Is it better to be with someone you love, or with someone who loves you?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-29
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Truly speaking, it is best to be happy with each other.

    If you can't reach this state, you will settle for the next best.

    It's better to be with people who love you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    With someone who loves you, of course!!

    He doesn't love you, how can the two of you be happy together?

    Right?!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Choose the former: you will be worried, worried, but you will hate your suspicions.

    Choose the latter: guilt.

    If you think that kind of emotion is more bearable, choose whichever one.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When we make a decision, it is our truest thoughts, our truest feelings.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why do people agree to be with you if they don't love you? If you have no purpose and agree to be with you, then you can use your own efforts to impress him with sincerity, if the person who loves you can't impress you, if you haven't done anything, why be with him?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The person you love doesn't love you, but the person you don't love loves you, so it's better to choose the person who loves you, so that you will get at least a little bit of happiness. Maybe it will make them change their minds. Is it the greatest joy for you to see that person every day?

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    But even if you are with someone who loves you, then what if he doesn't love you? That's also a uncomfortable thing, do you have to be wronged for a lifetime! So it's better to find someone who loves each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    With the person you love, you will be happy but easy to be sad, and with the person who loves you will be at ease but also easy to be discouraged, depending on the individual's personality

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course, it's the person you love, although the latter loves you very much, but you don't necessarily love him, so if you are reluctant to be together, both of you will be hurt.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everyone has their own opinion, and if he loves you more than you love him, then be with the person who loves you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The lover is too tired, but he is very happy to be loved.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Choosing to be with someone who loves you and being loved is a very happy thing. But remember that you also have to slowly fall in love with him, so that you can be happier.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Different ages will have different feelings, different circumstances, and different choices. No matter which one you choose, as long as you are happy, everything is worth it, but you have to understand that if you choose, you will be responsible for what you choose.

    First of all, if you choose a person you love, then he may not necessarily love you, in the process of getting along, you will be the disadvantaged party, and it is a voluntary giving, without asking for anything in return, it is possible that you will be sensitive to his sincerity to you in the process of getting along. On the other hand, he will feel that everything you pay is deserved, because you love him, you have to be good to him without hesitation, and will not take care of your emotions and care about you on the premise of your pay.

    Maybe if you love someone, you have to be good to him without hesitation, but you should have a degree in everything you do, and no degree will only make him worse. No matter how much you love someone, you must know how to stop in moderation, you can't be obliged, and you can't be good to him without a bottom line, when people can't get it, the most basic dignity will be lost.

    Secondly, if you choose someone who loves you, then at least in this relationship, you don't need to have any worries, and you won't have more burdens to worry about whether he will leave you, but will ensure that in this relationship, the two of you can work together for the same goal, this process will be your unforgettable emotional experience, and you will also feel that this process is happy and beautiful.

    Perhaps, choose a person who loves you, you will feel more warmth and happiness in this relationship, love one will be good to him from the bottom of your heart, and make you feel that it is a good choice for you to choose him, he will not let you be wronged here, I just want you to see the sweet love that belongs to you.

    It doesn't matter if you choose someone who loves you or someone you love, as long as you feel happy, that's fine. Nothing is more important than the words "I am happy".

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If it were me, I would choose to be with the person I love.

    1. If I am with the person I love, of course, the premise is that he also loves me. Being with the person I love means that the initiative is in my hands, and I am with this person because I like this person, so I will really love this person and get along with this person. And with the person I love, no matter how I look at it, I will like him, whether it is eating together, shopping or sleeping, I will like him from the bottom of my heart, and I think it will make me more comfortable to choose the person I love.

    2. If I choose to be with someone who loves me but I don't love him, then I will be very painful, first of all, the active choice is in the hands of the other party, I will feel very passive, how can I be with him because he loves me? There are more people who love me, do you have to be with him because he loves you? Even if he will be good to you, he will not be happy, because you can't be good to him.

    3. The relationship is mutual, both people must be giving, liking each other for a long time, and letting one person pay unilaterally will make another person feel taken for granted, and the person who has been paying will also be wronged, so you must choose what you love, and let yourself be willing to pay for him!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    1.To love someone is to want to give anything for the other person, and will be good to the other person, but what you get may be cold treatment or reluctant acceptance. 2.

    And the one who loves you, he will also give everything for you, and you will get what you want. 3.Feelings require two people to work together and operate together, so according to their own efforts, see who is more suitable for them and can go on for a long time, whether it is the person who chooses to love you or you love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hello, it may be a little happier to choose someone who loves you.

    In life, the person you love may not be able to give you the final result in the end, and sometimes you may suffer losses because of the unladylike person, this problem is more common in love and marriage, and choosing the person you love will make your love satisfied.

    And the person who loves you is often not the person you love, this seems to be a strange phenomenon, you don't love the person you love, the person you don't love loves you, many times when you get married, you will listen to the advice of your family and choose a person who loves you, the result is often good, you can have a happy life.

    There is no standard answer to this question, you have to pay a little more to choose the person you love, and it may end in nothing. Choose the person who loves you, you will gain a little more, and you can feel sweetness and happiness more.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In fact, everyone has some answer to this question, but when it comes to really choosing, they will hesitate. Choice is a very vague concept, if you can be sure that the person you like will accept you, then choose the person you like. If you don't reject people who like you, then you can also consider accepting people who like you, so that although you are not so happy, you will be happy in the future.

