My marriage made me feel helpless and helpless.

If you say that you are completely unfamiliar with and understand each other, your love is only impulsive, and the basis of flash marriage cannot be discussed.

His life philosophy is different from yours, you don't care who is right and who is wrong, everyone grows up in a different environment and lifestyle, he is a traditional conservative type, you belong to the current ** type of thinking, will be out of place.

In the future, it will be difficult for you to have a common language in your life, and you will not be able to get used to each other, unless you have to adapt to him.

The traditional conservative type of person has an unchangeable personality, but a person who is extremely responsible for the family, he will not waste it for no reason, and he has strong self-esteem.

For example, if you want someone to clean up, he will think that it is not necessary; If you want to throw away some old things, he will think to keep them first; When you are angry with you, he should come and coax you, and he will think that I am not wrong, and you should reflect on yourself. Wait, a series of life trifles will let you down.

Just want to ask, is your reputation important or your own happiness in life important? While you don't have children yet, let's separate quickly, and don't suffer for your reputation for the rest of your life.

Is he likely to love you in two months? I think you should try to get to know him, try to care for him, and don't always talk about marriage to him. A year is not long, but it is not short. Take advantage of the year, maybe this is also an interesting story for you to grow old hand in hand with gray hair.

Marriage needs to be managed for a lifetime, and when you are young, you can find your happiness again, but you can't like the new and hate the old!

Flash marriage - flash divorce, the way of young people now. Living together before they officially got married? Are you pregnant?

Tell me my story, I have been dating my first love for 4 years, and the two of us have met each other's parents, and we also think that we will get married, just when I was 13 years old, my first love bought an engagement ring for me, and we are ready to get married in 13 years. The first love told his parents about his decision. Later, after his parents came to my house to see my parents go back, he didn't know why he objected to getting married that year, and said that I should work for another two years, save more money, and get married slowly.

Later, his family also did his mother's ideological work, insisted on more than a month, I was very disheartened, I returned the engagement ring to my first love, and broke up, crying every day, after a year, his mother hit ** and said let me go back to play with his son, discuss marriage, and said that I agreed to our marriage, I said that I had broken up, don't fight again**, just hang up**.

Time can really ** all the pain, slowly I sorted out my feelings, and regained a good mood to face all the people and things. I had a little aunt who had a good relationship with me, and I was a resident student at that time (it took four or five hours to take the bus home for a while, and I got motion sickness, so I didn't go home much). Every week during the holidays, she called me to go to her house for dinner, and over time, we also had a deep relationship.

Auntie she went back to her hometown to play, stayed at my house for a few days, listened to my parents talk about it, and also fought for me. I haven't met the right person in the past two years, and my aunt said that she would take me to ask (in the countryside means to find Mr. to tell the hexagram) I remember that day I got motion sickness (so motion sickness, I vomited so much that my yellow bile water came out. That day, I had to change trains several times before I got to the master.

When the master saw my tired face, he said to my aunt, she is about to get married, and you are going to drink the wedding wine. He also said that Zhengyuan is directly south of my house, and this person is relatively thin and loves to laugh. It's eating official food, and you have a great future, just remember to grasp it, I really don't remember what I said later.

Two months later, I rode an electric car to find a friend, and was stopped by a traffic police officer on the road, which scared my heart to jump. This traffic policeman was black and thin, took off his black sunglasses and made fun of me, asking me why I was so afraid? He said to wear a helmet and pay attention to safety when riding.

That's right, this person is my husband, haha, the traffic police are also at a loss for eating official food! Look at my husband at first sight, suddenly I really want to marry him, I never felt this way, I think it's him, and then he said that he never had that feeling like marrying someone so strongly, less than a month, we met the parents, the parents of both sides actually knew each other, and it was settled in two months, and now I am married, very happy! Therefore, you can't believe in fate, what is yours is yours, and you can't run away!

I believe that marriage is destined, what is yours is yours, and it is useless if it is not your forcible request. As the saying goes, three points are destined, seven points depend on hard work, there may be three points that God is destined for you to meet, it is fate, but it is not that God has arranged all of you, you need to rely on your own hard work to know and love each other, especially when entering marriage, you decide to let each other become your lifelong partner, and you need two people to work together, and your married life will be happy!

Personal advice, I hope it helps.

1. Men are distracted, which should not be, but it is very common. Isn't this the case with your new partner after you get married? Not sure.

2. Men control the world, and women control men. It shows that you are not yet able to control him, carefully understand him, and grasp his weakness.

3. Women are very sensitive to some emotional problems and are easily impulsive. It is recommended that you discuss something regardless of whether you are divorced or not.

4. Your own problems, think about yourself in your spare time, ponder your shortcomings, and then think about what the effect will be after you change it.

