell her what is in your heart, come on!!

It's good that mom has a beloved, and you should bless her.

Mom won't be unconcerned about you, it may be that you watched your stepdad share your mother's love for you, and you didn't like it, so you thought too much.

Be happy, your mom actually loves you.

It's your mental effect, you're eating your stepfather's vinegar. Have you also thought about the question of who your mother saved when you and your stepfather fell into the sea? Hehe. The key is that you relax your heart, of course your mother still loves you. Moreover, the person she loves the most will always be you

Also, you love your mom, right? I hope she's happy, right? She also needs to be cared for and loved.

Maybe your mother hasn't changed, it's your psychology that has changed! For example, in the past, if you didn't get good grades, you didn't pass an exam, and your mother beat you, you will think that your mother deserves it because you didn't do a good job. And now, the same event, what would you think?

You'll feel like your stepdad provoked it. Life can be simple, we need a cool head!

How old are you. If you are not an adult, you should be more sensible, there is no mother in the world who does not love her child.

It may be that you don't care about what you usually read, and your mother will lose her temper.

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world.

The daughter is always the mother's intimate little padded jacket. At this time, your mother needs you more, she loved you very much before, and she will love you now, you should analyze whether she has something on her mind? Reorganizing a family, your mom must have a lot of stress.

In fact, she still loves you, maybe it's because she's not in a good mood, you have to be more considerate and considerate of her.

Repay the grievances with virtue. That way she won't bully you anymore

How can you not love what you have born? Your mom hasn't been in a good mood lately or has something to worry about.

You can do something that pleases her.

Parents also have a great influence on their children, so parents must educate their children correctly in life, because at this time, children's emotions will change more. My mom only pays attention to my studies, but never pays attention to my preferences, what should I do at this time?

In fact, many parents are more concerned about their children, but most parents do not know how to care about their children, which may lead to some prejudice between parents and children, so the relationship between parents and children will become very poor. If you find that your mother never pays attention to your preferences, then you will definitely feel very uncomfortable at this time, because children are very dependent on their mothers, if your mother never pays attention to you, just pays attention to your academic performance, at this time you may also wonder if your mother really loves yourself, at this time you should take the initiative to communicate with your mother, to understand your mother's inner thoughts.

At this time, you must not take this bad emotion in your heart, since you already feel that it is wrong for your mother to do this, then you should say this matter directly. If you don't say anything, then your mother doesn't know that you are more concerned about this matter at this time, because many parents are more concerned about their children's grades, but regret at this time parents may ignore their children's inner thoughts. At this time, you can take the initiative to communicate with your mother, and take the initiative to express your opinion.

Therefore, I think that parents should not always pay attention to their children's academic performance in life, and at this time, they should also pay attention to the core world of the child's inner car, which can help the child solve these problems. And in life, you should take the initiative to communicate with your children, so that you can understand your children's thoughts.

Maybe the mother doesn't have time to care! When I was a child, my mother was like this, but I later found out that she wasn't stupid, but she was using her own way to care about your skin's love, and she was secretly observing what you usually like to eat. What do you like?

In such a situation, I think you should communicate with your mother, and then you should be more considerate of your mother, and then tell your mother about some of your interests and hobbies, and you must strengthen communication and communication.

You can communicate with your parents so that you can solve this problem, and you have to choose the right way to communicate so that your parents can understand their thoughts.

There are many mothers who feel that extracurricular things are useless and cannot delay learning, and that there will be opportunities to study in the future. It's tiring, but you can think about it and study later.

First of all, I think you still have to communicate with your mother. After all, your mother may be good for you, and at the same time want to make you better. It's still about understanding each other.

Communicate well with your mother, tell your mother that you also need to care about it, and you also need to live in the rent, and you can't just care about grades, otherwise you will be very tired, so that he will be filial to you and forgive you.

You can find a suitable opportunity in your life to chat with the other party, and you should also tell the other party that this practice will make you feel very inferior, and it will also make you particularly disbelieve in yourself and respect yourself in life, and the relationship with your parents may not be good in the future. Eggplant.

Step 1: Start from small things, may be responsible for taking care of the child, in the eyes of the mother is a big thing, then, laundry, cooking, mopping, may be a small thing, we can start from small things, slowly let the mother find that she can do it, and can do it very well, no need for verbal conflict, if she doesn't let you do it, you can also not do it, change another thing, she always has a time when she can't take care of it, just do those things she can't take care of.

Step 2: Don't be afraid of the Cold War, just once.

Don't suppress your emotions, the more you suppress them, the more you will have a reaction, and if you are really angry, you will have a big fight, and then you must hold back, and don't show goodwill, otherwise you will fall into this vicious circle:

The child rebels - the mother cries - the child coaxes - reconciles.

Step 3: Try to confess your feelings to your mother.

After a positive one, the mother must also be in the mood, but don't take the initiative to show goodwill, you must wait until both parties are calm. You have to endure and endure until you have a bright day, and you are willing to wait. Wait for a good time to confess your feelings to your mother, neither humble nor arrogant.

