Relationship problems, can anyone tell me what to do? 100, right? Can t you be high?????

I'll break it down for you.

First, the customs are different in each place, and the gift money is also different, but if your girlfriend is bent on marrying you, (because she has argued with her parents many times) she loves you so much, will she care about the amount of your gift money?

Second, you say you care about her, she ignores you, you say you're doing something that has no self-esteem. So, I would like to ask you, do you think you need to be reciprocated for your dedication to your girlfriend? If she doesn't respond to you, do you think you're doing something that you don't have self-esteem?

You're giving now with affection, not in business. Feelings are paid willingly, not with the idea of "planting melons and getting melons and planting beans and getting beans", are you right? Furthermore, which is more important, your self-esteem or your future happiness?

Weigh it yourself.

Third, I don't know what happened in the process, your girlfriend will be so cold to you, I think your girlfriend said that your family didn't pay attention to her, and it is also one of the sources of heart disease, what do you say? After all, women age fast, 23 or 24 years old, it's time to get married, after all, your girlfriend's parents don't want to go out and be pointed at and talked about, you really didn't think about this for your girlfriend, do you think what I said makes sense?

Fourth, you think that your appearance can go out and more women can choose you, then, you are wrong, choose the woman of your appearance, that is just short-sighted, the current society is completely about strength, about appearance, men and women are the same, sooner or later they will get old, so, powerful people can set foot in this society more than vases, do you say yes??

As I said above, don't be presumptuous, take 5 minutes before going to bed and think about whether what I said is right.

The following points are for me to summarize for you and see if I can help you.

1.Discuss with your parents whether your family's financial allowance is if you get married at the end of the year, and if your family's financial situation allows, do the second one.

2.Go to her, ask her out to talk, and if she agrees to go out with you, tell her what you think, tell her that you are not disrespecting her, that you are conflicted, and that you have done the ideological work of your parents. If she ignores you as usual, you say that you are not children anymore, this time everyone sits down and has a good talk, don't be impulsive, don't ask her (although let you not ask her, but your tone must be tactful and gentle.

If she rejects you, please respect her opinion, one thing you must know is that a woman is softer than anyone else when she is soft-hearted, and harder than anyone else. So when you can't save the situation, it's better to let it go. Maybe she's just a passerby in your life, and you're just getting off the wrong place where you shouldn't.

However, your result is separation, and give yourself a week to grieve. But don't keep falling for yourself. Then work hard.

Don't regret the decision you made, because separation is not the outcome you want. But after all, you have worked hard and fought for it, and emotional things can only be fought for, not forced. Are you right?

Finally, I would like to give you a word: if there is a fate, it will be anchored, and if there is no fate, it will pass!

Psychological counselling.

**Naked wounds: What do people really exist? Affection?

Love? Friendship may be something else. But these emotions bring pressure, resentment, anger, and sadness, and who will consider and experience it from your standpoint.

No one does, and everyone is selfish, no matter who they are.

In reality, it's so hypocritical, everyone has the right to be selfish, and I hate those things but I can't break out of this hateful prison! I wish someone could understand me, help me, and rescue me. Too much helplessness, suppressed anger! Hold back your grievances! It's all so selfish.

He's already desperate for you.

Your girlfriend is too heavy on money, so let's change a girlfriend.

Men are like onions. If you want to see the heart of the onion, you need to peel it layer by layer, but you will keep crying in the process of peeling it, and at the end of the peeling you will realize that the onion is a heartless ......(It's a bit serious, but it's pretty much the same).

You're all wrong! Knowing that she is not the type you like, you can't cross the boundaries of your friends to do that, it also means that you have ruined her happiness, and you can't take responsibility for everything you do! Hey, the girl is stupid too, she has nothing to say!

Or as the upstairs said, slowly distance yourself from her, don't contact her! Naturally, she understood! This kind of thing can't be said too directly, otherwise it's like digging out her heart! She hurts

Take care of it and wait for your good news!!

Let everything be fate, who can say clearly about feelings? How many decades can a person's life have? It's good to have worked hard!

This world is not something that we can dominate alone, so let's go with the flow. There are gains and losses in life, and there are losses compared to gains. If she can't be redeemed anymore, why should she lose her career again?

Go start a business. Men, career first, without a career, what to talk about the happiness of your beloved?

Maybe it's because the pressure on her family is too much, sometimes this kind of pressure can be overwhelming, let me give you advice, give each other a little more time, ask yourself, do you love her or not, if you do, don't give up, don't be afraid that she will break your heart. Men, just be yourself, work hard, and you won't regret it in the future. I wish you happiness.

Well, let's put it this way, because of the influence of the customs of your hometown, you hope that you can get married early and not be looked down upon by people in other townships, but this is the reason for customs, and you can't blame her for wanting to get married early.

However, she wants to break up with you for only 2 reasons: 1. Because she really doesn't like you anymore, she uses marriage as an excuse; 2. She still likes you, but you don't meet her requirements, and because of external factors such as pressure from the villagers, she still wants to find a family that can continue to live without worrying about money, so she made this choice. But you will definitely wonder why she didn't feel this way in the past, maybe because she was still young and vigorous at that time, and she didn't understand the reality of life, but as she got older, she gradually got this idea.

Then I think you need to ask her carefully whether she still likes you or not. If she's straightforward and straightforward, then you'll forget it. You're still very young, and you've said that you can choose a woman for your looks, not be chosen.

