What are the misunderstandings about cultivating children s talent potential?

There are many misunderstandings about cultivating children's talent potential. Specialty education does have its positive side to children. However, children are children after all, it is their nature to be playful, and their interests and hobbies are highly variable.

Therefore, parents should pay attention to the situation, stimulate children's interest in learning and desire to learn, but in fact a considerable number of parents have not done this, when the child is bored with learning, parents are not guided step by step, but to force the child to learn, the result is often the opposite, which just fulfills the old saying: "the twisted melon is not sweet".

At present, there are many parents who hope that their children will become Chan and their daughters will become phoenixes, and they hope that their children can receive one or several special education on the premise of receiving normal education, so that their children can master more skills and meet future challenges. As a result, various specialty education for the purpose of cultivating some special abilities of children came into being, such as calligraphy classes, art classes, dance classes, ** classes, etc., and so on.

Due to the mistakes of some parents in their ideological understanding, the education of special talents has entered various misunderstandings

One: Subjective aspirations transcend reality.

Entering the special class to study, for many children are not willing, a considerable part of the parents are single-handed, many children on what should be learned, whether they are suitable for special education and other issues are innumerable, signing up for the special class is completely wishful thinking of parents. In this way, if the child lacks interest in learning what he is learning, it will not only not receive the desired educational effect, but will hinder the normal development of the child's emotional intelligence and IQ.

Two: blindly follow the trend.

Some parents think that it is better to learn more than less, and today they see other people's children learning piano, so let them learn piano, tomorrow let their children learn art, and after two days, let their children learn calligraphy. In addition to completing the homework assigned by the school, they are also busy writing, playing the piano or painting, no wonder some children will sigh like this: After school, I would rather be left by the teacher than go home immediately!

Three: improper methods.

Specialty education does have its positive side to children. However, children are children after all, it is their nature to be playful, and their interests and hobbies are highly variable. Therefore, parents should pay attention to the situation, stimulate children's interest in learning and desire to learn, but in fact a considerable number of parents have not done this, when the child is bored with learning, parents are not to guide them step by step, but to force the child to learn, the result is often counterproductive, which just fulfills the old saying:

Twisted melons are not sweet. ”

If you want to think about your child's future, you can learn calligraphy and piano, and it is highly recommended to learn to sing, both boys and girls should learn it eventually, or you can encourage him to sing if you don't learn it, and it is better to cultivate an interest in sports activities for boys. It's best to dabble broadly.

The piano helps to cultivate children's hand-brain coordination, large and small brain coordination, appreciation of the best, and it is good for children to develop the habit of perseverance. If you have the hope that learning the piano will improve your child's intelligence, then I advise you not to think so.

As for the importance of calligraphy, I think it goes without saying that you will also know it. The quality of a person's character is one of the components of a person's first impression. I think you have also seen the words written by various people in your life, is it the impression preference left by people who write well?

Nowadays, there are many parents who want not to let their children lose at the starting line, and when their children are very young, they enroll their children in a lot of special classes, so that many children have no childhood, and some only have the memory of various tutoring classes. If a child shows great interest and talent in certain areas, he should learn! Interest is the best teacher in front of the most type-branch, and besides, the art is not pressing.

From an early age, this may become a means for children to seek a closed life in the future.

Interest is a child's best teacher. When choosing a specialty class, you should try more classes and fully listen to your children's opinions. If the child is young, parents should also observe more during the trial course and choose a specialty that the child is interested in.

When the child chooses, the next step is the parent's accompaniment and encouragement, perhaps it should be said that it is indirectly to maximize the child's potential, rather than to promote the seedlings, which not only can not cultivate the child's interests and hobbies, but also leave a shadow on the child's learning of other things.

If it is not quite correct at the beginning, then the child's learning process must be painful. Either there will be a problem of parents diverging in the direction when choosing interests for their children, or parents are too utilitarian in the learning process. Because of its small size, the accordion is heavy, and the left and right hands need to be pressed at the same time.

However, when the band performs in public and receives high praise from everyone, it is still beautiful in my heart. It's a pity that I gave up various hobbies because of the college entrance examination.

Then let the child turn some of his interests into interests, and then turn interests into aspirations. Give full play to the child's own personality characteristics, and the specialty on the basis of personality is the real specialty. Evil consequences will not be avoided.

Excessively high expectations are inappropriate expectations, have moderate expectations for the child, respect the child's own choices according to the child's own conditions, and do not force the child to do what you think. Children can learn some special skills during their primary school years. If the child does get some positive changes after learning, then it is worth the effort for parents.

And if it is particularly prominent, the college entrance examination can take the art exam, or it can be a way out.

I think that forcing children to learn about their talents and specialties is likely to lead to children who don't like these talents and hate learning. Moreover, if the children don't like to learn talents, then even if they force the children, they will not let the children like this talent, but will have a bad pre-order effect and make the children depressed.

