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<> indifferent heart. After getting married, you must look open and stay calm. It is enough for a woman to be able to manage her life before marriage, it is simple and there is no need to worry too much.
But after getting married, life will become very complicated, and the two families will be combined, and the woman will have to worry about both big and small things. If a woman takes everything to heart, she will become very tired. In order to make it easier for herself, women must deal with big things seriously, don't mind too much after dealing with trivial things, and stay calm about everything.
A love of beauty. Women will have and must have a love for beauty, and age and life will not be a reason for women to give up beauty. Women are pleasing to themselves, marriage is not absolutely stable, if you want to firmly grasp the heart of a man, you must maintain your appearance and figure.
Men are visual creatures, and beautiful women are attractive to them. Even if it is for herself, a woman must maintain a love for beauty. Accepting that she is aging and out of shape is a very painful thing for a woman, and in order to alleviate the pain, a woman still has to be kind to herself.
Enterprising. As a woman, you must also maintain an enterprising heart that lives to learn from all the time. Nowadays, society is changing with each passing day and developing rapidly.
Once you stop studying, you will be disconnected from society, and even with your own husband, you will become speechless. Keep an enterprising spirit, there is always one in the mind and body to read more good books on the road, "there is poetry and books in the belly"; Go a little more, broaden your horizons, and expand your pattern. Let yourself follow the footsteps of the times and be a woman with both charm and connotation.
Kind hearts. Kind women will be treated gently by this world. Women must always maintain a kind heart, even if there is darkness, injustice, and suffering in this world, but still let yourself be kind.
Not being polluted by this world is a kind of wisdom, and only by having good thoughts can we become better. Kindness doesn't need to do anything big to save lives, you can do a little bit of small things as much as you can, donate some clothes occasionally, help the elderly and children, etc., and use your little love to influence your family and infect the world.
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After marriage, a woman must make herself financially independent and constantly improve herself and improve herself, only in this way can she live a happier life and have a certain status in the family.
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A woman should take the initiative to take care of the family and be especially considerate of her husband. In this way, you can live a very happy life.
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It is recommended that you have your own independent career and your own independent dating circle, don't follow your husband every day, but also follow your favorite hobbies. It's best to have a child for a few years, and enjoy the life of two people first!
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After marriage, a woman should learn to be kind to her husband, because only then will the other party feel your love.
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After a woman gets married, if she wants to have a happy life, she must first deal with the relationship with her mother-in-law, which can reduce a lot of disputes.
Second, we must make our stand clear on the issue of family education. In this way, if you have children in the future, you can avoid quarrels with your husband and mother-in-law because of education problems.
Third, the attitude must be sincere, if there is a mistake, we must admit the mistake in time, and we cannot hold an indifferent attitude.
Fourth. Be sure to plan to save money, and don't spend it lavishly, otherwise you may be very nervous when you have to use it later.
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1.Know to look for most of the same, but there are differences.
2.Women who are financially independent.
If you think that if you marry a rich husband, you will be a grandmother, then you will be lazy and lazy. Or it's dangerous to treat your husband as a long-term free meal voucher. Once you are completely financially dependent on your husband, your marriage can go bad.
A woman can not earn much money, but she will definitely be able to support herself. To be stay-at-home moms, we have to think twice. While we know that stay-at-home moms do a lot of work, their contributions are overshadowed by a lack of real financial income.
Don't quit your job unless your husband is fully supportive, or you have a solid family background, or you have no choice for other reasons.
3.Be confident in yourself.
A confident woman, talent is a charm. If you can't even recognize yourself, how can others not recognize you? Self-confidence is not only based on appearance, but also on connotation, cultivation and morality. An elegant woman is more acceptable than an aggressive woman.
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1.Know how to find most of the same and different.
After getting married, two people may have different habits, temperaments, interests, and hobbies in their daily lives. If you are too critical and insist on changing the other person to meet your own standards, you are likely to make the other person feel resentful and resentful: am I like this, or am I still me?
It is wise to seek common ground while reserving differences on major issues.
2.Women who are relatively financially independent.
If you think that you are married to a rich husband, you will start to take it for granted that you will become a housewife, and from then on you will become lazy; Or blatantly treat your husband as your long-term free meal ticket, which is very dangerous. Once you are financially dependent on your husband, marriage can easily turn bad. Women don't make much money, but they must be able to support themselves.
Even if you want to consider being a stay-at-home mom, think again. While we know that stay-at-home moms actually give a lot, the credit pales in due to no actual income.
Don't quit your job lightly unless your husband is fully supportive, or your family is wealthy, or you really don't have a choice for other reasons.
The life of a stay-at-home wife has been a long time ago, and because there is no income, it is inevitable that there will be some grievances. Even if my husband doesn't look down on me, occasional uneasiness will follow.
3.Be confident in yourself.
The ability to be confident in a woman is a charm. If you don't recognize yourself, how can you ask someone to recognize you? Self-confidence is not only based on appearance, but also on connotation, cultivation and character.
An elegant woman is more acceptable than an energetic woman. Improving one's self-cultivation may be a lesson that every married woman can't stop.
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1.Know to look for things that are basically the same but different.
After getting married, two people may have different living habits, temperaments, and hobbies in their daily lives. If you're too critical and have to change others to meet your standards, it's likely to make others unhappy and disgusted: I'm what I am, change change, is that still me?
It is wise to seek common ground while reserving differences on important issues.
2.Women who are financially independent.
If you think that if you marry a rich husband, you will be a grandmother, then you will be lazy and lazy. Or it's dangerous to treat your husband as a permanent free meal ticket. Once you are completely financially dependent on your husband, your marriage may deteriorate.
