How to deal with long term boredom?

After two people have been in contact for a long time, they will slowly develop his strengths and develop a dependence on him. After being together, because of getting along day and night, his shortcomings are slowly exposed, and doubts and boredom will arise. This is the run-in period in love.

Many couples lack the patience and perseverance to treat their marriage well, and they always seem impatient when they encounter difficulties in life. How many couples don't look at themselves, but they are used to accusing each other, so that the fate of husband and wife passes quietly in quarrels again and again. In a marriage that lacks tolerance and understanding, it is inevitable that husband and wife will get tired of each other for a long time!

The girlfriend has been married for 7 years, exhausted the fate of husband and wife, and finally parted ways. The two of them went their own way to the end of the world, and they became strangers from then on. On the day of her divorce, I stayed with her drunk.

During the dinner, my best friend asked me why the two people who loved each other finally fell into such a situation and left with hatred, and I was speechless!

If you are tired of it for a long time, then many couples who want to live a lifetime are not tired of it, it should be that you have not entered this state in advance, just get used to it slowly, since you are aware of these problems, you should change yourself, since the two love each other, you also listen to your man's words, his pressure is greater than yours, you can get married, you have talked for so long, and have another baby, your family will be more harmonious.

After a long time of contact, you will have a good feeling, and two people will have feelings for each other, and they will fall in love with each other over time. The reason for being in love for a long time is that they have been in love and married for a long time, and both of them have shortcomings and shortcomings, and love is gone, and only life remains. Love loses its original flavor, and it is inevitable that you will feel bored.

The state of two people together is phased. The love period is about two months, and this time is the process of getting to know each other more specifically. You have personally experienced the changes in the other person's mood, the food and taste they like to eat, the way they treat others, and so on.

Let's separate each other for a while, if you still have feelings for each other, then continue to be together, if not, then it is recommended that the two of you break up, otherwise you will still break up at that time.

It's normal to get tired of the problem for a long time, so you should treat it with a normal heart, and then create more freshness in your daily life, so that it will be much better.

Break up, don't like to break up, don't hate each other and make people upset, leave a good impression on each other, after all, there are still good memories together, let go early.

Show your good side, if this doesn't work, then there's no need to be together anymore, let's separate, we already have a sense of disgust.

If you get tired of it for a long time, slowly reduce the contact, otherwise it will only make the relationship worse, and see if the beauty of distance can save this relationship.

If you feel annoyed after living for a long time, then try not to pay attention to the person you find annoying. Reduce the connection between each other, and do not speculate for more than half a sentence.

Just break up, you're already starting to hate him, continue to be together, it's hard for you to like him anymore, you will only hate him more and more.

Just break up, after a long time, you will get tired of each other, and it seems that the feelings between each other are not very deep, so just separate and find someone else.

In fact, two people still need to work hard to create freshness for each other when two people are together, so that they will not get bored for a long time.

Create more freshness and keep it fresh, do more things together to maintain interest in each other, and often chat together to deepen the relationship.

To deal with long-term boredom, you should take the initiative to express and communicate, feelings are "talked", re-establish your own attraction, and communicate peacefully with your lover, the following is a specific introduction:

1. Take the initiative to express and communicate, and feelings are "talked".

If you have something to say, he is not a roundworm in your stomach. You don't say anything, do you think he can look at the heavens, or do you think he can look at the astrolabe? Or do you think you're going to get started the first time you're a boyfriend?

He should have learned to read minds on his first day in office, know what shade of your foundation is, and what brand of tampon you are used to? So these need to be communicated by both sides.

There is also the need to keep a distance, everything in the world has a distance, this is the natural world. Therefore, husband and wife should also maintain a distance of mutual respect and appreciation for each other, and cannot be indecent. You can't say whatever you want to say just because you are a husband and wife, you can do whatever you want, you have to go through your brain and consider each other's feelings.

2. Re-establish your own attractiveness.

The reason why husband and wife will have no affection for each other is that they are not attractive to each other. Because after you are not attractive to each other, the other party will not pay special attention to you, at most, you will maintain the habit formed after getting along for a long time.

And if you want emotional recovery, then you need to rebuild your attractiveness so that your significant other can pay attention to you so that you can start again. You can learn to make changes, you are already used to laundry and cooking, you can dress yourself up beautifully, and go to square dancing with many friends, so you also have mature charm.

3. Communicate peacefully with your lover.

Feelings will disappear because of frequent quarrels, and they will also increase because of friendly interactions. And you need to know how to live in peace with your lover. In ordinary life, you can care more about him, understand his thoughts more, and when you have a quarrel, you don't need to argue loudly with each other, you must fight to win or lose.

As long as you calm down and communicate with the other person in a calm tone, you can find a solution to the problem together and get along better.