I feel so uncomfortable, emotional problems. 20

Updated on healthy 2024-02-08
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Forget it, she is what you want, it is not necessarily suitable, there are not many difficulties between you, a lot of it is because you are not old enough, and you can't adjust your mentality well, and after you have experienced a lot, maybe she is not so important, if you really love her, you should work hard in the third year of high school, get a good school and get a good job, prove it to her. You yourself also understand that you may not be able to go to the end, you have to believe that there is a certain number in the dark, there is always the right person waiting for you to make your heart move, you and her are now breaking up, and many years later, they will be together again, this is not necessarily, after many years to remember that they were good enough, don't think about those unpleasant, you wish her happiness, really love her, not to be confined to a moment, if it is really uncomfortable to go out and relax.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really like him, keep him without delaying your studies.

    But there are risks:

    1. If you are in a different place for 4 years, no one knows what is going on, there are too many variables in things, and the chance of you being together is really not very big.

    2. Breaking up and sadness is inevitable, and the probability that the person who will be together in the future is the person you love the most is really small.

    3. Try to keep it, will it be just a formality? After all, the two of you are not together.

    This is a practical problem, think about it well, and wish the title of the gold list.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm not very optimistic about a long-distance relationship like yours, it's better to have it for a long time, after all, you are still young now, and you will meet a more suitable one in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think it's better to keep it.

    You are still too young, and you can't do many things by yourself, so why do you still promise to live for a lifetime?

    Let it be.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. Everyone has moments of discomfort due to relationship problems, this is a normal emotion, and you should give yourself a little time to adjust and ease it slowly. When you're feeling down, you can force yourself to do something else, divert your attention, and don't always get caught up in sadness.

    We should use a positive attitude to deal with emotional problems and give ourselves more positive guidance.

    Recently, I feel that something is wrong with my emotions, and I feel very uncomfortable, what should I do?

    Everyone has moments of discomfort due to relationship problems, this is a normal emotion, and you should give yourself a little time to adjust and ease it slowly. When you're feeling down, you can force yourself to do something else, divert your attention, and don't always get caught up in sadness. We should use a positive attitude to deal with emotional problems and give ourselves more positive guidance.

    I'm 43 years old, and because of something that's happened recently, I'm reminded of a couple I talked about when I was younger. Although the conversation has not been for a long time, it has reached the point where marriage and marriage have already met (a ritual before engagement in rural areas), and relatives and friends know about it. But then somehow, I just didn't want to.

    I didn't know if I didn't know it, and I broke up with others. At that time, no one told anyone, and it must have been very difficult. Actually, other girls are better than me.

    Now that I think about it, I'm really ashamed of others. So when I think about it in the past two days, I feel uncomfortable.

    Think of something happy, that is, a passerby in life, you two have no chance.

    There was a typo, and it was the matchmaker who told someone. Now I really want to say sorry to people in person, I was wrong, please forgive me. But I also know that this kind of thinking is very naïve, and I must not disturb other people's lives anymore.

    We actually had a good relationship at the time. (Don't get me wrong, we didn't do anything out of line, we are all very good families). Although 20 years have passed, I am really ashamed to think about it now, my relatives and friends know that I am about to get engaged, but I broke up with them without knowing it.

    When I think about it now, I always feel ashamed of others and blame myself. I can't admit my mistake in person, so I'll say to her here: I'm sorry, I was wrong, please forgive me. At the same time, I wish her a happy life.

    She will be happy, I can only say that the two of you have no fate, I believe that you will meet someone who is destined, I wish you happiness, think of something to do.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello friend: There is a feeling called forgetting, and legend has it that there is a soup that forgets everything after drinking. Forget all sorrows, forget all hatreds, forget all unpleasantness and what you want to forget in your memory, and of course forget your love, forget your love, and forget your ......

    If you forget your sorrows, you will have no sorrows, and you can stretch your frowning brows and worried faces. All the unfairness and unhappiness in ordinary life will disappear with forgetting, and people will become clearer, as if the sky covered by dark clouds suddenly turns blue.

    If you forget hatred, you will be far from hatred.

    When the mind is not blinded by hatred, when everything becomes a passing cloud, people will be completely relaxed, forgiving others and saving themselves.

    If you forget love and love, you will forget everything you don't want to remember. When you are struggling for someone to love, when you are helpless and hesitating for a relationship, what a great happiness it should be to suddenly forget.

    No one can be so free and easy, no one can really forget! The days that have been loved, hurt, and painful can never be erased, and the passage of time has increased the pain in the memory. It makes the pain clearer, makes the heart more haggard, makes love turn into hate, and love turns into resentment......

    If you learn to forget, you will learn to forgive yourself and save yourself. Since you have loved and have no regrets, separation always has its helplessness. When people go from naïve and ignorant to thinking that they have seen through the red dust and this society, it is a mental journey.

    Actually, no, there are too many truths on paper, and too little is really understood. Complaining about others and feeling sorry for oneself are all human nature, and most people are selfish.

    Life is just a few decades, why are you so tired, why not learn to forget? Blindly pursuing perfection, and in this world, there is no perfect thing at all, perfection is a kind of defect, and defective things are truly perfect. Life is even more so, people who have no regrets in life are not happy.

    Therefore, the pursuit of perfection is actually the pursuit of a perfect mentality.

    When a person's life comes to an end, he will go through the cycle of grains; When the reincarnation of a human being passes through the Nai Ho Bridge, he will drink something called Meng Po soup, he will forget the memories of his previous life, and he will become happy in this life. Does it have to be until then to really forget? What is happiness, happiness is in **, people have been struggling to seek, finding, happiness is actually in that glance, happiness is actually in that forgetting.

    I hope mine can let you get out of your current mood and find your feelings as soon as possible!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you are in a bad mood, something must be affecting you.

    To get out of the depression and face the problem head-on. Carefully analyze the cause of a bad mood and find a way to solve or improve it. It may not be eliminated soon, but as long as you have the intention to improve and take practical actions, you will definitely get closer and closer to success.

    If you don't know why it's caused by a low mood at all, it's okay, it's natural to be fine in two days.

    Give it a try, and you'll definitely get better.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Find three or five confidants to get drunk and rest, wake up and start again.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Go out for a stroll and talk to friends.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I feel uncomfortable, what's going on.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When you're sad, you have to think about why you're sad.

    So as to "prescribe the right medicine" to comfort yourself.

    When you're sad, tell yourself.

    Everything will pass" There are always more solutions than difficulties.

    When you're sad, talk to a good friend.

    They will do their best to help you with your sadness.

    When you're upset, shift your attention.

    Do what you love and get your mood back.

    When you're sad, be brave and face it.

    So that the solution can be thought of quickly.

    When you're sad, tell yourself.

    There's a reason for everything, and I've made myself better.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Let time fix it, or vent.

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