This step is very difficult, and when I try to tell my parents the truth, my heart beats super fast and my tongue is knotted with nervousness. But you must believe in yourself, take a small step, and then take another small step, you can't become fat in one bite, and one night can't change decades of deep-rooted family relationships.

However, we just need to be sincere and sincere, tell Mom that we love you, and also tell Mom that I need help now, but I also want you to give me a chance to grow up as a mother in the true sense. We can't rely on you forever, we need to grow too. Let Mom teach us to do some small things, gradually, let go.

Tell Mom that no matter what Mom is like, we love her and are willing to take care of her.

Step 4: Do your best to do what you have to do.

Sometimes, we are underestimated by our parents, and it is really because we are not capable enough. Of course, it is also relevant that parents do not give us the opportunity to exercise. So, once mom is willing to let herself handle some things, be sure to do a good job and tell mom that I can do it!

Step 5: Help mom find her hobbies.

Mom lacks love, insecurity, and she is reluctant to let go, also because she is afraid that she will be abandoned by you. Therefore, it is very important to help the mother to divert her attention, of course, this should also be done slowly, for example: let the mother go to square dance, or go on a trip, or even practice calligraphy at home.

Distraction is a very effective opportunity to let go. My mom was so obsessed with dancing that she didn't want to care about us anymore. Sometimes, she even asked her for a favor, and she was reluctant.

Of course, the way you get along with your mother is definitely not something that can be changed in a day. If you fail the first time, you can try a second time, and the point is, you can understand your mother's suffering and her life. I believe that the contradictions and conflicts between you will be more and more relaxed, come on, owner.

I'm Chenxi, in this anxious era, accompany you to live a life without anxiety Thank you for reading, I hope it can help you.

No, there is no parent who doesn't care about their child, unless they have lost faith in you.

In fact, all mothers in the world will care about their children, maybe your mother will use different ways, but I believe that she will still care about you, please don't doubt this!

It's impossible for a mother not to care about you, not to care about her children, or if you do something wrong, make your mother unhappy and angry, then show that you don't care, you have to do something to make your mother happy, proud of things, so that your mother thinks that you are a good child, and she will not care about you.

Maybe your parents are also immature and don't know how to provide enough care for their children. You can try to communicate with them more, treat them as bigger friends than you, get to know each other, get to know each other, and the relationship between people, especially parents and children, will change little by little over time.

Very sympathetic to your situation. However, in Buddhism, it is said that "life is self-made, and happiness is self-sought", which means that each person's destiny can be created and changed by himself. You're still young, and it's completely too late to change.

I would like to recommend you to find the "Interpretation of the Four Precepts of Lifan" to read it well, which is written by Mr. Yuan Lifan of the Ming Dynasty to his children, suggesting that children change and transform their destiny by changing their lives and doing good. It will definitely help you a lot after reading it. In the past few years, I have benefited a lot from this book, both at work and at home.

Parents all over the world actually love their children, but the methods and methods are different. From the perspective of parents, we have tried our best to provide you with the best conditions, the easiest job, etc., so we must understand and appreciate the efforts of our parents. Of course, from our own point of view, the most important thing is to cultivate the ability to be a person and do things, and the easiest thing is not necessarily the most suitable work for us.

In the past, we didn't understand the reason, and completely obeyed the arrangements of our parents, but now you are also independent, and you can continue to learn by yourself, slowly accumulate experience, and wait for opportunities to develop.

In addition, three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion. Nor do we need to be presumptuous. In fact, an ordinary life is also very good.

Peace is bliss. You can learn to enjoy your mundane work, and you can have time to draw, exercise, read, etc., how nice. I am a manager of a foreign-owned company, with a high income, but I am very busy at work, but I have little time for myself, and I have to take care of my family on weekends and evenings.

I am very envious of people who have a leisurely job, and if I did, I would definitely spend a lot of time studying Buddhism and reading.

It's impossible for a mother not to care about you, not to care about her children, or if you do something wrong, make your mother unhappy and angry, then show that you don't care, you have to do something to make your mother happy, proud of things, so that your mother thinks that you are a good child, and she will not care about you.

It should be a personal personality issue. Because some people don't like to worry about it by nature.

Your mother doesn't care about your affairs, maybe she thinks that you have grown up and that you are an adult, and there are many things that you can handle by yourself, so she lets go and lets you do it yourself.

Your mother doesn't care about you, maybe it's because of something, or maybe he can't do anything about it, or maybe this person has a different attitude of caring about others, maybe he belongs to the tiger mother type, and he won't care about it more gently.

There are two reasons, one is that the mother loves herself more than her children, so she doesn't want to worry too much about her children's affairs and makes herself hard. The second is to give the child space and freedom, as long as the child has a boyfriend that the child likes, the rest is not important at all. Anyway, if you don't have a good personality and don't get along, you won't talk about marriage.