Is it possible for an introverted man to be grumpy and beat his own children?

There can be many reasons for this.

According to the preliminary analysis, his own personality is a little hazy, likes to be alone, has a strong ego, and is stubborn.

Coupled with his working environment, some of his experiences as a child may also have an impact, plus he doesn't get along with people, and this invisible pressure for a long time will make him explode with a certain impulse hidden under his personality. This is a ...... that has nothing to do with educational background

I think you should try to communicate with him, after all, tigers don't eat children, and there is really no need for the family to make such a fuss. There is likely to be a lack of communication between you, try to lay out some trivial matters of life and study that you encounter, express your thoughts, communicate with your father in the way of asking for advice, and slowly ease up the two sides and then move on to family issues, maybe this is a good solution.

Don't try to confront, it won't solve anything, it will only make the contradictions between you two more and more intense, which will not help you both in any way and have no substantive effect.

Finally, you remember a sentence, no matter what, he is your biological father, you must know how many children do not have parents now, and there is no chance for their parents to scold, beat, and nag their parents. Don't let yourself hate yourself in retrospect twenty or thirty years later!

Take the first step!

In fact, the more amiable people are outside, the easier it is to go home and lose their temper. Because, people always need balance, people have seven emotions and six desires, and they always need to have a channel to vent, but educated people may know how to control themselves and adjust themselves. However, it is still necessary to vent when control and adjustment are ineffective.

This person is very withdrawn, and such a person is generally very fickle. But in their hearts they have a desire to communicate with people. I want to change him and give him some warmth.

My father beat me up before I was in junior high school, and he never beat me again, and even when I was caught by the teacher on the night net, he just listened patiently to my explanation.

But I could feel what he was thinking, and I knew that when I was younger, he wasn't mature either.

I don't think children have the right to blame their parents, in my opinion, parents are two children, they need you to coax, you to deceive.

I feel that he is a bit hypocritical, he looks contrived, and his temper at home is aimed at you? Yes, he probably doesn't like you either.

I'm just saying what I think, and I'm not trying to discredit your father.

Try to treat your father as your friend, talk to your heart, communicate, and your temper may be that you have not met your father's requirements in some aspects, and it is more urgent to hope that your son will become a Chan.

It's really hard to change this, a person's personality is like this, and it's hard for outsiders to change him. You can only wait to grow up, you can go out on your own, and the relationship will slowly improve if you don't spend too much time with each other in the future. There are some things that we are powerless to change, maybe we can't change others, we can change ourselves, only when we are strong enough can we do what we want to do.

This is probably the two sides of human beings. Because of his inner character, he is not good at expressing himself, so he uses violence.

Like my dad, he doesn't talk much every day, and he doesn't scold me when I make small mistakes. But it really annoyed him, I'll go. I had to walk with a limp.

As a child, I have always had the same relationship with him as yours. Now he doesn't care about me, I only call him when I have something, and I don't usually say anything.

If you hold it for a long time, it will explode, you are the person he relies on the most.

Do you want me to help you educate your father?

Because he is accustomed to suppressing himself outside and putting on a gentle mask, but when he returns home, because he is familiar with the place where he feels safe, this mask will break, and the most direct emotions in his heart will be vented, and you, as his heir, are the most direct bearers of this emotion

It is precisely because of his introverted personality and not being good at expressing himself that he is holding back a lot of things, can he not be irritable? If you feel that you are already sensible, talk to your father more, and if you don't know how to communicate, try to make yourself better in other aspects.

You're 10 years old, your father is in trouble, he is unhappy outside, your family lacks communication, he doesn't care about you, you hate him, but every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, try to say what is in your heart and face it together as a family.

Probably, I personally think he is an introvert, a bit depressed and pedantic.

My husband's personality is more irritable, will the child's personality also be very irritable in the future?

As a wife, you should know your husband best, and analyze whether her husband has been grumpy and has been grumpy recently. If you continue to be anxious, it may be difficult to change. Whether it can be changed, otherwise, we must stop the loss immediately, resolutely take up the law to protect the legitimate rights and interests of ourselves and our children.

The worst outcome is to snatch the court, the divorce, the custody of the children.

Get out of the sea of suffering. If the husband is already good-tempered and has no problems with his personality, then he suddenly has a short temper. Then you should find the reason for the change in his personality.

After all, the pressure of this society is too great now, and he may have encountered something difficult to solve outside! As a wife, you have to make him feel the warmth of the family and don't add fuel to the fire! People always need to be ventilated.

If his negative emotions.

I can't untie it, and I can't find a place to vent it outside, so I will definitely vent it at home. Good wife.

