My girlfriend and I met on the Internet, now you can help me analyze it, thank you

I admire your courage, I am quite similar to you, and it is also an online dating.

My parents went abroad when I was a child, and they rarely cared about me, but now I work on my own, and I don't ask them for money, and I don't have any savings.

I can't guarantee that I can give her happiness, the reality of getting along for 3 months, when she showed that she was bored with me, I chose to leave very interestingly, can you say that I don't love her? I've known her for 7 or 8 years, and I'm getting along with her, but I know that there is too much pressure in reality, and many times it's not just love.

How can you say you can give her happiness? With your mouth?

If so, I'd advise you to get your ticket back.

Real life is not a house, not a day is a day, there are too many things to consider.

Her father must have told her a lot, don't be impulsive, young man, impulsiveness is also a manifestation of immaturity.

If you have a house, a car and a deposit, do you still need to ask for the satisfaction of others?

Did I think it was complicated, or did you think it was too simple?

Touch his parents with sincerity.

But I think. None of these are the main ones. His father cared about. What can you give his daughter. Everything else is puffy clouds. Unless you can come up with what she said. There is a house. There is a deposit. There are cars.

So I think you can start with that. Express your love for his daughter. And can be good to her for the rest of her life. Touching her and her father with sincerity.

You can be so confident, buddy, I admire you, it's right for you to buy a ticket to see him, because when you get there, you can prove that you still love her deeply, and she will be moved, as for his father, but because of the distance, then you should be with.

1. Her dad talks about your future plans and lets his dad know that you are a boy with brains and loves her, do you understand? Thank you for being able to.

Don't drill the horns, you have to be able to afford to put it down, why don't you have a wife, and you still bother when you give a relieved person to a girl? Also give yourself a relief Good girls are more There is a kind of love called letting go of personal opinions

Online dating is generally unreliable.

The more you give, the more you lose, the most you see, and the most painful you hurt. Because every relationship, a man's feelings for a woman will have a profound impact on a woman. Many women want too much for love, thinking that choosing a man is not only rich and car, but also has good looks and figure, and is considerate and will take care of people, and revolve around themselves every day, but how can such a good thing happen to you in the world?

Therefore, a woman who wants love should know how to make trade-offs and not be too demanding. Some women have a strong desire to control and always want to find a man who can manage themselves, but other women will like a rich and good-looking man, so men will have a lot of choices, and they will definitely not let you take care of it. And if you look for someone who doesn't have money and doesn't look good, women will feel unwilling, but although such a woman can manage it, she has no sense of security, and she feels that a man will be very faceless when she takes it out, so this makes the woman must be in a single state.

Single women often don't understand what the other half of the type they want is like, and always feel that the man who does his duty doesn't know how to be romantic, life will be boring, and living with such a person will be very boring, and if it is a man who understands romance and can play, he feels that he is easy to be deceived and is easy to be split, which will waste time and delay his youth. Therefore, many women don't know what they want, so they will keep going on the road of singleness and never find their other half. The reason why women will but, is also because they are always picking and choosing, knowing more men, and seeing more, you will feel that you have not met true love, always feel that this is not your true love, and the other is not your true love, so you always pick and choose again and again, and in the end you don't pick the person who suits you.

If you have these small problems when dealing with love, then you have to reflect on it, is it caused by being too picky and wanting too much? For life, you should live a good and free life, because it is a day to live happily, and it is also a day to be unhappy, so why bother.

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect it to be perfect, but we can make it true.

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, and love has long become fast food. What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It has become an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even a slave to money.

Love at this time has lost its aura of beauty and has become realistic and worldly. Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love unbridledly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers.

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world. So when you have a good love, cherish it. To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world. The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together.

Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy. There is nothing wrong with loving someone.

What to do, you ask? I took a look at your brief chat history. Just tell you what to do? It's a bit out of line. Because only you know the actual situation. I can only make a few of my own thin comments:

First: You must be in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship now, but you haven't lived together yet, and you're still a student. First of all, don't think about whether your girlfriend is suitable to live in a rented house outside.

And is there really such a way to rent just a kitchen? Is it your cousin's boyfriend who wants to live with your cousin in a rented apartment? You need to check this.

Second: If you and your girlfriend don't have any opinions, you can discuss the two of you going out to rent a room alone. Thus not being her cousin's light bulb, this is negotiable.

