Is liking someone tolerant of their past?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is a very normal thing, you love her, so you will care about her very much, the position of your heart is very important, you even hope that everything about her belongs only to you, you feel bad when you hear about her past, at that time, because her past did not belong to you, in fact, love is selfish, of course you are not very happy, in fact, the past is gone, no matter how unhappy you are, it is useless, what has happened, do you want to investigate what has happened, you can't have anything before her, you have a bright future, you love her, you have to give her happiness Do you think it's worth it for the sake of regretting your life's happiness Don't think about those things, think more about your future, happiness will always belong to those who know that they will seize the opportunity.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really love her, you won't care about her past! The most important thing is that both parties trust each other! Hehe, I wish you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personal opinion:

    Love him and accept his past, do you live with his past or with his present?

    The past is just the past tense, who doesn't have the past?

    You don't love him without her first time? So what do you love about her?

    If you really love her, don't take the initiative to ask her about her past, she may take the initiative to tell you later.

    Usually the girl who says this, she must have decided to be with you, it depends on this last question.

    You also know that the past is in the past, and you live in the present and in the future. If you love her, go and stand up for it. If you don't love her, what does her past have to do with you? Cherish it. Have fun.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Everyone has a past.

    There is nothing wrong with having a past.

    It's wrong to be stuck in the past.

    The important thing is now.

    It's now.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's because you care too much about her past, but when your love is deep enough, you will tolerate her past, in fact, as long as you love each other very much now, I am willing to bless you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's normal to mind your girlfriend's past.

    It's just that if you love your girlfriend very much, you want to live happily and happily in the future. Then try not to think about what you hear, what you hear is not necessarily the most real, and even if it is, it would be better if you didn't care about the two of you

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's a normal thing, everyone is the same, it just depends on why she talks about her original things, it depends on the motive, maybe it's just a memory! Because good memories are always unforgettable, maybe I want you to cherish him more!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't care too much if you like her, but it depends on your girlfriend's attitude towards you, whether she is wholeheartedly to you now, if so, men just let go, you have no psychological problem, men are like this, what is more important than your happiness, I wish you and your girlfriend happiness!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's not a psychological problem, it's that you love her too much, and some people don't care, and some people care very much.

    If you love her very much and don't want to lose her, then don't care, as the saying goes, I don't have time to participate in your past, but I have to work with you in your future, and if she does really too much, not a good girl, then you leave her as soon as possible.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    As a man, if you're really in love with a girl, you have this mentality.

    You don't have to worry too much about putting your mindset right! Facing the future of life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You're fine, you're a normal man.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Won't care about TA's past. If you mind, you can't love him with all your heart. Mind refers to taking things that make people unhappy to heart.

    When you mind a person's past, state that person's past is something that makes you unhappy. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow.

    If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore. In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he treat me like the one he used to be?

    In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.

    And there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things that are slippery, and when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So the dust stool addresses this question and makes the pin look like this from the point of view of love: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore.

    If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, there will be some manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you are very concerned about those things.

    His original intention of telling you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past. If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, I was very touched by your question. Once, I loved a girl very much, she was very good, in fact, she was not in a hurry to make me jujube, she was not angry, and I thought she was very cute...All kinds of love and tolerance for her, I am really willing to give her all the dust, as long as I have it

    Before we were together, we were friends, and we had a chat, and when it came to the topic of girlfriends, I said: If it is my girlfriend, no matter how much I do, I will tolerate her ......She said: I hope my future boyfriend can be me

    Later, we got together

    I did what I said

    However, I was broken up

    Reason: I am too good to her, I will tolerate her whatever she does, so she is gradually embarrassed to do it, and she can't even quarrel with me, in her words: "You are so good to me, I am reluctant to quarrel with you, I am reluctant to have a little temper with you, I feel that it is not right, but, that is weird, isn't it?"

    If you don't quarrel, you don't make awkwardness, are you still lovers? ”

    Maybe it's really too much, maybe I'm not good enough, maybe we really don't have fate, maybe some girls just want to make you angry, and then she will feel valued, tolerance is of course a kind of cherishment, but all day long in the honey pot Yan Envy, it will be tired, maybe it's ......

    Have a great day!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Hello

    Like whether a person's tolerance for him will rise.

    Why is it going up.

    Is there any data. Because of love

    No data, kiss.

    Data and mechanisms.

    A theorem in feelings.

    Can you tell us more about it? Will it have to be like this, will it have to be this phenomenon? The second question is the impact of celebrity behavior on fan behavior, please tell me more details.

    Can I have a question.

    It can be said that in the relationship, if you love very much and have a good relationship, you can always tolerate each other, but after more than a degree, you will not be as tolerant as before.

    Flattening out. Until the drop.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hello landlord:

    If you like a person, you have to tolerate, but tolerance is not scaleless, it must be within the range of what you can accept, and if it is a matter of principle, it cannot be tolerated.

    If you tolerate it infinitely and without principle, you will be very tired

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It depends on what the situation is, what can be tolerated must be tolerated, what should not be tolerated should not be tolerated, if it should not be tolerated, it is also inclusive, it is indulgent.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Of course, but there are some things you have to help her.

    Tolerance does not mean tolerance, for example, if she is wrong, you should comfort her first, and then tell her not to do this in the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Many times you may feel that you are tolerating her too much. It's so tiring.

    No one is perfect. You also need to be tolerated.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You like her, and then you think he can't do this, that can't, this won't and that won't, complain about her all day long, do you think he thinks you like him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    To love someone is to trust each other.

    To love someone is to understand each other.

    To love someone, you have to be tolerant with more heart.

    To love someone is to be open-minded.

    To love someone is to respect the other person's thoughts and opinions.

    If you love someone, you should support him (her) a lot behind your back, instead of preventing someone from facing him (her) when you can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm very good and happy.

    Love someone to hide their inner fragility and grievances, don't let him (her) know to love someone too much love, maybe some people can't do it, the important point is that love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, let him (her) be happy, as long as he (she) is happy, is the most important!!

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