Is it appropriate to tell a 3 year old about life and death?

Do you yourself understand life and death???

It's necessary, it's necessary.

How to make children revere life and understand death?

1.Explain to children with objective and concrete facts:

Parents should first let their children know what things are alive, flowers and trees are alive and need photosynthesis; The little animals have life to drink and eat; and then to human breathing, eating, excretion ......These characteristics are alive.

Then tell the child that death, flowers and trees cannot photosynthesize, and the rhizomes no longer grow, which means death, and the same goes from plants to animalsLosing your breath, stopping your thoughts, and having no more vital signs means the end of your lifeUse concrete examples to explain to your child.

2.Guide your child to express his emotions correctly

Many parents are taboo for their children to say that Zen respects "death" and crying because of "death", which always feels that this is unlucky, but it just hinders the child from expressing himself.

In the face of the departure of life, children should be allowed to express what they want to say and their sad emotions.

Parents also don't have to hide their emotions for fear of their children being sad about the loss of their loved onesBe honest with your child about your feelings, can avoid the next birth of a good life to leave the child caused by psychological trauma.

3.Guide your child out of grief:

Death means leaving forever for most people, and it can be difficult for children to accept this reality, and being in grief for a long time is not a good thing for children.

Parents can try some positive guidanceFor example, telling children that death does not mean leaving forever, and forgetting isAs long as we remember His presence, He will not leave us.

Isn't it a kind of growth to guide children to change from sad emotions to nostalgic emotions?

In fact, sometimes a little child understands far more than we think he will understand.

I have a little nephew who is now three years and three months old. Looking at his little one, in fact, sometimes he understands a lot more than I thought. Because there is a cousin who is going to get married, our family has to take our little nephew to the wedding, because the distance is two hours away, and because the little nephew is so big, the farthest place I have ever been to is only four or five points away from my own house in this province.

I'm afraid that he is not used to taking a plane for the first time this time, so I asked him, should we take a plane to grandma's house? He said, "If you don't sit, you fall down and die."

Life and death are a thing that each of us must experience, life is like you came to this world with your loud cry, you met your parents who love you, met your grandparents, met your grandparents, met your kindergarten teachers and classmates, met your favorite friends. You will encounter more interesting things in the future, and maybe you will also encounter a lot of unhappy things in the future, many things that you don't like. But that's what makes up your life.

In the future, when you encounter unhappiness, you overcome him, and that's what our life is all about.

And death is the same as life, you see that your parents are older than you, that is, sir, but one day we will all die, because of my parents, sir, maybe my parents will die earlier than you. Death is not terrible, we are just in another world, maybe you think that death means that everyone is separated, and we will never see each other again. But you have to remember that whoever dies and leaves will become the brightest star in the night sky to guard you and protect you.

And it doesn't matter if you can't see it, at least the memories we have when we were born are beautiful, what are memories used for, memories are used to remember when we can't see them.

Three-year-old children's cognitive level is still relatively shallow. You can't really understand the big thing of life and death.

In a child's worldview, there is no such thing as life and death. Therefore, when adults talk to him about death and life, he will be at a loss and will not understand. Normal adult thinking is not suitable for children.

Explaining life and death can be explained from the perspective of children, using some simple and easy-to-understand words, and telling them.

3-year-olds have a series of life experiences when they catch a cold or get sick. Sometimes you can tell your child that when someone in the family is sick, you can be very sleepy when a person is sick. When a person dies, he falls asleep.

I can't wake up. The rest of the sick person should not be disturbed. In this way, although the word death is not directly said, the child knows it and should not be disturbed when he falls asleep.

This is an explanation of death. Children may also often ask: Mom, am I from **?

This should be a rather embarrassing question, three years old can't understand so many professional words, so use analogy to tell the child, you used to be a seed, dad planted it in the mother's belly with a special method, and then you slowly grew up in the mother's belly, just like many aunts, the belly is getting bigger and bigger. At this time, you can show the child the pregnant **, and he will be able to understand the big belly, in the mother's belly. And then the time comes, you want to see Mom and Dad, and then you see us raw, coming out of our wombs.

It is generally good to explain to children that they understand words in simple terms.

Dear baby, I am very happy when you ask this question, because you may have realized that the meaning of these 2 words is different. Everyone goes through birth and death, but the process in between will be different.

To be born means to come into the world. Every spring, the grass comes out of the ground, and the bare branches begin to sprout. There may also be a lot of critters poking their heads out to see the world.

This is birth, which means a new beginning in life.

But ah, autumn passes, winter comes, and in summer the leaves that become more and more green turn yellow, dry up, swaying in the wind and finally fall, and the grass is withered and yellow, and there are many very old animals, and they may sleep this winter. Death means leaving this world, and it also means the disappearance of life.

It's the same with people, everyone starts from a baby, and then is young, middle-aged, old, and dies. When my mother was young, she was just like you, and she was so short and cute. Then, day by day, month by month, year by year, my mother slowly grew up.

Growing up is both joyful and painful, and it's fun to play with children when I'm in school, but I'm not happy when I have to do my homework. When you taste the food, you are happy, but when you are sick and you get the injection, you are not happy. When you grow up, you need to be independent, and your mother was also clinging to her grandmother and grandfather when she was young, but when she grew up, she began to live on her own.

But I often go back to see my grandmother and grandfather, no matter if my mother is in **, I love them very much in my heart.

After a long, long time, you grow up, your mother will be old, and then you will have your own life and family. And then you will grow old, and then life will disappear, and this is death. So you have to remember that the wonderful thing about life is the process.