Is it appropriate to do this, is it done this way?

Personally, I don't feel like it's quite right.

She is 4 years younger than you, and she has no clear concept of marriage and life.

And her attitude towards you is not a positive response, only a feeling"Cope"

But she is clearly a girl who is dominated by her family's opinions.

To put it simply, she is willing to engage you, not because she likes you, but because her family is happy with you.

It is advisable to talk to your family first and postpone the engagement.

Try to cultivate a relationship with the girl first, and officially become a boyfriend and girlfriend to date.

In the process of dating, if you find that the two are compatible, wouldn't it be better to talk about engagement at that time.

But if you find that you are not suitable for each other, you should consider whether you have developed according to the wishes of your family.

After all, marriage can't be regarded as child's play, and the two can only go longer if they are happy I hope you think about it yourself. Life events, no sloppiness!

I think love still has to be sincere. If that girl really doesn't have feelings for you, then I think it's better for you to offer to give up. If you two continue to spend like this, I think we'll delay you all.

If the other party really agrees to bond with you, of course I am happy for you. But will you be happy in the future? I think it's better for you to find another way to develop.

There are some things that cannot be forced. Don't worry about what your parents say, it's your business after all. Finally, I hope you can live a happy life.

In the future, the two of you will live alone, and your parents will think about it more, so the most important thing is the relationship between the two of you, I think you should be sensible, think about whether you like her or not, what she thinks in her heart If she likes you, she won't be too shy. If you have been doing what your parents told you to get engaged, then you have to worry that the bride will run away that day. You can ask directly, if it's not suitable, it's easy to say and disperse.

Well, don't worry about anything, as long as you like that girl, it's fine, if she doesn't like you he'll tell you, and now that he doesn't have any opinions, let it be!

In the future, the two of you are not, and your parents will think about it more, so the most important thing is the relationship between the two of you, I think you should be rational Don't think too much If it's not suitable, it's easy to say and disperse.

I'm having a problem with you! But not as fast as you do. It makes me so depressed.

Dude agrees.

It's just right After getting married, you see each other every day, and I'm afraid that you won't be able to cultivate a relationship, really, unless you're cold-blooded.

Love knows no bounds. The most important thing is to make both sides understand. It's not a feudal society anymore. Feelings are often in the hands of both of you. It is recommended that you talk about falling in love for two more years, and when the relationship matures, it is not too late to get married. So as not to regret it.

Of course, that's not good, marriage is a very serious matter. Two people want to like each other to love. Naturally. Listen to the parents' opinions are not too unassertive, or talk about it first, the main thing is that the girl's feelings are more important.

I want to find a partner It depends on fate Sometimes what we meet is not necessarily good Not necessarily what you want But if you really have feelings After getting along for a while, you will find that the other party has gradually changed to your ideal image You are also changing unconsciously 24 There is no need to be in a hurry There are still a few years to find it slowly Or find someone who loves you slowly I wish you to find your other half as soon as possible Come on!!

The key is whether you love her or not, and how much you know about her.

The point is whether you like that girl.

If you don't like it, don't get engaged so quickly.

Because love is about fate.

If you are married, but you don't really love each other.

Then in the future, if your fate arrives, you meet a girl you like.

You will regret your blind choice.

There is no love with a deal, only a marriage with a deal. Love is always holier than marriage, and marriage is always more affordable than love.

A happy marriage is based on love, buddy, feelings can't be forced, and it's not something outsiders can call the shots, just from your description, the girl looks very lightly on the relationship with you, if you really like her, you have to find a way to ignite his enthusiasm, if you don't really like it very much, then you must not be in a hurry, you are only 24, not in a hurry, and your she may appear in the next second, you can't lose the autonomy of feelings due to the urging of your parents, this is a lifetime thing.

Not at all appropriate. It doesn't matter whatever, I just don't take you seriously...It doesn't matter who she's going to after getting married*? Who's child is casual to have? How dare you marry such a dangerous person?

Yes! You can get married, and the relationship is slowly accompanied!

As long as they love each other, it's fine!

And to understand the other side.

Do you think you will be happy in such a loveless marriage?

Monkeys, rats, dragons, tigers, horses, dogs, pigs, rabbits, sheep, snakes, chickens, and cows.

Rats and cows, pigs and tigers, rabbits and dogs, dragons and chickens, horses and sheep, monkeys and snakes.

Rats and sheep harm each other, cattle and horses harm each other, tigers and snakes harm each other, rabbits and dragons harm each other, monkeys and pigs harm each other, chickens and dogs harm each other. As the saying goes: the golden rooster sees the dog in tears.

Pika and rabbit, tiger and snake, snake and monkey, monkey and tiger, cattle and sheep, sheep and dog, cattle and dogs, cattle and dogs, dragons and dragons, horses and horses, chickens and chickens, pigs and pigs.

It's only 24, what's the hurry? Find it slowly.

Don't ask for the best, just the right.

It's not real love, or she likes you, she's just shy.

This obviously doesn't fit. I'm also a girl, and as far as I think it seems:

1.I'm not sure about the relationship first, if the landlord thinks that the girl is good and worth being together, just pursue it hard until the girl changes her opinion of you.

2.Find out what that girl thinks, whether she has an unforgettable ex-boyfriend or some emotional trauma, or if she's just embarrassed to say she's willing to date you.

