When we are victims of domestic violence, what are the manifestations of mental violence?

This is the most insidious form of violence. Even the victims suffer from each other's mental torture and do not know that they are domestic violence. Mental violence is not easily identified and detected, but it also has distinct behavioral characteristics.

Mental violence refers to the mental torture of the other party in the form of abuse, contempt, intimidation, slander, etc., which directly affects the self-esteem and self-confidence of the other party, using deliberate indifference or refusal to communicate, not allowing the other party to contact the outside world, not ** disease, unwilling to divorce, etc., forcing the other party to do what they are not willing to do. <>

People who are mentally violent are usually those who have low emotional intelligence and don't know how to control their emotions。Therefore, in the process of getting along with you, the conflict accumulates more and more, and the other party cannot find a suitable solution, so they will control you in an extreme way. Fortunately, this is also a form of domestic violence that is more likely to be used.

As long as you find a psychologist or emotional counselor, conduct psychological counseling, adopt the right way of doing things, and adjust the relationship between husband and wife, this kind of psychological violence will gradually improve. <>

Anti-Domestic Violence and Harmonious Marriage "Six Words": Trust, Understanding and Tolerance. Trust comes first.

1。Trust, dare to trust, this is the foundation of the couple's relationship. Without trust, not only does not guarantee the professionalization of love, but also destroys the psychological balance of the other person, wears up with family life, and becomes disgusted with the lover.

The result can only be the breakdown of the marriage.

2。Understand and put yourself in the other person's shoes. Everyone's hobbies are different.

Try to meet the psychological needs of the other party and provide convenience for the other party. Otherwise, feelings of loss will arise spontaneously, and dissatisfaction, annoyance, and resentment will ensue, which in turn will lead to various discordant factors.

3。Be tolerant and generous. People are not saints, no one can do anything wrong, and sometimes it is better to close one eye.

Human self-esteem has existed since childhood. Once it's broken, it's painful. If they are respected, they will feel fulfilled and satisfied.

Any rebuke or contempt for a loved one can damage the other person's self-esteem.

Mental violence. This is the most insidious form of violence, and even the victim is deeply tortured by the other party, and does not know that he is being subjected to domestic violence. Mental violence is not easy to identify and detect, but it also has distinct behavioral characteristics.

Psychological violence refers to the use of verbal abuse, belittling, intimidation, slander, etc., directly affecting the other party's self-esteem and self-confidence, using deliberate coldness or refusal to communicate, not allowing the other party to contact the outside world, not giving medical treatment, refusing to divorce and other means to mentally torture the other party, and forcing the other party to do what they are not willing to do.

People with mental violence are generally people with low emotional intelligence and do not know how to control their emotions. Therefore, in the process of getting along with you, the contradictions accumulate more and more, and the other party cannot find the right solution, so they will mentally control you in an extreme way. Fortunately, this is also a form of domestic violence that is more likely to be **, as long as you find a psychologist or emotional mentor, give psychological counseling, find the right way to do things, and adjust the mode of getting along between husband and wife, this kind of mental violence will slowly get better.

Use deliberate indifference or refusal to communicate, do not allow the other person to come into contact with the outside world, and do not ** disease.

Minors who are abused have the right to seek help from the local neighborhood office, neighborhood committee, or civil affairs bureau, and if they still cannot mediate, they can collect evidence and accuse him of abuse to the court if necessary.

Legal Analysis: Psychological violence is the act of the perpetrator inflicting mental torture on the victim by means of insults, abuse, or ignorance, refusal to give medical treatment, or refusal to divorce, so that the victim will have a sense of humiliation, fear, and worthlessness.

Legal basis: Article 234 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China: Whoever intentionally harms the body of another person shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, short-term detention or controlled release.

Whoever commits the crime in the preceding paragraph, causing serious injury, is to be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than three years but not more than ten years; Whoever causes death or seriously injures a person by especially cruel means, causing serious disability, is to be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than 10 years, life imprisonment, or death. Where this Law provides otherwise, follow those provisions.

