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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.
Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?
Love is not possession!
You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......
Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.
Answer, support me.
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This is normal, don't take liking someone as pressure, and when you think back to your high school days and your former crush, it will become your most precious memory. (But also focus on your studies, after all, you are still a student, you can use him as your motivation to move forward).
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You said you liked her, and you didn't say you loved her, at first you like someone who will be jealous of some small things, when you can't control your feelings for her, you can try to confess to her, if you haven't tried, how do you know what others think? At other times, you can't feel what is going on in other people's minds. In the second year of high school, you will learn some articles that are also about love, and it will teach you some.
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Learning is still the most important, but if you like that girl too much and even affect your studies, don't be a mother-in-law, hurry up and get to know others, first end your own thoughts, and then don't worry, don't think too much, slowly start with her as a friend, take care of your studies, do a good job of grades, girls generally don't hate boys who are good at school.
Don't be shy, don't be afraid of being disliked and hated, because you are just friends at the beginning, look at her attitude towards you, and when the time comes to think it is right, prepare for the worst and confess it boldly.
Introduce. Adolescent love has both positive and negative effects on people. On the one hand, love allows adolescents to meet the needs of intimate relationships, promote personal maturity and enrich emotional experience, and help adolescents identify and self-accept.
On the other hand, in the course of a relationship, adolescents may experience more mood swings and affect their daily social and academic development because they generally lack mature emotional management skills.
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It's better not to fall in love if you are a high school student, after all, you study mainly in high school, and when you are admitted to college, you can find someone you like, and then fall in love in college, so that you will have a good memory and will not leave regrets.
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There are the following:1. First of all, we remind ourselves from the bottom of our hearts that although the other party is the person we like, it is all in the past.
2. You can stay away from the place where the two of you often stay together, so that you don't see things and think about people.
3. It is not easy to give up a person, and if you want to get out of this state, you have to go out and adapt to the new environment.
4. If you meet someone you like more, then you may have no scruples when you give up on your original friend or original lover.
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Time is the way to dilute all feelings. Another point is to study hard. Spend your time and energy on your studies.
Let yourself be busy, the wound period of feelings, there can be no time for cranky thoughts, so let yourself be busy, let the busyness of work cover the wound of feelings, so that we have no time to take care of the wound, then the pain will be reduced a little, time is a good medicine, busy plus good medicine, it will slowly fade away, slowly stop liking, and your heart can be relieved as soon as possible.
Take care of yourself, you are the most important person in your life, you need to be happy every day – and he has no right to take away your happiness. If he asks why you are avoiding him, tell him the truth.
Tell him, "You need to be with other friends, and you don't think your friendship is a good fit." "If he wants to save your friendship, he'll try.
If he gives up, thank goodness! You can just go with the flow and know that you did what was good for you.
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My attention shifted to studying, trying to make my life fuller, and I don't think there would be any such things if I only studied.
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If you're in high school and want to give up on the person you like, you can only put your energy into your studies or other things, well, because you may be in the same class every day, it may not be realistic to keep your distance, you can only separate your energy.
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He is a person you like, in fact, at this time you have to focus on studying, and then this person you like will be silently in your heart.
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High school is all about learning, and as long as you are interested in learning, then you will voluntarily give up other things.
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I think it's best to focus on your studies and work hard in high school. This will let a person go.
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How do you give up someone you like in high school? Then you should mainly focus on studying, study hard, be admitted to university, and then be admitted to graduate school for doctorate.
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It's simple, reduce the number of chats and reduce the chance of meeting up. Enrich your life! Transfer target. Focus on your studies.
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After being separated for a while, he will slowly forget about him.
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It is best not to fall in love in the middle period, because it will affect learning. I suggest you think more about studying, so that you will give up on the person you like.
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Let's focus on studying, and when you go to university, you will have a new life
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Hello, give up liking, then cut off the interaction between each other, but also plan for yourself, or just have your own goals, so sometimes there are some choices that are forced to happen, but liking sometimes happens naturally, so this takes time to explain.
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The best way to give up liking someone is to put yourself into learning, enjoy learning, and then work hard to learn.
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High school is mainly academic, and learning is the most important, so you can give up the person you like.
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After all, high school is a very important period for studying, and you should focus on your studies, and if you slowly shift your attention, you will give up on each other.
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If you put all your energy into studying, you can forget.
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You can self-regulate, autosuggest that learning is the most important thing, and then focus on learning.
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The best way to give up on someone you like in high school is to focus on your studies.
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How to give up liking someone in high school If you want to have future goals in the future, the thing in high school is not to fall in love, and it's important to study.
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For high school, it should be focused on learning, and there should be no at this time. The idea of falling in love, because this will affect your mentality and affect your learning, so you can adjust yourself and focus on learning.
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When I was in high school, I still had to focus on studying, so I thought I should try to put all my energy into my studies and try not to think about love.
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How to give up liking someone? I'm afraid this is more difficult, since you already like this person, if you want to give up, you have to find his shortcomings, and then magnify his shortcomings.
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It's a very difficult thing to give up someone you like, and as time goes by, you will slowly forget about it. Let him help you.
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As a high school student, it is not recommended to fall in love, because what will happen tomorrow, and delay your studies, you should study hard first, and then talk about it after completing your studies.
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How to give up in high school, like to communicate alone, study hard, and fall in love after being admitted to school.
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