3.Barely being together is certainly inappropriate. Landlord you think about yourself, how long is a life, this kind of thing will not come, it is recommended that the landlord at the same time as work, more social.

4.To be honest, at the age of 24, a man should be working hard for his career, there is no need to be in such a hurry to find a girlfriend, and when your own conditions improve, you will find a better girl.

In fact, because your friend has invited you to dinner, and then you don't want to owe this favor, it is not a particularly good practice to want to return this favor to yourself immediately, and want to invite them to dinner immediately. Because this will cause some people to resent it. Let's take a closer look at something like this.

1.First of all, in our daily life or work, it is impossible not to owe others favors for anything, because we need to constantly communicate with others, so when you are in contact with others, it is easy to owe others favors. This is also a particularly normal thing.

So first of all, you should feel from your own psychology, and there is no need to return such favors to others quickly. Because this kind of thing is different from some specific things. It's not that you quickly return the favor of others, and people will feel that you are a very honest person.

On the contrary, people will think that you are too calculating.

2.And in fact, people can invite you to dinner, and the starting point must be that the other party wants to have a relationship with you. Or want to have a future with you more of this common development.

That's why I deliberately let you owe him a favor. But if you owe him the favor you owe him the day before yesterday and you are going to pay it back today, it will make others feel that you are a little too difficult to get along with. When others feel that you are not very sociable.

It may be very unpleasant to have a special quarrel with you. That's why you don't pay back the favors you owe to others right away.

3.And the most important thing is that when you owe someone a favor, don't give it back at the same price. For example, if someone invites you to dinner, you don't want to invite him to dinner.

It's okay to ask him to do something else. Because people invite you to dinner, and you invite others to dinner, it will make others feel that you are just replying to other people's favors, and you yourself have no feelings for him. Then others will feel that you are not a particularly suitable person to make friends.

Therefore, it may be difficult for you to get along with these people in the future.

You can show that you are worried, if she likes you, she will not mind, if she doesn't like you, then she may be impatient, then it is recommended that you and her be ordinary friends, after all, it will be you who are tired like this.

How to say this, it depends on whether she has feelings for you, otherwise it always feels like he's fishing for you, and if you really like it, take your time.

Summary. Dear, this is not right. Before you love others, you must first love yourself, love yourself first must love yourself, you do this to redeem him The result is not necessarily what you want, and finally your most precious thing is gone, the blow to your body and mind will be irreparable, sometimes the loss is lucky, God has arranged a better one for you, and it is more worthy to wait for you later.

You can't wait to meet someone who deserves it, you can't have the enthusiasm you should have.

It's like this, he and I are going to break up. I was a little reluctant because he wanted to be with his ex-girlfriend, so I wanted to use my first time to keep him.

Dear, this is not right. Before you love others, you must first love yourself, love yourself first to love yourself, you do this to redeem him The result is not necessarily what you want, and finally your most precious thing is gone, the blow to your body and mind will be irreparable, sometimes it is lucky to lose Xingmin, God has arranged a better one for you, and it is more worthy of waiting for you in the back. You can't wait to meet someone who deserves it, you can't have the enthusiasm you should have.

So what is the result of this?

First of all, you have to understand that now between the two of you is not your problem, nor is it his ex-girlfriend's problem, it is his own problem, if he loves you, then he will not do it, love is not bondage, it is the self-restraint of two people. If he puts you first in the banquet, he will naturally put your feelings first, and now he clearly lets you know that he wants to break up with you because of his previous girlfriend, which is the answer.

Is it lucky to lose?

In the relationship, when you meet a bad person, you must be sober, don't always think that it is your own reason, and if you pay a little more, you will let the manuscript change his mind, which is self-moving, and in the end, there is no more gain except for being sad to carry it.

Dear, before you meet the right person, you have to protect yourself, and you can't give everything easily.

If you can't figure it out, you can continue to consult me, I have the experience to be able to provide you with the help you need the most.

So what did he think.

Feelings are selfish and cannot involve a third party. If he puts you first, then there will be no idea that the former orange branch sock friend wants to break up with you, to put it simply, he doesn't love you enough. You can't go all the way to the dark, you have to know to stop losses in time.

May you have no regrets in your life.

Let's find a doctor... The body is important.

It's not that it's bad, it's that you're using the wrong person. So I suggest you give it up.

Second, he didn't block you before, and it is more likely that he will use you as a spare tire, and he will hang you until he finds a better one, but after it finds a better one, he will block you. Or that I didn't intend to be with you from the beginning, just teasing you. Later, I was afraid that you would misunderstand, so I blocked you.

But this is not very likely, because in this case, he can directly say it clearly, and it will not be directly blocked.

Third, before you confess to him, you should find out if he has a partner, whether he has a favorite person, and what kind of girl he likes, whether you are the type of girl he likes. If you're not the type he likes, how can he accept you?

So, there's nothing good or bad. But before doing so, there are some necessary things that need to be clarified in advance. There is nothing wrong with pursuing your own happiness, but you must learn to look at people and don't give others the opportunity to hurt yourself.

Finally, I wish you can find your true love.

Don't joke about it from then on, he jokes that he may just not want to accept you, but he doesn't want to stiffen the relationship between the two.

Don't want such a man, there are men in the world, there are days in the world, there are many good men, please don't limit yourself to your own unit, you can find a leader in another unit to chase it, you will definitely find a good Langjun congratulations on your good luck and all the best!