A woman can earn very little money, but she can certainly support herself. To be stay-at-home moms, we have to think twice. While we know that stay-at-home moms do a lot of work, their contributions are overshadowed by a lack of real financial income.
Don't quit your job unless your husband is fully supportive, or you have a solid family background, or for other reasons you have no choice.
The life of a housewife lasted a long time because she had no income. Even if her husband doesn't give in, her own occasional anxiety will follow.
3.Be confident in yourself.
For a confident woman, talent is a charm. If you don't recognize yourself, how can others not recognize you? Self-confidence is not only based on appearance, but also on connotation, cultivation and morality. An elegant woman is more acceptable than an aggressive woman.
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1.Know how to find most of the similarities and differences.
After marriage, two people may have different habits, temperaments, interests, and hobbies in their daily lives. If you are too critical and insist on changing the other person to meet your own standards, it is likely to make the other person resentful and disgusted: am I like this, or am I like this?
It is wise to seek common ground while reserving differences on major issues.
2.Women who are financially independent.
If you think that you are married to a rich husband, you will start to become a housewife as a matter of course, and then you will become lazy; Or blatantly treat your husband as your long-term free meal voucher, which is dangerous. Once you are financially dependent on your husband, your marriage can easily get worse. Women don't make much, but they must be able to support themselves.
Even if you want to consider becoming a stay-at-home mom, think twice. While we know that stay-at-home moms actually give a lot, credit pales in because they don't really earn.
Unless your husband is fully supportive of you, or your family is wealthy, or you really don't have a choice for other reasons, don't quit your job lightly.
The life of a stay-at-home wife has passed for a long time, and because there is no income, it is inevitable that there will be some grievances. Even if my husband doesn't look down on me, occasional anxiety will follow.
3.Maintain confidence in yourself.
The ability to be confident in a woman is a charm. If you can't even recognize yourself, how can you ask others to recognize you? Self-confidence does not only depend on appearance, but also requires connotation, cultivation and character.
Elegant women are more acceptable than energetic women. Self-cultivation may be a lesson that every married woman can't stop.
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1. After getting married, women should get rid of their old dress.
After marriage, especially during childbirth and breastfeeding, women often wear clothes and pants that do not fit in and look pretentious, which makes friends of the opposite sex jaw-dropping. Middle-aged women usually like to wear clothes and pants that are much older than their specific age, and how long is the relationship run-in period, the result is that they look more old-fashioned, and they can't attract the attention of friends of the opposite sex. 2. After marriage, women don't have to complain casually.
Love and complaining is a common problem for women, there is a need to say a few words about everything, in the case of the object, the boy will continue to pay attention to one or two sentences, I feel that it is a topic of discussion, but after marriage, the boy feels that it is empty words, it is destruction, and there will be thick calluses in the ears. Boys prefer to be laid-back than women, and when women are silent, when they notice that something is missing, they will find the reason for themselves.
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If a married woman wants to have a happy life, she should do the following: The first is to establish an equal relationship between husband and wife. The high status of any person in the conjugal relationship can have a great impact on the marriage of two people, such as machismo, tolerance, domestic violence, etc.
So before getting married, we should make the matter clear, and at the same time, we should find ways to make a man accept this concept according to his character.
The second point is to have the ability to be financially independent. I'm not saying that women have to be financially independent after marriage, but at least they have to have and maintain that ability. The economic base determines the superstructure, so you don't have a say in some family decisions.
The third point is to maintain a harmonious relationship with your husband. Harmony is not about obedience, but about communicating and solving problems on the premise of mutual understanding and respect.
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First of all, if you ask this question, it is because there are a lot of dissatisfaction in the home, so if you want to solve the problem, you still need to analyze it from many angles, ** on the Internet.
The first cause of unhappiness is dissatisfaction with the other party, you can find a piece of paper to find something that you are not satisfied with, and then you can follow the other party for a wave of communication. Talk about your own views and opinions, to express your dissatisfaction and hope that the other party will do, it is not recommended to hide and hide to affect your mood without the other party knowing, because the other party is also thinking of a lot of ways to satisfy you, just need some of you to put forward.
** on the Internet.
Second, I met you in the early years, how could it end in disappointment, I just hope that I can understand more thoroughly, and then work hard to do better, although it may be a little unsatisfactory, but this is some hurdles that can be cross-border, don't care, we can go all the way to the end.
** on the Internet.
3 think more about each other, moderate care is not unaccustomed, but embarrassed to give, this is a very strange thing, this is a happy pair, it is true that after being together, it will feel unnatural, but feel that the other party's care is a greasy behavior, so relax your mind, all this is a good beginning, and if you muster courage, it is a particularly big breakthrough. Those who break through the difficulties will meet the rainbow that you can't imagine.
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If a woman wants to have a happy life after marriage, she should do the following. The first is to establish an equal husband and wife relationship with your husband. The status of any one person in the relationship between husband and wife is too high, which will have a great impact on the marriage of two people, such as machismo, such as swallowing anger, domestic violence, etc.
Therefore, it is necessary to talk about this matter before marriage, and at the same time, it is necessary to find a way to make the man accept this concept according to his personality.
The second point is to have the ability to be financially independent. I'm not saying that a woman must be financially independent after marriage, but at least she must have this ability, and she must maintain this ability. The economic base determines the superstructure so that you don't have no say in some family decisions.
The third point is to have a good relationship with your husband. Harmony is not to be obedient, but to communicate and solve problems under the premise of mutual understanding and respect.
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