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife wants to seek divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted: (1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 1091:In any of the following circumstances, where divorce is caused, the party who is not at fault has the right to claim damages: (1) bigamy; (2) cohabitation with another person; (3) Committing domestic violence; (4) Ill-treatment or abandonment of family members; (5) There are other major faults.

Legal Analysis: The perpetrator mentally tortures the victim by means such as insulting, insulting, ignoring the blind, refusing to treat the disease, refusing to divorce, etc., causing the victim to have humiliation, fear, a sense of worthlessness, and other acts or omissions.

Legal basis: Article 1091 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where any of the following circumstances leads to divorce, the innocent party has the right to claim damages: (1) bigamy; (2) cohabitation with another person; (3) Committing domestic violence; (4) Ill-treatment or abandonment of family members; (5) There are other major faults.

Anti-Domestic Violence Law of the People's Republic of China》 Article 13: Victims of domestic violence and their legally-designated persons and close relatives may make complaints, feedback, or seek assistance from the perpetrator or victim's unit, residents' committees, villagers' committees, women's federations, and other such units. After relevant units receive complaints, feedback, or requests for assistance or assistance from domestic violence, they shall provide assistance and handle it. Victims of domestic violence, their legally-designated persons, and close relatives may also report the case to the Chunfu public security organs or file a lawsuit in the people's court in accordance with law.

Units and individuals have the right to promptly dissuade domestic violence when they discover that it is occurring.

In our lives, we often encounter some incidents of domestic violence, and this incident is very bad. So for us, what is the right way to deal with domestic violence if we encounter it? At this time, we should seek the help of the neighborhood committee and ask them to help us mediate, if we still persist after mediation, we can only use legal means to protect our rights and interests, and we can defend our rights through appeals.

Turning to the legal department for help can help us solve this problem once and for all, and of course, since we have to choose the law to protect our rights and interests, we naturally need to make some preparations. So how do we do it? Let's take a brief look at it together.

The first is to preserve the evidence. Everyone is equal before the law, and since we want to protect our rights and interests through legal means, then naturally we need to have enough evidence so that the law can do justice for us. If the evidence is not complete, then each of us is equal and fair, and the law will naturally not be tilted.

Therefore, for us, we must fully retain our evidence, so that we can really help us solve our problems and protect the rights and interests of our relatives. <>

Second, look for a professional lawyer. Because in front of the law, we naturally need to defend our rights through legal knowledge, and we are relatively new in this field, so we need a professional lawyer to help us defend ourselves. Therefore, we should make this preparation in advance before appealing and find a professional and qualified lawyer.

Only when we are well prepared for both aspects can we all fight to solve the problem. So I hope you can pay attention to it and treat it in the right way. After all, for us, the law is a means for us, so we need to use it in the right way, so that we can really play its role.

The right way is to call the police immediately, because the other party has already broken the law, and the other party should be punished accordingly.

Once such a situation occurs, it is stupid to call the police at the right time, and you must sue for divorce, because the other party's behavior has hurt you, and then it has also damaged the relationship between the two people.

1. Domestic violence infringes on the victim's personal dignity and physical and mental health, and even threatens life.

2. Domestic violence brings instability to society. Failure to curb domestic violence in a timely and effective manner, and the victims themselves do not know how to use the law to protect themselves, resort to the means prohibited by the law - intentional homicide, resulting in vicious incidents under the distorted mentality of swallowing their anger and suffering violence for a long time. It has brought bad consequences to society and greatly endangered the situation of social stability.

3. It has seriously affected and destroyed the social component - the family.

In a family conflict, domestic violence often occurs, which will inevitably affect the relationship between husband and wife. When a wife is unable to bear the violence of her husband, she chooses to divorce, run away from home, or even resist violence to escape from the violence, resulting in the breakdown and destruction of the family.

