Is it a good thing to grow up People have to grow up, is that a good thing?

Why do people grow up?

If you read this topic, you will feel like a child, I think you have grown up like many Chinese people.

I admit that I haven't grown up yet, so I cherish it very much, and for the last time I will evaluate the so-called grown up people with an immature worldview.

Everyone, in the beginning, God will give him a pair of clear eyes and an innocent smile. Dare to be angry, dare to laugh, dare to speak, I think it was a common thing at that time. However, as I grew up, these gradually became a luxury.

Or maybe it's naïve. Always in your heart, keep reminding yourself that these are usually your own. Remind yourself that you've grown up and don't make some things so specific.

Actually, this is not a good thing, and it can be said that it is definitely a good thing. The people around me are like this, so even if you can't help yourself, even if you are sad and painful, it is normal. Because you have grown up and learned to bear and accept, endure and let go, you will understand responsibilities and obligations, and understand how to be an adult who survives in this society.

Congratulations, my lord.

Most people will go through many stages of life, but I divide children and old people into one stage, old children and old children, the older they are, the more they like children, the more they look like children, but can you say that the old man is naïve?In fact, on the contrary, when people live to an age, they usually look at life from a different angle, so as to see themselves more clearly, and after acting on the big stage of life for a lifetime, it is time to return to the original point. Here's the thing (someone famously quoted), in the tide of society, it's hard not to go with the flow, as long as the moon is there, then the tide never stops.

So this round of bright moon that affects the society is in the hearts of all adults.

Why do people grow up? Psychophysiology can explain a lot of answers. But for me, man grows up to survive, just like many animals, the tiger grows sharp teeth, it grows up, the bird grows plump, it grows up, man, wraps his heart, he grows up.

Maybe one day I'm not exempt from vulgarity. I hope that at that time, we can jump out of the chaotic circle and see ourselves clearly, all actions are for survival, morality is cowardly in the face of food and clothing, we are just a group of poor animals, a group of animals that concretize their joys, sorrows, and sorrows, which is also the fundamental difference between us and other creatures. A gentle jump.

You will find that eternity and ephemerality are actually the same thing.

The cry at birth, the sigh before death.

Of course it's a good thing. We don't grow up and we don't realize that the burden on our parents is really great.

I would also like to wish all parents in the world good health! You've done a great job!

When you grow up, you want to be smaller.

Conform to nature, in nature, birth, old age, sickness and death, from childhood to adulthood, from ignorance to knowledge, this is a normal process. But if something goes against the rules of nature, then it is a strange thing, or it will cause some negative effects, so people have to grow up, but when they should grow up naturally and not grow up, it is a bad thing, so people have to grow up, and it is a good thing. Since there are two aspects, one is from the mind and the other is from the body.

The body will always grow with it, and when the body that should grow does not grow taller, such as when you live to be in your 30s, you are still as tall as a 4-year-old child, isn't that a bad thing? On the other hand, the mind is the meaning and value of one's own life that follows some self-perception and realization of one's own cognition and life insights. Confucius said that thirty and stand, forty and not confused, fifty and know the destiny of heaven.

Of course, this is only an approximate probability to summarize the meaning of most people's lives. And when in the customs and traditions of everyone's cognition, when you should be independent at the age of 30, you are not independent, everyone has an independent life, independent thinking, and you are still snuggled in your mother's arms at the age of 30 and drinking milk, do you think this is a good thing? Therefore it is a good thing that man has to grow up.

And if you don't choose to grow up, it doesn't mean that either you're running away, or you're just having personality and physical defects in all aspects. I don't face it when you should understand things and face it, and time is gone, of course you have the right to choose how you live, people are not an island, when you accidentally lose your life and wake up, do you still think it's a good thing not to grow up? You will only hate yourself for not growing up sooner and understanding these meanings sooner.

In most people's values, growth must be a good thing, growth means progress, and the more you grow, the more mature you become, and the stronger your problem-solving skills will be. Have you ever wondered why you want to grow? What is the essence of growth?

I divide growth into active growth and passive growth, active growth refers to active learning, actively seeking knowledge input, and gradually internalizing to achieve self-improvement. Passive and quiet growth refers to encountering current abilities that cannot solve problems, and being forced to input new knowledge or skills.

People who seek growth in order to make money and a good life are divided into passive growth, this type of people are dissatisfied with the current life, do not like the current state of life, and have to learn and increase their skills in order to change.

Imagine if the current ability of the other people can obtain a satisfactory state of life, they will not choose to be tempted to forbear?

Growing up is not a pleasant process, and people only grow when they experience something, whether active or passive.

The essence of growth is to become complex, and since it is complicated, it will naturally be mixed with many things, good and bad, to change our values and code of conduct. And many people don't have the ability to distinguish between good and bad, and become a person they hate.

I think growing up is not necessarily a good thing, we are the happiest when we are children, the more we grow up, the more troubles and sorrows, growth deprives us of a lot of innocent and simple happiness, you will find that the more you grow, the fewer ways to get happiness, people are complex and changeable, lack of sincerity.

Most growth is passive, and if your growth is active, you're at least self-motivated.

Everything has its two sides, or look at the positive side, after all, our parents give us a precious life, and we must live a more valuable life.

It's something that can't be rushed, it's something that can't be avoided.

Just like a tadpole turning into a frog, if you yearn to jump every second and then run back to the wind, becoming a frog is a dream that you can't rush to; If you are obsessed with every dance and then swing away, and become a frog, you will not be able to escape the fate.

In fact, no matter which one you choose, you will have a period of time that you prefer. And the most helpless thing is that people often want to possess everything they don't have, and they want to get back what they have lost.

So, the good or bad things have less to do with whether you grow or not, it's up to you.

The good thing is to cherish what you have and what you are experiencing, and the bad thing is to always suffer from what you have lost and what you have not yet gained.

It depends on where you change and how you change.

When we are young, many people want to grow up and become the best version of ourselves, and when we grow up, we will find that the most terrifying thing for us is to find that we have some of the same shortcomings as our parents, such as being as grumpy as our parents, or having shortcomings in the appearance of our parents, but we are the same as our parents, is this really the case? Let's talk about this topic together.

1. If your parents have shortcomings in their appearance, and when they grow up, they find that they also have the same shortcomings, which feels very scary.

Each of us attaches great importance to our looks, if we have a good look, we will add points to our overall image, and it will be very smooth when looking for a job and friends. Maybe when we were young, we didn't like the appearance of our parents, maybe our mother's eyes were small, and my father's mouth was very big, but when we grew up, we found that we had completely inherited the shortcomings of our parents' appearance, with very small eyes, a very big mouth, and a bad face.

Second, parents are people who love to take advantage, but when they grow up, they find out that they are also such people, and they will also feel very scary.

When I was a child, I followed my parents to buy things, and my parents always made things cheaper for missing searches, bargained with merchants, and sometimes there were cheap things in the supermarket, and my parents would queue up for a long time, and when I grew up, I found that I was the same as my parents, and I would not hesitate to bargain with others for the sake of cheapness, just for those few cents.

3. It's really scary that your parents have a bad temper, but when you grow up, you find out that you are also the one with a bad temper.

Parents have a bad temper, so when they are looking for a partner, they will want to find a person with a good temper, so that there will be no conflicts in married life, and they will not fight over some trivial matters. When I got married, I found out that my temper was the bad one, and I completely inherited the genes of my parents.

Regarding "The scariest thing about growing up is discovering that you have some of the same shortcomings as your parents, is that true?" That's my point of view, what do you think? Welcome to the comment area to leave a message.