How can I make my speech more engaging?

It is recommended that you stick to reading the newspaper for half an hour every morning! The speed of speech goes from slow to fast, step by step. Slowly attaching your smile is enough.

It's not your fault that you're introverted, just like you think, you still need to have more friends in your inner world, and you also want to be able to talk eloquently, maybe because you used to stutter a little and feel embarrassed to talk about it, afraid of other people's jokes, right? I think you can be brave enough to speak in front of people. As the saying goes:

A leak is a leak of charm! Show yourself as much as you like. Speak out loud to hide your inner tension and fear.

It's good after a long time.

Do you have a habit of reading humorous books?

If not, take a look.

The expression in their sentences is to tell you how to say the words to attract people to watch. Listen on.

You can look in the mirror, look at your own mirror image, and say one thing to yourself. Add some rhetoric and try it. Then when talking to someone, you have a good mindset and don't be nervous. Because they're all your friends.

Even if you get it wrong once in a while, it's okay. The main thing is whether you can put the shadows down yourself.

Cultivate your own temperament, be confident, and then slowly talk to others.

You go ask Jay Chou that he also has this problem!

But he's liked!

In fact, as long as you have a sense of humor, don't speak rigidly, change your tone from time to time, and come up with an expression, that should be good.

Don't be in. 1. Those are your unique words, and you can go to various public places to communicate more.

Talk more about topics that are of interest to others.

Speak on common topics.

Talk about topics that are interesting to others, as well as humorous ones.

When you speak, others are not only willing to listen, but also listen to them with relish, which is undoubtedly the greatest reward for yourself.

So how can you make yourself so attractive that you can attract the attention of the people around you and focus their attention on you?

How do you make your language potential?

The author's twelve-word mantra: it's simple, it's complicated, you don't know, you're wrong.

First, it's very simple. To put it bluntly, it is to put a complex matter that is absolutely lacking into a simple argument. Complex things can be said in simple words, and can be expressed clearly and clearly, which not only reflects a person's skill, but also can easily attract the attention of others with such a simple language potential energy start.

Second, it's complicated. Tell something different and a new point of view about things that are common and ordinary to everyone. See the strange in the usual, and see the new in the often. It's a great way to grab your listener's attention.

Three, you don't know. Start with a new concept, that is, with an unfamiliar word that I know but you haven't encountered, and cleverly design the potential energy of the language to arouse the strong curiosity of others.

Fourth, you are wrong. Set up linguistic potential energy in the way of correcting misconceptions, that is, first set an idea in the listeners' minds, then tell them that this idea is wrong, and then tell them what the correct idea is, so as to attract attention.

The above four ways to make language have potential energy all point to being "different" from others. If you don't fall into clichés, you will appear special.

This is an era of "no one has me, no one has me", and skillfully use methods to set language potential energy to make their speeches unique and attractive.

The effectiveness of communication in conversation depends on the charm of the language, which also expresses the personality of the interlocutor. Linguistic charm requires not only a rich knowledge system, but also verbal skills. Here are some tips on how to speak attractively for your reference.

Techniques for speaking attractively1. Speak in a bright and crisp style.

Most people don't like dark things, and even plants and trees need sunlight to grow. In the same way, a somber conversation can lead to feelings of doubt, disgust, and oppression.

2. Speak attractively 2. Be organized.

When the conversation in front of you is being debated and you don't have a clue, you need to be short and decisive and organized. For example, when choosing the form of speech in a public setting, it is best not to be caught in the middle, either to rush to the front or to speak last, so as to make an impression.

3. Speak attractively 3. Speak quickly.

The speed at which you speak affects how the listener feels. In general, we should maintain a certain speed when speaking, as it can be as fast as machine gun fire, which will make it difficult for the listener to grasp the main point. Speaking too slowly will cause the listener to lose patience. In short, it is best to speak in a swift and relaxed manner, full of rhythmic beauty and dynamic beauty.

If no one pays attention to you in a group chat, here are a few clever ways to reply:

1.Send a funny meme or meme to grab people's attention and make everyone think you're funny, so that they can get a response.

2.Send an interesting topic or question to get people involved in the discussion and thus elicit a response.

3.Send a funny joke or joke that makes everyone feel light-hearted and elicit a response.

The above methods all attract the attention of the Da Nian Mu Bridge family, so that everyone feels that you are interesting or interesting, so as to arouse everyone's response.

If none of the above methods are possible, you can also try to chat with some members of the group privately and chat with them individually to establish a deeper connection.

This will allow you to get more attention and response in the group, and you can also build deeper interpersonal relationships.

Read more books and watch some talk shows.

Be considerate of others and be concise and appalling.

Be humorous, but not hurtful.