Girls like Van Gogh Ji Kang Zhang Ailing, don t like to go to school, participate in social activiti

Like you, I also like Van Gogh and Ji Kang, the kind to the core. We are all the same kind of people, and we like them because their personalities and temperaments resonate with us. You're still in school, I'm graduating from college now, I'm about to step into society after graduating from college, my personality that I don't like to interact with people and don't like to integrate myself into society and conform to the customs must make me suffer, I'm still in the contradiction of being completely loyal to my heart like Ji Kang and living a secluded life with my own heart and stepping into society to chase money and success and give up my own heart and my own spiritual freedom, it's not my own problem, I'm not afraid of poverty, but my parents don't allow it.

So I've been struggling with contradictions. You are still at school age, and sooner or later you will face the day when you will step into society. If you don't want to be bitter about the conflict, then try to change yourself from now on, and you ask this question to show that you have recognized that there is a problem with such a personality.

To add, I don't want to change, and I still insist on choosing my own heart between society and my own heart. Van Gogh was a melancholy madman in the eyes of the public, he did not integrate into society, and there was no success in his lifetime, but he realized his artistic value, created immortal art, and deeply understood the essence of life, aren't these values? Although such a life has suffering and suffering, it is deeper and nobler than a smooth and happy life).

I think there's mild depression in this.

Based on the information given, it is not possible to determine whether there is agitation and autism.

But this is not what a young girl should be.

A minimum of social activities is also necessary to improve one's character.

You can't go to school if you don't go to Can only be more autistic.

I think I need to see a psychiatrist. Don't feel bad or anything. After reading it, the psychiatrist realized that many people actually have this problem.

The person concerned thought that this was normal. For example, Qiong Yao's or Lin Daiyu's sentimentality. In fact, it is a kind of pathological self-pity.

Save yourself early. Otherwise, you will not be able to integrate into society when it is too late. Eileen Chang Van Gogh had an imperfect life during his lifetime.

It can be said that it is a drama character. Ji Kang: I don't know.

But downstairs to say that the biggest characteristic of this age is a bit inaccurate. This is not general. Few of our classmates are like this. Such people simply do not fit in.

lz。That's you. I'm a boy. I also like the text sad. I also hope to write works that make ** tears. Maybe that's who we are. I've always believed in one thing: the world is made wonderful by the uniqueness of each person.

It's because of those of us who are special. , the world is no longer black and white!

Believe in yourself. Squad leader, do you think it's hard to be a squad leader? It's really hard to be a squad leader, don't be a boss if you don't like it, let it be annoying? We are young. Youth has no rules!

Maybe you like the false name of the class leader. But you don't want to put in the effort. You'll know later. It's called selfishness.

It's not a big deal to be selfish. The country is easy to change, and its nature is difficult to change. Take a walk in style. People are already in a hurry. There is also something to be deliberately changed. Isn't this a waste of life?

I also don't like to ask for others because I know the pain of being asked.

I also don't like to be asked of people, because they are always unaware of our pain in the process and only focus on the result.

Sometimes you give, but you don't understand.

I'll tell you! Actually, we are all selfish. Everyone is selfish.

In life, we have to be smart and selfish. Those who are unknown in today's society, not many people notice. We just have to be clever and selfish.

A person who seems selfless but is the most selfish.

Not everyone is dead studying to take the college entrance examination.

Children are trained what they like.

Perhaps with her artistic talent and interests, she will succeed.

Maybe she also thinks like me, and after understanding the truth of life, she feels that the people around her are very naïve.

So I don't like to go to social events.

Guide, just go in the direction of her love.

Real people refer to true temperament, free and uninhibited.

A good person refers to being kind to others, but there are more secular restrictions than real people, and real people give a few examples: Ruan Ji, Xu You, Tao Yuanming, Cao Xueqin, Ji Kang, Gu Kaizhi's literary works; Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu in "In the Red Mansion" (Zhang Ailing herself loves the Red Mansion very much) will talk specifically about Ji Kang, who was recruited as a concubine because he was eight feet long and had a face like a crown of jade, but he was unwilling to get involved in the political whirlpool. Another time, a person named Zhong Hui brought an article to him to read, hoping that he would recommend himself.

He was wearing cotton clothes and striking iron at the head of the village, covered in sweat. Ignore the bell meeting. When the bell was about to leave, he said:

What you hear and what you see? He knew that Zhong Hui was a villain, so he deliberately pretended to be unkind. Later, Zhong Hui collected the charges and put Ji Kang to death.

So in general, being a real person has to abandon earthly prejudices, and the risk is relatively large.

Good people, with morality and ethics in them, living people, good people may also do bad things with good intentions and have the intention to do good, although the good is not rewarded, the evil is not intentionally evil, although the evil is not punished.

But good people are not necessarily real people, truth, truth, and there are not many people who can really adhere to the truth.

But there is no conflict, good people, real people, and uneven polymorphism are the source of happiness.

Be yourself, and your heart is what you are.

Because there is only one type of real person, that is, to be yourself, but good people are different, there are really good people, there are good people who do for fame and fortune, and there are bad good people who are powerless. So there are more good people than real people.

A good person can be understood as a person who pretends to be a good person, that is, a person who is hypocritical. A true person is a person who speaks of true temperament, a person who is not pretentious. That's easy to understand. That is to say, there are many more hypocrites than true ones.

Not as deep as the upstairs. Ailing just wants to express the child's innocence. Children are more naïve, thinking that there are many good people, even more than real people. That's what it means. I don't remember the original text, but that's roughly what it means.