Third: If you and your girlfriend don't reach the point of living together. Then I suggest that you can persuade your girlfriend not to go out with your cousin for the time being. After all, it's not appropriate for her to go to other people's boyfriends and girlfriends.

Separation is one of the most difficult ways to control and the most difficult to succeed in falling in love. If you really love each other, you'll find a way to get together.

It is necessary to communicate with her every day, to remind her to eat on time, sleep on time, to add clothes when the weather is slippery, and to tell her how much you love her, women can't listen enough to this. Birthdays and holidays must be celebrated with her (when the messenger is errand, I mean when both are in the country), at least to do your best.

My husband and I also met online, we also live separately in two places, we have to contact every day, I tell him every day that I love him, I miss him very much, I can't live without him, I often write him emails, although he never gives me back, but I know that he won't be as good at talking as I am, so I don't mind. You have to know that if you love someone, you must tolerate everything about him, his strengths and weaknesses, so don't force the other party to do anything, but what you need to do must be done.

If she loves you too, you should be able to feel it in her words and actions.

Good luck.

I just want to tell you realistically that most online dating fails. You'll find out later.

It takes a lot of courage for every girl to be with a man, don't think about it, cherish her, love her, make yourself strong enough, have the ability and capital to marry her, and give her a realistic future! She doesn't necessarily love you much, but you must do it without regrets!

It takes a lot of courage to love her: the courage to give along the way, the courage to face failure in the future!

The main thing is how you feel for her, how much you love her, if you really love, you can talk to her, as adults, we should be financially independent and work hard together for the future life, otherwise when will the small family be established to withstand the ups and downs, I wish you to find true happiness.

It's hard to say. But do you like her? If you like her, choose to believe her.

If you don't really like her. Or can't believe her. Just choose to break up.

The main thing is to know what you think. What do you want. Are girls more sensitive?

Some things are not good to talk to you about. In short, you have to think clearly about this and decide on it yourself. No one else can help.

Loving someone is to ignore her past, only care about the happiness of two people now, but you can try ...... in a different directionWill she still be with you without money? Is this the only way to prove it?

About your doubts:

You can speak your own doubts. Listen to what she thinks. If she is in love with you just for the sake of filial piety to her mother, it means that she is a good person, but she does not love you. You should think carefully about your relationship.

About what you love about her:

You're going to find out what you love about her? Is it beautiful, is it filial piety, is it reality, is it industrious? You have to think about this.

What can you do about her coming:

Before the first and second problems are solved, you can only buy flowers, eat, and talk about your outlook on life. Nothing else can be done.

Buy her roses, don't buy one for the first time, just a few, take her to the place she is interested in playing, do what she likes, and buy some gifts for her mother when she comes home......

1. There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great.

2. Cook raw rice to mature rice.

It's better to meet first, maybe after you meet, you will feel that she is not your cup of tea, besides, love is a matter of the two of you, her classmates told her not to talk to you, she won't talk to you, is she too ...... somethingLet's talk to a girl who is more reliable.

Have you met? If you haven't seen it, she may think it's unrealistic, but it's not good to say it directly to reject you, that's why it's like this, if you have seen it, then she just doesn't like you at all, to be precise, whether you have seen it or not, she has no feelings for you at all, so don't waste time.

In fact, she is already giving you a chance: "Unless you can impress me". She wants to see not only your "hard work", but your sincerity. It's best to meet up and arrange a romantic date with your heart. Good luck.

What and what online dating? I didn't talk about how you know about her classmates.

It's yours, others can't take it away, it's not yours, no matter how you rob it, it won't be yours.

I think now it is said that online love is more fake, mainly because there are too many **, I think if you can, you can go to her, just treat it as a long-distance relationship, not just online.

Even if you impress her, you get moved still. Give it up.

I haven't seen these interviews yet, it's nonsense, it's not necessarily like that in real life, I have the opportunity to see you first and make sure you still like her before thinking about it.

Have you met her, and if not, it is advisable to meet her.

Do you have any capital? I think the first thing I should do is to understand her background before making a decision about whether to chase her, things on the Internet are too empty. I've never believed in online chat. I remind you to talk about pure love, or go and see her, don't be deceived.

It's worth dying for her, use a little bitter trick, if she likes you, then she will definitely show something for your bitter trick.