But you see that the breakup rhetoric she gave you was very vague, "saying that my family didn't value her and didn't think about her age." That sentence makes me think that the reason why she broke up with you is only because you and her are not married.

So, I think, you should ask if she still likes you. But when the time comes, if she says d2 reasons, then it's up to you whether you want to continue to be with him again. However, I think your girlfriend seems to be a bit powerful, because in my opinion, since I said so at the time, if I have to be with you, I should love you very much.

But now it's time to leave. This shows that she puts life before love. If you really like and like you, then you should believe in you, because at least you are still trying.

It's also a good choice to go outside.

Brother, what the hell, how do you feel that I am the same as you.

I went to my girlfriend's house and met most of her relatives, and I said as much as I did when I went last year.

Now I'm scared, and it's doubled.

My heart was scared. I've worked hard to make money, but now it's not enough for a tenth of their family's gift money.

I'm under a lot of pressure, it's not easy for us to be together, she loves me so much now, just thinking of gift money, although she comforts me every day, but I still have a deep resistance, I don't know how to solve it, his parents also said, give me time, but secretly look for someone at home, I don't know what to do.

It's hard, I also know that we both love the woman. But it's too realistic. It's so realistic.

Come back and talk about you, you have no money, no house, and your girlfriend wants to break up again, what else can you do, leave. She's losing faith in you, and it's useless to save it.

Let's go out for a walk, a man's world is vast. Love is just a part of life, and a lot of excitement is still waiting for you. No matter what the reason, once a woman leaves, her heart will go away with her, and they have to maintain the unity of body and mind. Cheer up and live hard!

Maybe she has something unspeakable, go abroad, I support you, if you are destined, maybe when you come back, she will still be waiting for you in the same place. I am one of those examples.

Your family is not rich and you still drive abroad? It's not a joke, there are a lot of good girls in this world, but she's not suitable for you, you should find a girl younger than you!

Let's try to redeem it, talk to her well, she will at least pick you up** She won't answer my one now** Indeed, sometimes think about it, it's not worth it, is it a big deal, and it's not impossible to find.

But it's hard to do, can't let go of a relationship, what you're doing now, I think it's because you don't regret it.

Even if you really can't be together, at least you do your best, and you won't regret it later.

Alas! What people are most afraid of is emotional problems, how fragile love is when it meets reality! You basically can't do it if you put it down, at least within a year!

If she can really let go, then what can you do, slowly adjust yourself, I think she must be more uncomfortable than you in her heart, after all, you are about to get married, talk to her and her family, talk about human nature! Our life is not just material, people are often not for enjoyment, but for the comfort of the soul! The heart is a person's spiritual pillar, not material, there is a house and a car, there is no love, how good is the material life, you will always be lonely, life has no meaning for this kind of person, for your heart, to defend your love!!

If you really can't do it, just give up! We have to learn to give up!! The world is so big, your heart can still find someone who can be in the alley, don't be tired!

I believe that tomorrow will be better!!

If you don't know much, the topics you will naturally talk about for a longer time will be boring. Don't be afraid to break up, it's also a fair way to let go. You've got the upper hand, are you a woman? She's not afraid of you, she's afraid of you. There will be sadness, but the flowers are still open for you?

The content of the conversation comes from life, and you haven't yet comprehended the book life.

It's only been 10 days, and you can try to get along with her slowly, but you can't delay it too long, it's easy to spoil.

We've only been working together for 10 days.

Even if you confess, I don't think it's very likely! No matter what you do.

10 days, not much communication, so what do you like about her?。。 It's not a good relationship. No good.

If you don't chase it, you never have a chance. Then when the time comes, you can relieve your sorrow with a light wine.

Everything is to be divided into two, and in the case of affection, the general approach is this: prepare two pieces of paper, one written on which of his shortcomings can you tolerate? The other writes which shortcomings you can't tolerate him, try to think about them all, spend more time, and when there is really nothing to compare, you can see which paper has more and know how to choose.

--This is to judge whether you love your wife or not, although you say that your wife can tolerate you and her sister to say those words, but you still have to figure out, whether you love your wife or not, if it is love, then it will be easy to do, in fact, you are just talking casually, you can tell your wife's sister's boyfriend, you only love your wife This is one of them...

In our lives, we will always meet many people and have stories with many people. Men and women are born for each other, so it is not surprising that there is occasionally an ambiguous episode, a little heartbeat affection, and a little taste of love. But few people know if this ambiguous feeling will really lead to love.

If we pass by a certain love and can predict the ending, will we not choose to start? If you don't have a beginning, where is the heartache? However, life is never determined, and it is unknown who meets whom and what kind of story will be interpreted.

Second, it doesn't matter if you are beaten or scolded, but you have to get to the bottom of the facts, because you just said it, and you also told your wife, to a certain extent, your wife forgave you, and your performance also shows that you have the courage to take responsibility. So don't be afraid that her boyfriend will come to you.

Don't talk nonsense, just say the way:

One, you tell her boyfriend that you only love your wife, because my wife is very good to me, and my husband is also very good to me.

2. Tell your wife's sister that it was nonsense that day, I'm sorry.

3. My wife and her sister are good sisters after all, they were good before, and they will be good in the future...

4. Believe me, he won't beat you or scold you. Ha ha.