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What's the big deal, it's normal, some people choose love, some people choose bread! If you come to Wenzhou, you will find that the girls here are the same as you, people are wrapped in the placenta when they are born, and the placenta is filled with water, so that makes us full of security! It's like you girls like to sleep with a doll, some women lack trust in the future, so they want to find a mature and reliable one to make their future more secure.
So now it's always your choice, do you feel fear of the future? Feeling panicked about your life? So go find someone who gives you a sense of security, coax you to sleep in the middle of the night, and use your back to give you stability, as for the so-called social status here, it's just a condition for you to choose a person yourself, I remember a woman who likes an accomplished person, but she likes his condition, that person smiled and said it doesn't matter, this is also a part of me as a person.
Do you understand? It's just a condition you choose, and relax yourself, the future is actually not terrible, when you close your eyes, then the future you just said becomes the past, and time always flies. Find someone you like and who can give you a sense of security!
This is the minimum requirement, if there are two at the same time, choose from both, but you have to understand whether it is emotion that gives you a sense of security, or material!
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We're both the same age, and I don't think your situation and your taste are beyond the general range, or even very common.
all over again. Everybody yearns for a high material life, this is understandable, as long as you don't hurt others, you can pull it, right?
As for the question of whether it is good or not, it is not good to go crazy and do whatever it takes for the sake of a high material life.
If you get it through the right way, you can't go wrong. I repeated the above words again.
Actually, I just want to tell you about the first paragraph, which is a bit mechanical, and it's not interesting.
And it will seduce a lot of topics, and I can go on a few thousand words on any of these topics, so it's a self-inflicted, disgusting, thankless stupid move.
But it's already been said, you just make do with it, the future, the unknown, you love once maybe you understand much better, though.
Of course, I don't have love, but I can experience love in many ways, understanding is too good, don't learn from me, I basically belong to superpowers, I can't learn it.
That's all there is to it, if you think it's good, I'll get 50 + 20 + 2 = 72 points, and if it's bad, I'll get 2 points, thank you.
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Shouldn't it be a father-love plot?,Isn't there very little fatherly love when you were a child?,You're an insecure person.。 , but happiness has nothing to do with age.
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You can talk to me, Hi is waiting for you.
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You're right. Study hard. Live with your heart.
Now don't have too many material desires. Improve your survival skills. Be kind to those around you.
There will be good luck. There will also be people you love by your side. Be brave and try.
No one can stop you.
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Ask a question twice! Is it really that hard to choose?
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Judging from your description, you're very entangled, but I want to break up with him, but I can't let go of 2 but. I'm so struggling to see it!
From a rational point of view, you know that such a man can't be wanted. But you can't let go of this relationship. I don't know what to do.
So, I'm going to ask you a question:
If you have a restaurant near your house, the food is expensive and unpalatable, and there are cockroaches crawling on the table, will you come again and again because it is so close and convenient? Answer: You will definitely say, what kind of rotten problem is this, who is so stupid to pay for sin?
But in the same situation, on another occasion, you might do something similar stupid. You've now complained about your boyfriend's misconduct, half-heartedness, and irresponsibility. Knowing that there is no good result together, resentment is already more than love, but "I don't know why" I still want to get along with him, and I can't break up.
To put it bluntly, just for the sake of unwillingness, for the sake of habit, isn't this the same as visiting a restaurant?
As a man, why should you be too persistent?!
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Why are you so entangled?
Could it be that he is in love with two women at the same time?
It's all excuses!
Since you love you, you should be separated from that woman!
It's better to leave for a while and let him calm down and think clearly!
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I think that if you are a man, you should be responsible for the current girl, who was like that to him and he was like to you.
Still in touch with that girl, still like that, what does she think of you?
You're good to her, but he doesn't value you, and I think you should put him to the test and get him to give you a clear answer.
Is it right for you to be entangled in this way?