5. One of the mistakes women love to make is to quarrel with the mistress after discovering this kind of problem. There is no need, in general, in this case, the junior has a very advantage, in a word: "Why don't you care about your husband?" You are good to him, will you come to me? ”

6. I am also a man, not purely speaking for men. If the man doesn't look back, there must be something wrong with the woman behind him.

Analysis suggestion: You would rather not have children than divorce, it is too irresponsible. You may be a successful woman in your career, but you will definitely fail in your family.

He would rather let you sue him, which shows that he has a great prejudice against you, and he is not afraid of losing the case. You make a big deal out of it. It's bad for you.

Personally, it is recommended not to get divorced. Talk to him and talk to him about it, and it's best to achieve a win-win situation. It's not easy to start a family, and it's even harder to maintain.

For the sake of your children, you should think about it. If the talks fall apart and he doesn't pay attention to them, then you will do what he does and sue him. [Some words sound a little ugly to you, but I hope you can think about it more].

I'm a big proponent of the Charismatic Millennium's answer, and I have the style of my answer. But style is something that you don't have, and it can't be established in the short term, and the same goes for the problems you encounter. You've been together for 10 years.

If there is no accident, there is no possibility of self-healing of the rift. Consider considering scattering, whether it is dispersed in the end or not, as a scattered trouble. If you don't stay here, even if it's difficult to get out, but you don't stay here, you still have the possibility of meeting again.

Men are like beasts. After all, he is cruel, but no matter how cruel the beast is, there are people who hurt him. Either someone else, or yourself.

After the injury, there will be people who know how to cherish it.

The most important point is that it's okay to be weak, don't be stupid. Be positive, you should learn to manage yourself and manage your partner. Only by being a successful woman can you have a successful relationship.

If you really want to leave, then leave, in fact, how can a woman have so many thoughts, she just wants to save his heart, and it depends on you whether he comes back or not. Take care of your children, and don't let your relationship affect them. And that is, don't save him money.

If he earns, you can spend it. Another thing is to create a good mood for yourself every day. If he ignores you, you can ignore him.

Make yourself something delicious every day. It doesn't matter if he comes back or not. Over time, he will see your every move.

You give him some time. Dress yourself up nicely. You're all so rich, you wear famous brands, you wear famous brands, you eat well.

Take your children to play often. Have fun. Appreciate yourself.

But don't just because you have a woman outside, you're looking for a man outside. Find comfort. Then the victory is yours.

Women get married only when they are dizzy, and this is not false at all.

This man is snoring, it's only 10 o'clock, he hasn't taken a shower yet, he washes his face, usually he doesn't sleep until 12 o'clock, at least he should wash it, and now he will take a morning bath. I don't call him husband now, because he has someone, I know. It's been more than half a year, and I'm numb to him, and I hope he doesn't come back to this home, I don't want to see him, and I have nothing to say from the past to now.

At first, I wanted to divorce, but the man didn't agree, and if he wanted to leave, he would end up together, and finally because of the children, I didn't make trouble. Maybe a woman just feels sorry for her child, I can't let the child suffer for my own sake, I chose to suffer by myself. In the past six months or so, I have been tortured.

Time is the best medicine, and I don't feel any more at all. Even if I saw this man with my own eyes, I wouldn't do anything.

It turns out that marriage can be so helpless. Think about what will happen to your child.

To be tolerant of others is to be cruel to oneself, what else does such a man want him to do? So when it is broken, it will be broken, and if you leave him, you can still hold up a new sky.

Don't think about it, remember, no matter what mistakes a woman makes, except for the fault of seducing a man, a man is not allowed to hit a woman, and a man who beats a woman is not a good man.

"Now, I really don't know where to start, I am reluctant to divorce because he was really good before! He doesn't want to get divorced either, for unknown reasons... It's speechless to see your words, are you just living in memories?

No matter how good a person used to be, it was in the past, the question is whether this person is good or bad now, don't think that he was once so good to you, once was after all!

If life is only as first seen, what is the West Wind sad fan?

Some love is not there anymore, how can you tolerate him beating you so often, a man who beats his wife is not a good man! Leave him! If he hits you again, cut him with a knife!

Alas, it's not right to always live in the past, you just reminisce, and that life would be painful! I think there may be a lack of trust, dependence, and love between you.

He doesn't think you're that good. Maybe it's a change of mind, or maybe you're tired of your life, maybe it's time for you to be apart for a while, so calm down with each other.

Think about your future life, you have to think about the future for your children, even if you divorce in the future, how to raise your children, you have to think about it!

Also, maybe there will still be love between you, so being apart for a while may calm each other down and fall in love again.