    Love is a two-sided effort! It's a matter of two people! But efforts in the area are impossible to be happy!

    Loving someone who doesn't love yourself will be so tired, so hard;

    It's also very helpless to be loved by someone you don't love!

    Choose someone who loves yourself more, maybe you won't be tired or painful! But if you can't love the person you love, it will also be very painful! Then take a step back and try to love this person who loves you deeply! Perhaps, you will fall in love with him?

    If you can, store up your love, find someone who loves you and who is also your love, and love well!

    I wish you to find your happiness soon.

    6 years ago, I chose to be loved, because being loved is happiness, if you don't love him, feelings are slowly accumulating, and getting along slowly may be better than yourself, if you choose what you love, you may be tired, you choose what you love, you will take care of him for a lifetime, if you choose to love you, he will take care of you for a lifetime, just like the old man before, he was not loved and did not love his person, and then people are not also a lifetime, some things are fate, because even if you choose what you love, it will not necessarily be together, Maybe you choose to love you, maybe you will be together, people are destined, not who says who will be together, I wish you can find someone who loves you and the person you love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No matter what era, the proportion of people in the world who are happy with each other is very small, if you meet it, then congratulations, please be sure to cherish him and her for the rest of your life.

    And most people are looking for a soul fit, due to various reasons (not a big circle, busy work, etc.) resulting in being alone in the world for many years, so the word "maternal solo" is gradually popular for self-mockery, the reason for being single is not that there is no one you like or no one to pursue, but that you feel that the other party is not suitable, and you don't want to try.

    When you reach the age of marriage, or even after getting married, there will be a question that people think about repeatedly: Is it happier to be with the person you love or happier with the person who loves you?

    Some people say that you should find someone who loves you for a lifetime, because you are devoted to you, you are naturally like being immersed in a honey pot, you will be well protected, maybe you will gradually become attached to each other, or maybe there will be the opposite result.

    Some people say that you should stay with the people you love, so that your happiness will burst. A good example of this is that almost every star chaser will want to find someone like their idol, because it is the type they like, so the more they look at it, the more pleasing it is.

    But after all, life is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, sometimes you like to be crushed by these trivial things, but if the other party is someone you really like, you will never get bored, you will be better and better, because you want to stand with him, your happiness will be higher and higher, and you will find the balance of mutual love in each other's excellence.

    However, it is also possible that the person you love does not love you, and it is really tiring to pay unilaterally, and if you want to stay with each other for a lifetime, your own efforts alone are far from enough.

    Determine each other's attitudes, love is not as simple as love at first sight, and love over time is the result of years of accumulation.

    Some people say that the love of the day is just a scumbag, but in my opinion, the real long-term and long-term love is the result of running in with each other for many years.

    Whether you find someone who loves you or someone you love, you must cherish each other in front of you, after all, fate is wonderful.

    If you had to choose, would you choose the one who loves you or the one you love? end

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, it is difficult to choose the person who loves you or the person who loves you together, after all, it is difficult to choose, many people think that it is best to choose a person who loves me more than I love him, in fact, it is the same in love or marriage, if you are good to her, she will actually be as good as you, after all, there is no one wrong in the relationship, who says to whom, in the case of no choice, I will definitely give priority to a person who loves me, if there is a choice, I will choose a person I love and someone who loves me, Therefore, it is very difficult to choose in the face of such a choice, but the choice of ordinary people will choose a person who loves you, in fact, this behavior is also manifested in personal selfishness

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you can be with the person you love, then of course it's good, if he can be with you, it means that he gives you a chance and has a good impression of you, of course, if the person you love doesn't love you and is reluctant, don't accept it when you are together, because you will pay a lot and can't get his heart, or choose the person who loves you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I will choose to be with people who love me. As long as I don't hate her from the bottom of my heart. Because if the person I love doesn't love me, the twisted melon is not sweet, and it will be difficult to be together for a long time. The other party always has a reluctant idea.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you have a choice, of course, choose to love yourself and the people you love, why can you only choose one of them.

    Of course, if you really can only choose one of the two, give priority to choosing someone who loves you, because then your heart will feel better and you won't feel so tired.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If it were me, I would choose a gif who loves me and has the person I love together, because only if I go both ways, there will be results and a better future, but if one party is one-way, there will be some contradictions and some irreversible results.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The person you love and the person who loves you, how do you choose this question is very tangled, and it is difficult to be complicated, everyone wants to choose the person they love and the person who loves themselves, but it is also difficult to have both, but as for me, I will choose the person I love, because I choose to be with the person I love, and I have no regrets.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Lovers will, he will accompany you all the time to love you and even spoil you to get used to you, and the people you don't love are not joking with their own happiness and their own fate, for love we should be bold to go out, to bravely pursue their own happiness, if a person's life without true love then it is not a complete life, or to cherish your lover, grasp everything is not so difficult as you think, there will be a good turnaround, the family poverty and difficulties may just be the status quo, People can't be poor for a lifetime, money is earned by people, don't back down, since you love him, you should not be afraid of anything, come on.

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