Since I went to graduate school, the gap has gotten wider, but I actually love what to do with him

From your description, your boyfriend is relatively insecure, and he must be aware of the gap between you.

For this time, it is time to ask if you want to be with him. If you want to, communicate your thoughts with him more, and it is better for two people to face difficulties together than to bear and be depressed alone.

On your part, you must also learn to adjust your mood and resolve stress. You actually care a lot about other people's opinions! In short, the fate of feelings is now in your hands.

Ask yourself, are you still going to be with him? Is it possible to sacrifice a lot for love? If the answer is no, it doesn't mean that you are a person who starts and ends, after all, the choice is everyone's right; Of course, you are also fully responsible for your choices.

I believe you are a little ruthless now, but everyone has their own way of life and pursuits, you can go to graduate school to show that you attach great importance to your career, as for whether you can be together in the future depends entirely on your acceptance of each other.

However, from your current description, it seems that the gap between you is too great.

I have no love for him anymore, so it's better to let go early! Don't embarrass yourself and don't hurt the feelings of both parties!

It's been 11 years, he's still a soldier, almost like me, but he didn't be a soldier, he studied hard for me and I shared, I now know to study hard, because I love him, we may not be able to go back, but I will love him, your life circle is different, it's not that you have to be "Chen", but that's the fact, it's good that you're together, but thinking, you work in the company, what is he doing, who is raising the family, you think about the future, you can't talk about it, it's better to divide it early, and leave good memories for everyone! Otherwise, it will be even more difficult for you to solve your troubles in the future! Grit your teeth!

He may care about you and nervous about you when he cares about you, but he interferes too much in your private life and makes your relationship disharmonious, and I think both of you are responsible. You should talk to him more about his intimate words, perfunctory or evasive is a vicious circle.

Sometimes I really can't help but believe that cultural differences make the distance between two people get farther and farther apart, because the cultural level is different, the groups you come into contact with are different, so it is easy to create estrangement after a long time, you will decide that he does not learn and he will decide, you look down on him, what can you do if you love him? Who can guarantee that such a love will never go bad? Think about the next few decades, if you can do it, don't give up, if you can't give each other a chance to choose again!

If she really loves you, she should support your decision and think about your future.

Since she doesn't think about you, why give up her studies for her, a degree is more reliable than love.

If graduate school is your dream, don't give up, where there is no grass in the world, why bother to love a flower.

Choose your studies. Love can be found slowly, but if you lose your studies, you won't forget it.

First go to graduate school, then get employed, when love comes, no matter when it is, you must grasp it tightly.

Graduate school first.

Employment 2nd then love.

You can work while studying for graduate school and gain some social experience.

Last love. If you have a career, love will come.

See if it's possible to end up together.

To see if it's worth it, you have to think carefully about whether it's worth it.

It depends on whether you love her or not.

There is no contradiction between love and graduate school, and you have to set a boundary for yourself. If you think that there will be no love during graduate school, then it can only show the fragility of your love, so it is better to separate and go to graduate school.

If you don't know the specific situation, it's hard to tell you how to choose one-sidedly.

But the most important thing is to think about it yourself, no matter what the decision is, and don't let yourself regret it.

Grasp with both hands, and be hard with both hands

Take care of your future first.

If the revenge test is the same major.

Graduate students, apply for the examination.

bai's conditions are not restricted, after the exam is the same zhi, the main difference should be in dao, the learning ability of a classmate and the learning atmosphere of the school can help it be admitted to graduate school, the atmosphere of the school of the three books is mostly more leisurely, slowly easy to wear out the will to learn, the postgraduate entrance examination is still very testing, of course, in addition to the written test and the interview, most of the interviews have to contact the tutor in advance, which depends on the tutor's impression of the classmates, Of course, there are also tutors who want to receive some gifts and the like...

I don't think there's any difference, it's the same after reading this book and being admitted to graduate school, it's just the difference in majors, some professional graduate students are very good, and some professional graduate students also earn the same salary as undergraduates.

After graduating from graduate school, it makes no difference......

In any case, the popularity is the highest in the mainland, and graduate studies in Hong Kong and abroad are required from beginning to end.

If you apply for it, you only need to answer the registration and pay the money for the exam. And you have to take into account the English level of most people, Hong Kong and abroad are taught in English. Another factor is the problem of money mentioned upstairs, Hong Kong's tuition and living expenses are higher than those in the mainland.

Diplomas in Hong Kong are much more difficult to mix than those in the mainland.

In fact, it is the same wherever you go to graduate school, and many people who go to Hong Kong for graduate study value staying in Hong Kong for development. If you don't have that plan, choose a domestic one. The cost is at least 400,000 yuan in Hong Kong, and 100,000 yuan in domestic tuition and living expenses should be enough.

College classmates are always very different from when you were in school, and even if you stay in the city together to work, or go abroad together, you can't have as much time together as you did when you were studying, and I think you should at least be mentally prepared for this.

As for what to do after graduating from college, I think the best option is for you to go out with him, there are many ways, you can apply with him to study abroad, go to a city, or he can marry you, if you both have identified each other.

If it doesn't work, then you just wait for him and let him give you a promise to keep him It's really a good idea to keep him, it's not just as simple as delaying him, what you will find is just a man who is no longer happy.

Don't be afraid to wait if you have a complete plan in mind.

That's how I am now, I'm abroad, she's at home, sometimes it's hard, but the happiness never changes

What can you ask me.

If you like him so much, and you are so afraid of your family, why don't you go abroad with him (with the consent of your parents, of course) and take care of each other when you get there, and work and study together and exercise yourself.

Maybe this is a relief for you, but you have to take responsibility for your own actions, don't make rash decisions, no matter how bad your family is, it is also to raise you to win people, even if they are unkind, you can't be unrighteous Discuss it with your family After all, studying abroad is a good thing If conditions allow, Mom and Dad generally will not object.

It's just that if you really get over there, you still have to focus on your studies, you're still young, and just talking about love over there is getting in the way, and it really hurts your boyfriend.

This two way, you also go, wait at home.

Support him. Even if he's gone. If he loves you.

I will also wait for the good day to come back to you. If you change your mind. I think.

There is no need to be nostalgic for such feelings. Everything has to be about fate. At that time, it can only be said that there is no fate.