I suggest that you don't treat him so well, suddenly cold him for a while, and then ask him whether he chooses you or her, and ask him to give you a clear answer, let him say goodbye to the previous paragraph quickly, he is a man, he shouldn't be so mother-in-law, mother-in-law, if he is still like that, I suggest you break up with him, such a man is not worth it.
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1. You can't make a decision too hastily, because you must first understand what he is thinking now, such as what he really thinks about his ex-girlfriend, whether he wants revenge, or still loves her, or there are other reasons.
2. From your description, I found that you said that he still hid from his ex-girlfriend when he was with you, which can prove that he doesn't really love you, but that he hates his ex-girlfriend, or that they are no longer suitable, but he can't let go of his dedication, and he feels that he must be rewarded for his efforts (these are personal opinions, for reference only). If this is the case, I think you have to understand the real reason why he is with you, and your future plans or development, and if there is a situation where the relationship cannot be reconciled and developed, break up.
3. You have to distinguish the reasons why you like him, what makes you unable to give up, or what you want from him (I reject the idea of exploitation).
4. Have you tried to take the initiative to mediate and run in?
5. Has there been any improvement after mediation and sincere conversation, has you understood his ideas, or have you helped him understand his own ideas?
I hope the above can enlighten you.
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Your boyfriend said that his ex-girlfriend cheated on him a lot, and it is estimated that he owed his ex-girlfriend in his previous life. And you owe him in your previous life, so you two are together in exchange for him to lie to you.
I dare to say in front of you that I can't let go of my ex-girlfriend, I think this is going to be put on hold in ancient times, and he must have married both.
When you like someone, you naturally feel that he is vulnerable, clumsy, and in need of protection, and when you don't like him, he instantly becomes smart, strong, and invulnerable. Therefore, the other meaning of "can't let go" is self-evident.
Persuade your boyfriend, let him wake up, don't do anything about sitting in the harem all day long!
If you can't let go of his uncle, tell him that you either let go or break up! Let him choose!
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Men should be generous, women are the same, be generous, as long as he is not with his ex-girlfriend, what does it matter if he can't let go for a while, time will dilute everything, and after a few days, things are wrong and wrong, and you can't find that feeling anymore, so don't worry too much about what will happen to him. Of course, if you don't let them contact, tell him clearly, and continue to entangle with your ex-girlfriend, then you quit, if he chooses you, then don't contact your ex-girlfriend, choose one of the two.
In addition, it can be seen that you love him very much, you said that he took away your money and ID card, these are just psychological excuses, and they don't mean anything, he can't stop him if he really wants to leave, because there are police, he is illegal, you should know this yourself, right? Therefore, we should all cherish a relationship, and I hope you can communicate well and be happy together.
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It shows that your boyfriend still likes his ex-girlfriend, and he won't die if he doesn't hit the south wall! But he is afraid of losing you, because you are good to him, as you say, very good to him, very good, what he can't get from his ex-girlfriend is got from you, so he doesn't want to lose you. Is it that your boyfriend gets you too easily or that you take care of him too much, and his ex-girlfriend is squeamish in front of him, and he used to take care of his ex-girlfriend?
So that he is doing this to you now. Because he feels that it is too easy to get your affection, he does not value you. A typical slut is a slut who will be heartbroken when he loses.
Obviously eating from the bowl and thinking about the pot. Nowadays, many married men have this mentality, so you should pay more attention. If he keeps treating you like this, it means that he is not worthy of your love, and leaving him is the right choice.
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I agreed with him that everyone would calm down for a month and not see each other during the period. A month later, if he hadn't given up on his ex-girlfriend, everyone would be 88
If they can let go completely, the two of them will have a good life in the future. Now, hand over your ID card and money first, or call the police.
He dares to say in front of you that he can't let go of his ex-girlfriend, which is too arrogant and clearly bullying you. If you make do with it in the future, you won't be bullied to death for the rest of your life.
