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A person's heart is dripping blood, and he can only rely on his own inner strength to repair and digest the pain, and the comfort of others in the outside world is nothing more than two kinds, one is to say some comforting words from your standpoint, and the other is to stand on the seemingly neutral objective but still subjective expression of your own understanding of your injury and radiate words. Either way, it's a palliative, not a cure. And the only one who really gives you the strength to face and let go of these pains is yourself.
Priests in the West held the priesthood, and their main tasks were to preside over Mass, weddings, and baptism of newborns. The real comforter is the pastor, who listens to people's voices, confessions, and prayers. But any of them serve as guidance.
In the end, you have to go through yourself to forgive yourself.
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That's just a way for you to talk, so that you can reach self-soothing and self-suggestion. And the psychiatrist is a truth.
Depression becomes a disease, it is much better to talk about the unpleasantness, and a psychiatrist can help the most. In fact, people with better psychological quality can turn this corner by themselves. If there are some things that you can't tell your friends in real life, then find a stranger on the Internet to talk to, and it's over.
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Love is all illusory. Plain is true. If a person hurts you, then if he doesn't make your heart bleed, time will dilute everything, it's really not good.
Go to the temple and burn incense, don't beg the Bodhisattva to bless you and make the person who hurt you change their minds. Or how to drop, you should ask the bodhisattva to let the person who forgot to hurt you.
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Does comfort solve the problem? You can only anesthetize yourself for a short time, try to survive on your own, and you will grow a lot.
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Child... I'll save you.
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Seeing a person clearly, it is worth spending three thousand. The bleeding will stop, and time will ** the pain in your heart.
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Suffering is a blessing. This is experience.
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300 yuan can see that a person is not good, if you are more go, then it will be repaid.
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It's like spending money to buy lessons, and 300 is worth it.
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It's as if there is no such friend in the future.
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Then this person is not worthy of your blood.
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300 yuan can see a person clearly, it's worth it.
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You should be happy! 300 can see what a good thing a person is.
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300 yuan, see a person clearly, you can be regarded as a big bargain.
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There is no need to judge a person's character just one thing.
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His person is worth 300, and 300 can see that he is worth it.
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Congratulations, you'll know a few things later.
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It's worth only three hundred friends, even if you lose the game, it's definitely worth it.
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It is equal to money is not cared about, the key is that you have now seen his true **, and you will no longer be deceived in the future.
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There is no difference between what the individual needs and what the friend needs to be good.
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If you are too interested in money, it means that you have already experienced society.
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It's right to see your own willpower.
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Calm down, you should give him a coffin book.
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Brother, you want to dig the foot of the wall, yes, yes.
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Don't coax! Find another opportunity to take her to have fun! She's getting better slowly!
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Ask with warm words and a pious heart.
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With me here, don't be afraid, I'll always be by your side.
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You should say this: when you are tired, just rest for a while, and I will accompany you in the meantime. What I love to do....
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There is some comfort, no need for words, just be by your side.
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She won't get tired when you're there.
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There are often things in life that are not as good as we would like! The bitterness after a breakup is also a kind of experience for everyone. Possession is a blessing, but giving up is not a kind of beauty.
Although it sounds more magnificent, it can also write a brilliant stroke in your life, remember, people should take it and put it down. When you think about it years later, you'll feel like it's a fulfilling memory!
You're in a lot of turmoil right now, and you know that you're still in love with him, and it's deep, deep. Learn to think differently! Losing him is just losing someone who may no longer love you, but what he has lost is someone who loves him deeply, never lose yourself in love again!
To all those who have been loved but have lost them; to those who have never been given a loved one; To those who choose to deceive themselves because they still love. This is a mirror, bravely face, brave to give up, brave to start again.
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Don't say anything, let him settle down on his own, lend him a shoulder, or pat him on the shoulder, so that he doesn't feel like he is alone. When he wants to speak, listen quietly, express his opinion appropriately, and don't get too excited.
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Hmmm......Well, there are many kinds of comfort, for example, you pour him (her) a glass of water, hug him (her) and say in a gentle tone: "Don't be sad, you can tell me .......""Wait.
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Let him listen to the song and watch the movie. Chat with him and communicate more, if you like sports, such as long-distance running, playing basketball and other sports.
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When a friend is upset, you can accompany him, don't talk until he tells you, if he doesn't want to talk and you always ask, he will be more annoyed.
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Just help him, solve the problems at work, hehe, encourage him, let him be brave.
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I think when you're upset, as long as you care about you, it's okay, and when you're upset, isn't it just to find someone to talk to, talk about your heart, and complain about your grievances.
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Look in the direction of the person as much as you can, and then talk about it! And that's nothing!
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Listen carefully to what she has to say, and then give him advice and advice from the bottom of your heart. Let him know that no matter how difficult he or she encounters, you are a friend by his side to face him, and he doesn't have to deliberately please him, as long as he chats more or takes him out for a walk or something, I think his mood will be better.
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First of all, you have to know why he is sad, so listen to him patiently. If he doesn't want to say it, don't force it, tell him something interesting, and when he is in a better mood, he will say it himself;
Second, if you know the reason for his sadness, don't follow him into sadness and enlighten him on the positive side of the optimistic thing. Woe to you, blessing depends on it!
Finally, tell him positively that you are very optimistic about him and hope that he will come out of the haze as soon as possible!
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Sometimes silent companionship is the best comfort!
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Stay with him. Listen to him. And agree with everything he said.
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Be sadder than him, so that he will comfort you in turn, and his sad mood will be a little worse.
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