How to deal with poor students in the dormitory and how to get along with poor students roommates

I think such a person, self-esteem is too strong, too much help may sometimes only have the opposite effect, treat her as an ordinary roommate, it is best to be able to get together and learn and progress together, if you can't, then let it be, who is not a treasure at home, it is better not to look at the face every day

Everyone is equal, everyone is united, because you are all a collective, and people cannot be poor.

Treat them equally.

In addition, they don't have much money, and when they go out to eat, they have to take at least AA by car, but don't let them suffer.

They are all roommates, and many of them may have a past that is difficult to look back on.

And if you are kind to others, you will be very happy.

So take care of her more, after all, you were all happier than her before, didn't you?

She may think that you are pitiful for her, and that you treat her as equals and just take care of her a little.

What he treats you, how you treat him, but better than he treats you, he asks you a question, you ask him two, of course, not a rhetorical question, be sincere, don't let him think that you are sympathetic to him.

The Five Principles of Peaceful Coexistence can be put into use.

We had a guy in our dormitory, and we talked one day, and it would be nice for everyone to say what was in their hearts, and everybody was comfortable.

Treated like ordinary people, she is very sensitive.

Good to her. At least roommates.

Despise her, who wants him is not a good thing.

Long live understanding.

It may be that the family environment has caused her low self-esteem.

The inferiority complex made her like this.

You don't have to go out of your way to help in the future.

Just do your best.

I was in the same situation as you when I was in college, but I ended up getting along with them very well.

In fact, the most important thing is not to show superiority. When chatting together, talk less about shopping, new movies, etc., and talk more about psychological and emotional things. I used my notebook for them, and when I was eating, if I wanted to go to a restaurant, I would find some small excuse to invite them to eat, but not very often.

Sometimes, I will invite them to participate in more activities, I will ask them to do some zero-cost sports together, and then I will usually give them ideas, teach them how to wear clothes well, and I will also lend them my clothes to wear, although they seem to be hardworking, but in fact, who doesn't love beauty?

Then I would sometimes go to self-study with them, and I would ask them questions, and they would be very happy to teach me.

In fact, the distance is still there for more than a year, and even in the end, they still feel that they are not the same world as me, but at least we get along happily.

In fact, the key is not to be poor or show off wealth, the key to getting along with others is to be sincere, from the bottom of your heart, do not care about the gap between the rich and the poor, less about the gains and losses, remember to be sincere, and there will be no problem

At the end of the writing, I found that if the landlord is a boy, then filter it and look at it, sister, what I said may not be appropriate.

Usually they have a bit of an inferiority complex and won't take the initiative to communicate with you. You take the initiative, just don't be domineering. You can be said to be a good brother for your life, how to say it, it is also fate, get along well.

Landlord, you are so nice! I'm poor! From what you said, I believe you can do it well! As long as we treat each other sincerely, we will definitely be able to get along harmoniously and amicably.

Actually, it's nothing. If you want to be good brothers with them, let them join your world, and if you don't have any money, you can be happy and happy. Now that you are rich, you can invite them more, maybe they will be richer than you in the future, and they will not forget you when the time comes.

You said no?

It's actually quite simple! If you really want to get along with others, you should communicate with others more, find some common topics, don't look down on others, you are good to others, others will naturally be good to you!

Oh, simple, change dorms

There's always a time when you'll use them, and you'll know at the end of the semester, haha.

I used to have low self-esteem, not because of the economy, but I also used to be sad. Because other students go to school and leave school, they have parents to pick them up, and they have parents by their side. And I live at my grandmother's house, so I can only go back and forth to school by myself, and my parents are thousands of miles away.

My classmates always talk and laugh about how my parents are, and every time I hear it, my heart stings, so I choose to stay away from them, and go to a place where no one is there to see the blue sky and white clouds, and even ants on the tree. However, this knowledge hurts in my heart, and I spend more and more energy on studying, studying wholeheartedly in class, ignoring all the short family slang words of parents that I don't want to hear. As soon as I got out of class, I would find a place for myself, and when someone noticed me, I would pretend to read, and when no one was paying attention, I would look into the distance or the ground.

I think that our situation is not something we can control, but we can decide what we do, no matter what we do now, only if we study well, the wider the road in the future, if we can't put knowledge in our minds now, the future society will not be able to meet our expectations, wake up, turn grief into strength, everything is already over, isn't it? The starting line and most of the race have come over, and they are all worried, and the final sprint is left to the explosive force, and all this is now regarded as floating clouds, because it doesn't make sense for you to care, you will all go your separate ways in the future, and no one will care what you do. And in the future, the society you want to live in is indeed the road of your life, you must not lose, don't use your weakness to compare with others, show your strengths, make yourself different, come on!

Hopefully, you'll be able to recognize what is about to pass and don't pay too much attention to it.

If you are given half a year to indulge yourself, there will be two results, 1. Continue to sink in the sinking 2. Wake up from the confusion.

I did that when I was a sophomore, I was the latter, and I hope you are the latter.

This is no way, hehe, you have to have the courage to break the boat, in other words, to be able to break the jar.

In fact, as long as you can stick to one path to the end, whether it is right or wrong, you will succeed, the question is how many people can stick to one path to the end without wavering.

Killing one is a crime, slaughtering ten thousand is a male, and slaughtering a million is a male among males.

How many people stopped at the step of "killing one for sin".

Recommend a book "The Ordinary World"...A must see. I believe you have something to gain.