4. Affect the normal life and growth of children.

Families with frequent domestic violence have a serious impact on their children's physical and mental health. Especially when directly committing violence to children, it is easier to make children's emotions fearful, anxious, and world-weary, which affects children's emotions, they have low self-esteem, loneliness, and affect learning and life; In severe cases, children run away from home, abandon their studies, and even go down the path of crime.

1. What crimes can be prosecuted for domestic violence?

In general, there is no charge in civil cases, only the cause of action, then the crimes involved are all criminal cases, and if the circumstances of domestic violence are serious, they can be prosecuted under the false name of the crime of abuse. Domestic violence acts directly on the victim's body, causing physical or mental distress to the victim and undermining his or her physical health and human dignity. Domestic violence occurs between family members who are related by blood, marriage, or adoption, such as husband to wife, parent to child, adult child to parent, etc., women and children are the main victims of domestic violence, and some middle-aged and elderly people, men and people with disabilities will also become victims of domestic violence.

On the basis of article 260 of the Criminal Law, those who abuse family members, and the circumstances are heinous, are to be sentenced to up to two years imprisonment, short-term detention, or controlled release. Where the crime in the preceding paragraph is committed, causing serious injury or death to the victim, a sentence of between two and seven years imprisonment is to be given. For the crimes in the first paragraph, it is to be handled only if the complaint is made, except where the victim does not have the capacity to make a complaint, or is unable to make a complaint because of coercion or intimidation.

Reputation. 2. Can domestic violence be divorced?

If a husband and wife want to divorce because of domestic violence by one party, they can generally negotiate the divorce first, but if the negotiation fails, they can file a divorce lawsuit with the court. Therefore, as long as the parties can provide sufficient evidence to convince the judge that the plaintiff has indeed suffered domestic violence committed by the defendant, the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, and there is no possibility of reconciliation, the judge will grant a divorce.

Mental violence is also domestic violence, mental domestic violence is more bad, and the impact on people is greater, and you must go to the police when you encounter such a thing.

Yes, such behavior may also bring great harm to people, it will endanger people's health, and it is also violent.

Mental violence is also domestic violence, so what we know about violence is not only physical violence but also cold violence, which is also counted as domestic violence.

When violence becomes a way for family members to communicate with each other and express themselves, it means that the relationship between family members has undergone a great change, and their respective roles in the family have also deviated, which is presented in the form of violence and being violent.

Whether it is violence, or guessing that it is collapsed or cautious, it is all expressing the inner depression, anger, anxiety, fear, powerlessness and helplessness, the difference is that the abuser externalizes his inner emotional motivation through behavior, and transfers these emotions to the victim. The abuser internalizes these extremely aggressive and destructive emotional dynamics to accept and transfer to himself, completing the attack on the self.

Both of them are very lacking in self-confidence and security, and their sense of self-worth is relatively low, but the abuser will have some narcissistic conceit while having low self-esteem, and the abuser is relatively inferior, which is also an important reason why the abuser can unscrupulously treat the abused with violence, and the victim's repression and forbearance is also invisibly promoting the rationalization and escalation of the other party's violence.

In the TV series "Don't Talk to Strangers", An Jia played by teacher Feng Yuanzheng and Mei Xiangnan, his wife played by Mei Ting, went from suspicion to violence, and the violence continued to escalate, which is not uncommon in real-life families, and some are even more brutal.

Domestic violence can be detected and stopped in time, such as the other party's tone is relatively heavy, loud yelling and abuse, stiff facial expressions, emotional anxiety, anger and impatience, etc., these can be used as a sign of imminent violence in some families, for these signs, other members can appropriately stay away from the effective attack range of the other party, such as getting up and leaving to another house, or going out, you can also pay attention to the other party's behavior, and shout before the other party is about to attack, or stand up and question the other party loudly, breaking the aura gathered by the other party, it is equivalent to venting some of the other party's anger, you can talk to him when the other party's emotions are eased, put yourself in a correct position, protect your legitimate rights and interests, and explain to him the responsibility that the violence will bear, so that the other party can clearly understand the destructiveness of their violence and their own responsibilities, change and adjust their mentality and behavior, and no longer have domestic violence.