What s it like to talk to an ex girlfriend?

It was a particularly subtle feeling. The kind of caution that wants to understand the other person but is afraid that it will be perceived as wanting to continue the front edge, but in the details of the words, there is nostalgia for the past, hoping that the other party will still be the same as at the beginning, but I am afraid that I will behave too aggressively, this feeling is really unstoppable. said so many euphemistic words, in fact, I still want to rely on this broken ticket to board the passenger ship of the year.

After every relationship ends, there is an inevitable reason for him, memories always stay in good moments, in fact, what we should really do is to sort out our mentality and welcome a new life!

Seriously, there is a phase. At first, I didn't care, after all, I loved it, but after a long time, I slowly became relieved, and I began to say nothing. only to find out that all this is not so insurmountable.

So in the end, the two of them sat down, drank tea, chatted, and didn't think about anything, as if time had passed for a long time, and as if time had never moved, which was a good feeling.

Many times I say I want to forget, I think I have let go, I have forgotten. Actually, no, it's just our self-comfort, because our long-term self-comfort has paralyzed us, thinking that we have forgotten, in fact, a small thing can easily evoke our previous memories.

I feel that it's me, it's inappropriate to say that the breakup is a woman, and to dump me if I have no ambition is within my acceptable range. After a few months of being angry and hateful, my feelings for her began to become indifferent, although I still cared a little. Then the turning point was my skipping class, because I was lazy and escaped for a week (I was really depressed, I finally understood why I didn't want to find the same class when I fell in love), I don't know for what reason, it's good to care about me, and it's good to feel guilty, she called ** to ask me, why don't you come to class?

There are not many examples of this kind, because I found that there was nothing to talk about when I added back to WeChat, and I ignored her if she didn't look for me. The more I talked, the more I found that I couldn't go back, and there was no sentence, so that in the end I didn't want to talk about it, and I thought: Get rid of it, can these things not bother me?

How do I do it at the end of the day? The end of the self-taught topic, well, oh, oh. Consciously guide the words to the point where I can't continue, and solve my problem perfectly.

Finally, the experience is: "Oh, it's so annoying, can you stop bothering me about boring things?" ”

Therefore, when chatting with her, there will be a feeling of rekindling the old feelings, and I will still be very nervous. When I talk to my ex-girlfriend, my heart beats faster because I can't forget the past.

The ex-girlfriend is already in the past tense, and we have to face the present life. Since you are chatting with your ex-girlfriend and your heart is beating faster, it means that you are still reluctant to give up on you and your ex-girlfriend.

Relaxed, speaking less carefully than before, no longer worrying about whether she is angry because of certain words, not in love, but behaving better.