I want to start a pursuit of a girl who has been secretly in love with me for three months, and I wo

Updated on society 2024-02-08
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Aha, seriously, you helped me encounter the same situation, I said it through QQ, you feel very uncomfortable in your heart, you want to say it but don't want to say it, you have concerns!

    Right? I'll tell you, you still tell her through QQ, it won't be embarrassing, let's be bold, now girls are not surprised by some.

    Go ahead and say, don't wait for the time to pass, you'll miss it and you'll regret it!

    If you help her, no matter what result she gives you a reply, I don't think you will regret it, right? Is that right?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    At the gate of the factory, he watched him get off work every day.

    Perseverance and perseverance.

    After getting his attention.

    Ask his friend to convey his love.

    Don't chase it in the first place, it will have the opposite effect.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personally, I think that the following is summarized: 1. The most important thing at this stage is not to be in a hurry, not to make things so clear, so that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others. Come to think of it, most people won't take a fancy to you at a glance, but they won't hate you at a glance, they are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat Andy Lau or Kevin Costner), and goodwill needs to be achieved with the increasing understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity you want to develop further.

    Think about it from the perspective of a girl: If you rush over so directly to get a partner, the girl must have psychological pressure. If you find out that you don't like you after a while, won't it be a trick on you?

    So if you start out in a posture that you want to win, you're basically going to be stuffed back right away.

    2. Start with a low profile.

    First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend", originally an "ordinary friend", you want to be a "good friend", and if you have taste, you can also ask the other party to become a "confidant" or something, in short, don't say "chase you".

    Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have no chance to "reject" you - how can you refuse you if you don't chase her?!

    This can reduce the psychological pressure of the girl and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't have the illusion that you will agree to marry you after knowing each other for three days, you must fully communicate and understand, and feelings do not arise out of thin air.

    3. Don't be too impatient in the process of dating.

    Be open, don't pester people all day long, whoever treats you like this, you will also get tired. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words - hot and cold, want to catch and indulge" (this is the crystallization of many years of hard work by my classmates).

    You pester people all day long and naturally don't think you're good, if you are properly cold for a day or two, the girl will remember the benefits you are in.

    Also, don't come up with the ambition of "you don't marry", it's too cheap, and sometimes you can play some tricks.

    4. Create opportunities appropriately.

    As mentioned earlier, don't make things immediately become "you're chasing someone else", and you need to get a chance to get close to girls, and that's when it's up to you to be creative.

    You can gather intel and find a way to turn the wait for the rabbit into an encounter; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite the other person to do something with you.

    In short, this is the most technical place, and if you really can't do it, you can ask your seniors for advice.

    5. Don't be careful: It's rude to give gifts to others.

    Some people chase girls and like to often buy things to give away, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo. As the saying goes, "no merit is not punished", if you give something to someone like this, you are exerting pressure, and people will feel that they owe you, so they will find a way to pay you back, and if they can't pay you back, they will find a way not to associate with you, so as not to always owe you favors. If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well invite girls to spend together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive place to play with or something, girls can naturally see that you have spent a lot of money, but after all, the money is spent by two people together instead of becoming something to take home.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The probability of success is still relatively high, and sincerity and persistence are relatively easy to impress.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Either I was moved by your persistence, or I was used to it by your persistence, and I didn't want to lose it after getting used to it, and many people feel this way.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First, look at the looks;

    Second, look at financial resources;

    3. Look at emotional intelligence.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Insist on believing in yourself and giving yourself confidence.

    However, Bai has to be skillful to be romantic, and he can dress himself up a little better.

    Ask him if beef jerky is delicious, dao

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After all, bai, you are not a good feeling at a glance, and she is interested in contacting zhi people from the beginning, so it will be counterproductive to want to seek mutual internal action too often. From the landlord's narrative, the landlord should also feel that the other party is a sign of rejection, and it can only be appropriate to relax the way of getting along, don't let the other party feel a sense of oppression, maybe at the beginning with a simple ordinary friend's way of getting along can make the other party relax their guard and better understand you as a person, don't give her a feeling that the purpose is obvious, and the girl actually doesn't like this too warm and direct very much.!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Get in touch with girls more, in addition to buying beef jerky, you can find girls to hang out with, get to know girls more, help girls more in life, feelings are slowly cultivated, use your personality charm, your advantages to attract girls.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You ask him how he can accept you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you have to do what you like, so that you can get twice the result with half the effort. Boys should also take the initiative in front of girls. But you can't be too arrogant, and you have to be brave enough to confess.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    She should have a good personality, and her current goal is to be admitted to the normal school, and you should work hard with her. Short-term love will not last long, if you are not admitted to the same university, even if you are together now, it will be difficult to last long, first contact her more, usually in addition to relaxing with her, but also grasp the study of two people, good luck.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, the most important point is that if you are admitted to the same normal university as her, you will be half the success, because then you will eliminate most of your love rivals.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Get to know this girl.

    But if you're still in high school.

    I suggest you stop chasing her.

    After all, the college entrance examination is very important to you.

    What to wait until the end of the college entrance examination to plan it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think you have to be good and take the initiative to talk to that girl, who is still more sensitive and can feel your heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can see the strengths of others, but others may not be able to see your strengths, perform well, set close, highlight your own strengths, or use a little trick.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    1. First of all, you must keep you better than her.

    2. She has so many hobbies, you can accompany her to study, and even you can learn 3. Love is to be said out loud.

    Finally, I wish you all happiness!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You have to try to be like her in order to get her attention. Because of her hobbies and hobbies, there are common topics to talk about. Although she works hard, which girl doesn't want to be cared for in her heart, so you can impress her with the details of your life. Good luck.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This is the personality trait of the girl I have a crush on.

    Please take a look at it and give me an idea of how I should chase her.

    And that's just what you usually know.

    First of all, you have to be good enough to be equal between you.

    Then go and talk about things that interest her according to her personality traits.

    You still need to know more about her.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I have a crush on a girl and I don't know how to chase her, I'm a bit introverted.

    Recommended by the person who asked the question.

    Anonymous usersSend you 12 words: bold, careful, romantic, thick-skinned, and humorous.

    Bold: Whenever you want to take the initiative, kiss her when you should kiss her, don't hesitate to hold hands when you should hold hands, send flowers when you should send flowers, and give some gifts when you give some gifts, especially on holidays and anniversaries. It's best to give you a handmade gift.

    Be careful: Always observe her expression and what she says, and understand what she likes and wants. Do what she likes, give her what she wants, and take the initiative to care about everything about her.

    Help him fulfill a wish she didn't fulfill. Girls' hearts are more delicate, she will feel it.

    Romance: Girls love romance, even extravagantly romantic. Send a large bouquet of roses in front of N people, and use this to confess.

    Thick-skinned: Never give up, shoot when it's time to shoot, and believe that you are the best. It doesn't matter if it doesn't work once, maybe it's just the wrong timing. 100 times unsuccessful, maybe 101 times you succeed.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Let's find a topic of conversation with the same hobby as hers.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Start with her hobbies.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Accompany her to play games, buy delicious food, and set almost first

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The bell is also tied to the bell. Less is understood, and feelings focus on cultivating ......

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It feels like my personality is the same

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