Forcing children to learn some artistic specialties is really not good for children Duan Wu Xunzi, I know that parents have the idea of wanting their children to be versatile, but everyone always has to see if their children are suitable for these, whether they are really interested in these ants. Forcing children when they are not interested will only make them more and more rebellious, which is not a good thing for children's development.

It is easy to stimulate children's rebellious psychology. If you keep forcing him to do this, the more he will want to do this. It's also easy for children to miss out on what they really like.

There is always a concept that teaching by example is more important than teaching, and parents force their children to learn and train all kinds of things in order to make their children go smoothly and flourish, or for other reasons, but nothing can be achieved. There is also a situation that:

Parents attach great importance to their children's ideas and management rights, and everything depends on their children's love for skin and wants to go to school, but as a result, a large number of people are in a hurry. The difference between the latter and the former depends on the fact that art teachers often say, "It's a pity."

> talent table drill to junior high school and gradually give up.

This is where the root cause of the new situation lies. The piano teacher said that children have a strong curiosity and impulse, when they see the keyboard instrument Ding Dingdang, their hearts are full of wonder and happiness, mainly manifested in unrestrained percussion, immersed in the sound of the sail sent by the traditional musical instrument, which does not roll the hail must indicate that the child has a strong talent at the level of traditional musical instruments.

The child's eagerness to learn the piano is mostly due to the fact that he finds that he has a lot of common sense that must be diligent in his own thinking, memory, difficulty, etc., which is far from the happiness of his own beating, or when he sees that there are other children who play better than himself——— his interests and hobbies will quickly decrease, which is normal. In this link alone, the mentality of parents is very crucial, and it is naturally very easy to give up, but it may indeed give up a good seed.

Perseverance and perseverance are also the goals of culture and education.

An expert suggested that learning art is a hard-working thing, but you can't just endure hardships and stand hard work, don't enjoy it, and forget to cultivate interests; Today's parents only want to enjoy, but they are not willing to let their children endure hardships and stand hard work. "Celebrities and people are all studying hard, and naturally one of the prerequisites for their efforts is to have excellent main standards and hobbies, all three of which are indispensable," the teacher said, "In fact, many students give up after a year or two, because a year is just a copy, and most of them are eliminated within a year, so to speak, perseverance is half the success in one year." ”

Learning to endure hardships and endure sin is also a key purpose of learning and training art, regardless of whether they are engaged in the field of art in the future, this is the key quality that should be possessed.

Summary: Learning and training an art is what every parent expects their children to do, but the child's physical strength is not enough, and he has been in a hurry, learning art is a hard-working thing, but you can't just bear hardships and stand hard work, and don't enjoy it. You don't have to just enjoy it.

Suffering more is a very good thing for children.

It will make the child bored, there is no way to concentrate and do a thing, and it will also make the child emotionally become particularly irritable, often talk back to the parents, and the child will also be tired of school when he goes to school.

Forcing children to learn talents, children will be very disgusted, and it will also affect the relationship between parents and children, and children will not go to seriously learn and train talents to guess the long, and eventually give up halfway, delay the child's time, and waste a lot of money, and the child will become very rebellious.

The guide tie pin causes the child to have an anti-beard and anti-mentality, a waste of time, etc. It leads to the child's rebellious psychology, the child has no interest in learning talents and specialties, and the parents push too hard and it is counterproductive; Wasting time, the child has a perfunctory understanding of the parents, which actually has no effect.

In this way, the child Oak Chop will also have a skill when he grows up, and the child will become very lively and cheerful after learning some of the talents of Liang Li Chang, and will not be inferior and introverted, and will be particularly extroverted, so that it is very good, and the child will have a happy childhood. But also remember not to enroll your child in a lot of classes.

Introduction: Parents want their children to be versatile, so let their children learn some talents when they are young, so how can parents cultivate better children? Let's find out.

First of all, we can start from the child's interest, so when the child has his own interests, we can let him learn some talents according to the child's interests, so that the child will learn more happily, and the results of learning in happiness will be better. When the child does not know his interests in the **, so parents can help the child to cultivate interest in the stage of growth and development, so give the child a few more talent classes, can be filial piety to let the child learn to dance, learn to sing, learn to paint, when the child in several talents to compare with each other, he will choose his favorite one at this time parents will focus on the child's interests to cultivate the child, so that the possibility of success in the end is the greatest.

Therefore, in terms of cultivating children's talents in daily life, parents should observe more carefully to see what their children like to do and what they are suitable for. In the usual study, we must know how to let the child understand their interests, and we must not let the child affect the performance of cultural classes due to the learning of talents, so we must arrange the time reasonably.

You can learn talent in your child's spare time or on Saturdays and weekends, and at this time you should also give your child enough time to play, sometimes the child may prefer the talent he has learned, but because the time is too rushed, delaying his time to play, he begins to hate this time, which is also an incorrect way to cultivate. Therefore, when children need to learn some talents, parents should separate the time for talents and the time for learning cultural classes from the time for children to play, so that children can learn more happily.

When parents cultivate their children's talents, they must find their children's specialties and children's quick loss hobbies, and then dismantle and cultivate them according to their children's hobbies and specialties.