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It's best to have a solution, don't get entangled, you are like this, you tell him, call you and his ex-girlfriend together, you go to dinner together, see how he decides, see who she is better to when eating, I know this is difficult and embarrassing, it's okay not to eat, call together to make a decision, let him decide that the two of you choose you, if he chooses his ex-girlfriend, then you turn your head and raise your legs and leave, by the way, you have to come over with your ID card and the front, if you don't give it to you, you will slap him in the mouth, and then take it over, just go, don't look back, If this man wants his ex-girlfriend and grinds with you, this man is too unproductive, and he will give our men a shameful, and slap our man in the face. If he chooses you, you solemnly tell her ex-girlfriend to let him stay away from your husband, you must have an attitude, and a tough attitude does not need the blessing of love, do you understand? To be kind to others is to be cruel to yourself, why can't you get along with yourself, to be together is a lifelong thing, you must be down-to-earth, if you don't have a sense of steadiness, if you don't leave, you friends and brothers and sisters, everyone has it, if I were you, I would let my friend come forward to ask for documents and money, otherwise, I would be beaten to death, and I would be robbed after the fight.
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This question must be decided.
Whether it's a man or a woman, or even a homosexual, it is impossible to tolerate a person who says he loves himself and then breaks ties with someone else. That's a big question! But you should let him choose, both sides must face it correctly, face up to this problem, choose whether he has a choice, you or her.
You should talk to him about this directly, you can't procrastinate any longer, and be honest!
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I've been in this situation with my ex-boyfriend, and then I decided to break up with him.
If you have someone else in your heart, don't mess with me, I said that at the time, and now I have a new boyfriend, and he is very good to me.
If you don't let go of your mistakes, you'll never meet the right.
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Time is a good solution, as long as he really loves you, even if he has that woman in his heart, after a long time, he will let go. This shows that he values feelings. Let time decide.
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1.Yes! Your feelings are right.
He won't love you with all his heart! 2.You love him more.
3.It's really annoying and helpless to be entangled in the whirlpool of three people. 4.
Don't for a tree. Give up a forest.
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Break up, he doesn't love you, at least you're not the one he loves the most He is not mature enough, men have loved many women in their lives, but in the past, you have to rest assured, tell you that he can't let go of his ex-girlfriend What does it mean?
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Okay, I'll show you how. Now that it's all come to this, as you can see from his ex-girlfriend's question, he's a bit of a. That's it, start now, and don't be as arrogant as you used to be.
Since the soft ones are not good to use, then the hard ones will make him feel a sense of crisis. Let him know that you can live without him Don't let him feel that you can't live without him It's you who hurts like this Restrain yourself when you want to be good to him, The only goal is to make him feel that if he loses you again, then he will have nothing.
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Dear, mess with him once. Be ruthless and let him know that you can leave him at any time, and it's not that you have to be him. Let him know that you are friendlier than his ex-girlfriend, and he himself discovers that he loves you more than his ex-girlfriend.
If you still love him, there will be a scale of trouble, if you don't love it, break it up, no one can stand your boyfriend thinking about your ex-girlfriend. Thinking about her when I accompany you is also considered an unfaithful lover.
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The feeling and behavior of first love, but some are not very rational.
A classmate in high school was the object of his first love, and it was hard to forget in this life.
Now I often dream of her, one is unforgettable. The second is that there is no one to replace her in reality, and you have not found other suitable objects.
You also regret your irrational actions in the past, which you should correct in the future.
You should understand what the biggest task is at the current stage, only by completing the task and doing a good job can you gain the admiration of others, and you will not get the respect of others.
If you are still a student, the biggest task is to study, do a good job in your studies, and then talk about love, and you have a better chance of being favored by girls. In other words, if you do a good job in studying, it will help you get better girls. Everyone is a student, they all know the importance of learning, and if they don't take learning seriously, students with poor grades are at least not admirable.
If you are working, learning technology, and seeking greater development is your biggest task now, and this task is completed well, which will help you find better girls.
You think you're Andy Lau, you pretend to be cool when you're rejected, just say it if you're not convinced, stupid, you still hurt others, it's good if people don't hurt you.
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