How to find enough topics to talk about when communicating with others

If they are talking about a topic, you can interject if you know a thing or two, and if possible, lead the topic to another related topic. In this way, you are gaining a voice.

But don't pretend to understand, you must be honest. If Lu Ban gets a big axe in front of the door, he can only be laughed at.

The following ** are some tips for finding topics, I don't know if you are useful, you can take a look.

Hope mine is helpful to you. Finally, good luck.

First look at the object, and then find the topic, how to find it is difficult to say, it varies from person to person.

Read more books on success and public speaking, talk to people, but don't talk nonsense.

If you have common interests, you can talk freely. On the contrary, the words are not speculative for more than half a sentence.

When you see someone chatting, if you can't interject, then you keep listening, that's the most important thing, listening is the key to communication. Then don't show boredom with the topic when you don't understand.

Of course, friends are different, topics are different, if you want to talk to them, first you have to listen to what they are talking about, this time no, you can go back and read books, check the Internet, remember some key points, next time there will be said.

The conversation relies on the usual accumulation, and you must broaden your knowledge at ordinary times, and then there is something to say. Especially accumulate one or two topics that you are good at, such as you are good at talking about cars and sports, then after others have finished speaking, you can say that you are interested, let them know that you have a topic to talk about, and you can't interject just now because you are not good at it.

In addition, between friends, talking, sometimes less in areas that they are not good at, and they will not take it to heart if they are fine.

I think it's important to find common ground first, for example, if you and a person have just met, then the person you know is the person you know in common, that is, the common ground, you can find a topic from this point, chat with people, the most important thing is to have something to say, not cold, in order to avoid embarrassment.

For example, if you see a person wearing more clothes than others, you can ask him if he is afraid of the cold? When the topic is opened, there is something to say, for example, you can talk about the weather from being afraid of the cold, and even why you are afraid of the cold, whether you are tired, and sometimes you need to talk about the details, such as shopping, just saying "accompany your girlfriend to go shopping", it is very bland, and it is difficult to arouse the interest of others to pick up your conversation, but if you say "I walked around the computer city with my girlfriend for two hours, and finally my girlfriend bought a camera, in order to chat with another boy, and insisted on paying for the ......"It's a lot more fun. The finer the details, the more impressive they will be.

Therefore, proper self-disclosure is also very important in chatting. This Cai Kangyong also mentioned this skill when talking about the success of "Kangxi is Coming".

If you want to continue the topic, you must have divergent thinking, and with the help of the other party's words, you can naturally lead the topic to a wider place. Chat with the chatterbox, listen to it more, and occasionally give him a timely reminder, such as "It was very funny at that time, wasn't it?" "Was that the case at the time?

Talkers will naturally be able to get the topic on without making people think you're impatient. When chatting with people who are more boring than you, you have to temporarily play the role of a chatterbox, find more topics that boring people dare to be interested in, and lead them to occasionally express their thoughts.

Friends, I think you may be too restrained, you still don't really regard others as your friends, the key to communicating with others lies in the harmony of the atmosphere, not in the amount of language, this atmosphere needs some reasonable manners and words to express, to give you a suggestion, you try to stand in his perspective to talk about some topics he is interested in, talk about your ideas and cognition, you can also talk to him about your thoughts and knowledge, which can not only enhance your sense of trust, It also creates a good atmosphere! Be sure to pay attention to your demeanor!

Such as the second.

Will be restrained and not relaxed enough friends... Are there any skills and rules I need to chat with my friends? Really, of course not, you can say whatever comes to mind, as long as you don't tell your passbook password or family privacy, it's okay to listen to other irrelevant nonsense, you can talk nonsense, people are looking for topics, don't you think of anything after listening?

If not, all I can say is that your brain is not oxygen-free, so it doesn't turn at all, hehe, you can talk about what you see, what questions you think of, and ask your friends if they have seen anything new or annoying, and you can have fun and share your worries, isn't that good?

Talking about hot spots, common interests, the economy, the military, jokes, etc., I suggest you read more "Reader" and "Youth Digest".

In daily interactions, people always feel that "talking comes and goes", and people who have no common topic, different ideas, and don't know what to say after chatting, people always feel very embarrassed and can't get along with themselves. Let's take a look at what kind of skills you have in chatting, so that you will not enter a dead end when chatting with others, but make others feel very "compatible" with you.

1. Talk about life, ideals, and the future.

Chatting with people, "empty talk" is the most art, and life and ideals are the most basic necessities for success. When chatting with people, you can guide others to talk about their own ideals and the future they want, and when you know other people's ideals, will you be afraid that you will not find a topic? Not only listen, but also speak, talk about your ideals and the future you want, and be sure to take away the vision, with enthusiasm to say, after all, that is what you want to get.

2. Talk about gossip.

3. Talk about the little secrets.

Your little secret here can only be "small", not "big", and why it can't be big is because you are afraid that you will tell this secret to the wind, and the wind will pass through the whole forest. Telling others some of your little secrets will make others feel that you are a sign of trust in him, will make others feel that he has a good relationship with you, and if you can, even he will tell you some of his little secrets, this method is actually a good way to interact. And back and forth, are you afraid that you can't find a topic to talk about between you?

Fourth, have a sense of humor.

People with a sense of humor, no matter in **, can eat and open, and people always like an environment with a pleasant atmosphere that can make them laugh. But people's sense of humor is difficult to learn like in class, this is a way of thinking, it's not that you can tell two jokes to have a great sense of humor, and the sense of humor is not because of your topic or a joke, but because of you as a person.

Chatting is a process of two people attracting each other, no matter what time it is, they must maintain the most basic politeness, of course, people who are particularly familiar with each other are counted. Chat with people, be sure to maintain a good atmosphere, yourself should also be involved in it, enjoy the process of chatting, if chatting with a person makes you feel particularly tormented, such as sitting on pins and needles, then you must not be able to chat. No topic is really not a problem, the current ** is so developed.

You can easily get any topic you need, it's all about how you talk about it.

Starting with yourself, you can introduce yourself to others first, so that you can talk about some interests and hobbies, you can ask others about their interests and hobbies, and then slowly become familiar with them, and communicate about specific things.

I want him to ask me to take the initiative to talk to me.

Of course, the question is a boyfriend, tell me what to do, don't procrastinate answering 2, not only the circle of friends, we can also modify our avatar at ordinary times, because we will definitely have our own avatar when we post the circle of friends, then the change of the avatar may also make the other party take the initiative, for example, you can send some beautiful photos of the recent situation, and then your boyfriend may miss you very much after seeing it, and he will take the initiative to contact you.

First look at what the person likes, and then find topics based on what he likes.

If you don't know the other person, you can take the method of throwing stones to ask for directions, ask some questions to the other person, observe whether the other person is interested in the questions raised, and then talk about them according to the other person's reaction, and gradually lead to the main topic. Also be good at finding topics and don't ask far-fetched questions.

Both sides of the conversation have nothing to say, so be more witty at this time, and use certain materials here and now as the topic to arouse the other party's interest in the conversation.

Both parties don't know each other very well, and even if you do some research beforehand, the situation may not be very comprehensive, and the other party may provide you with many clues during the conversation. Therefore, on the premise of listening to the other party's conversation, summarize and refine the questions that the other party is talking about, and then summarize and put forward new questions and ask the other party to answer.

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