In this case, it is necessary to give full play to the delicate advantages of being a woman and show the hope of life through communication and reconciliation!

First, we need to find out why. That is, to get to the heart of the problem. The reason why the children would not get close to their father was that their father was short-tempered and the children were afraid, so they avoided him.

But the reason for the husband's temper tantrum is best to find out and solve. Help you analyze those things in your life that are not satisfactory, two people discuss it calmly, the ultimate goal is to relieve the husband, if he is short-tempered, not only children, but other people do not want to be close to people with this temper, and short-tempered people are not helpful to physical and mental health at all! The other is that as wives, we need to strengthen ourselves.

Because we are the closest to our husband, we are the most susceptible to his bad temper, bad mood, bad temper. This is because we have to strengthen our self-cultivation and try not to infect him. Because if a child can't get love as a father, at least he can get the warmth he deserves from his mother.

As mothers of children, we should give our children strong enough inner support. I learned a lot of psychology and passed the national second-level psychological counselor.

Neglect yourself, relax yourself, and make yourself strong. Of course, you can choose other methods, but I recommend that you read about psychology with your husband.

Also, tell your husband about your children's mental health.

The importance of the matter. The formation of a child's mental health is mainly influenced by the family of origin.

impact. The character of the parents of the family of origin is essential for the formation of a healthy personality of the child. A child is the hope of a family, and a mentally unhealthy child can also destroy the hope of a family.

How scary it would be for a family to have no hope, and a child's mental health is important for a family. Therefore, we want to create a warm family environment for the growth of children. In order for them to grow up healthily under the love and care of their parents.

The ancients said that "the son is not the fault of the godfather", and in the education of children, the father plays the role of "pillar". To make the husband realize this, if he does not want his family to collapse, he should reflect well, spend more time with his children, and be a qualified father, a capable man!

This is not necessarily, personality is not inherited, but it depends on how both parents raise their children, if the father often faces the child with a violent personality, then the child will definitely be more timid in the future.

If you can't guide it, your child's personality will be very irritable in the future, so you must let your husband control his emotions.

No, although my husband is very short-tempered, as long as he has a correct concept of education for his children, his children will not be very short-tempered in the future.

There is a possibility. Because the child has been under the father's more irritable education for a long time, his own personality will also be affected.

In fact, there are many outgoing and cheerful boys, and their tempers are relatively good.

Not every extroverted boy has a personality like this.

It's just that the temper you know is more short-tempered.

Most of the outgoing boys are short-tempered, and there is no direct relationship between whether the personality is extroverted and whether the temper is short-tempered, but compared with girls, most boys are more short-tempered.

Grumpy is a relatively common phenomenon, mostly occurs in men, in life, there are many factors that can cause men to be grumpy, but there are many people who don't understand, and don't know how to solve it, men have too many worries to worry about, a small number of empathetic men will hide their feelings and then bring happiness to their girlfriends.

That's not true, they also don't have irritable ones! But it's certain that everyone has a temper, because everyone has their own bottom line. Some introverted boys are even more grumpy!

Because the extroverted boy he dares to say and do, he has one thing to say, he is not afraid of everything, extroverted people are unable to pretend to be in their hearts, they belong to the straight nature, so most of them have a temper, and they are short-tempered, and they ignite the fire, some people are very reasonable, and some people are very unreasonable.

It's not that he doesn't have a temper, but to say, he has a temper in life, so it's possible, he pretended, and it may have erupted at this time, people, they all have a good temper, a bad temper, study, it happens to be the period when his bad temper erupts, everyone you meet must learn to tolerate.

Extroverts tend to be impulsive, and most of their impulses are related to self-esteem, and when they feel disrespected, they explode, and if they don't touch them, they're fine.

No, it depends on people. Some extroverts are also popular, have higher emotional intelligence, and know how to deal with people. Of course, the one you're talking about might be something else.

Not necessarily so, introverts also have tempers, but because of introversions, they don't dare to lose their temper, so they can only endure it silently.

In fact, some people look extroverted on the surface, but their hearts are not necessarily the same as on the surface. Some are inconsistent. Some extroverts are trying to disguise themselves.

Because I usually accumulate too much unhappiness, extroversion is just a friendly relationship with many people on the surface, and it is also to hide my emotions to fulfill others.

It's because extroverts express their inner thoughts quickly.

Introverts have ideas, but they don't express them.

That's not educated yet, educate well, and you will be a pillar in the future.

You're beating everybody with a stick, and I just want to say that not everybody is like that.

It's normal for all of us to be like this.

I listen to extroverts and don't get irritable.

The mind is uncertain and cannot control himself.

The introverted general brain has ideas.

I've heard that men with long eyelashes are hot-tempered, and I am