I am a single mother, what is it like to be a single mother?

I think it's better for you to beat the child out, your current thinking is that the child is innocent and shouldn't be so cruel to him, but have you ever thought about the future, when he was very young, he would encounter other people's gossip, saying that he was an illegitimate cub, had no father, and was a wild seed. And so many, many, so that will hurt him even more. And you have a five-year relationship, he now lets go of you, it is an indescribable harm to you, and when the child is born, whenever you see the child, you will think of the bits and pieces with the child and his father, which is also a shadow that will never go away for you.

If you want to open up, knock him out. Now there are a few stepfathers who are really good to their children, and maybe it will bring a lot of pain to your future married life. Dear sister, think about it for a better future.

By the way, if you give birth to a boy, have you ever thought about how you should deal with it?

You simply don't understand what it means for your child to do this. It's so selfish for you to think like this, and I say this because child, you don't have the right to deprive him of the right to enjoy full love. If you implement it according to your ideas, for you, you will be hurt when you see your child, a lifetime of pain, for children, incomplete love is a lifetime of tragedy, children's hearts are immature, exquisite, and two people do their best to grow up healthily, single mother, you are too sloppy.

Your boyfriend is really irresponsible to ignore you, hey, I don't want to comment too much on him, just think about the child, listen to my advice, if you break up, beat him, you can't afford to pay for the child, don't be impulsive, don't be angry.

But the child is born and can't have a complete home like others, and not having a father may be a bigger blow to the baby, think about how much criticism he will suffer on the road in the future. So, think again! It's okay if he loses an unassertive person like him, but the child is his own, don't be angry, really think about the child and for yourself.

If you have such courage, you must be very good, and you will have a little backbone to take revenge on that vain family from somewhere else in the future, but the child is innocent.

I can understand your feelings, it's really cruel to beat a child, but as soon as a child is born, he will not have a father, and this will also have a great impact on the child, and you will also have a great burden, for the sake of the child and for yourself, it is better to beat it up, and in the end, it is up to you to decide that the man is really not human.

Raise the children well, and find a good husband if you can, you can not be very rich, but you have to be very good. ^_

I wish you happiness.

You're right.

No matter where the child is born, he is a life.

As long as it is life, we must cherish her.

The child is innocent, for the child you can't live without the father, you can't do without the same reason as the husband, maybe he is also dizzy for a while, find out the truth and then go.

If you want to have children, then you have to be mentally prepared, both financially and socially.

In terms of reputation, it is not as simple as imagined. When you're physically and mentally exhausted, it's too late to regret it.

After all, the child is innocent, and I support you.

Don't snort!! That's a life.

I think life as a single mother may be a bit difficult.

But be strong.

I'm sticking with you. If you need comfort, add me.

I'm a woman.

I wish you all the best and your child grows up well.

Great Mother, we have your back.

You are really brave, bless you!

However, have you ever thought about life with children later in life?

I support the frog, so let's kill it.

Life is going to be very hard, and then I feel like I'm at my strongest point in life. If it weren't for that child, I wouldn't be so strong.

It's hard, it's lonely, there's no one to rely on, it's really hard to persevere. Especially when the child is disobedient, he even has the heart to die.

A single mother is a person who supports her children, and she needs to be strong and strong enough.

It will feel very hard, but for the sake of the child, no matter how hard and tired I am, I will persevere, and sometimes I am happier than anything else when I see the happy smile of the child.

It was a lonely and painful experience, and if you do decide to be a single mother, you need to be very prepared.

It is very hard to take care of the children while earning money to support the family, but it will be very happy to see the children.

I feel that it will be very hard to take care of my children, and I hope to find a support in the future.

It is estimated that it will be very hard, but it is also very happy and happy, after all, it is the treasure of the palm of your hand.

It will feel very hard, but I don't know who I can share it with, and I always carry it alone, but I will feel very happy when I see the smile on the child's face.

I'm also a "single mother"! No, it should be said to be a fake single mother.

I am a young mother who is fast running, I have a husband, but I am alone with children, I also have a job, there are only a handful of days to meet my husband 365 days a year, the total number of days will not exceed two months, it is okay to see less, at least I can understand that I care about me and understand me, but I don't seem to have any of these I want, so sometimes it is better to divorce than to think about it.

When everyone was not optimistic about us, I still decided to marry him with a letter, and deep down I still had a beautiful dream that he would definitely be good to me in the future, maybe I was really wrong. How hard the pregnancy is in October, everyone should understand, I don't say how hypocritical I am, but it's true that I faced it alone during the entire pregnancy, and I went to check it alone every time I had a prenatal checkup, even during the confinement period, including the caesarean section, I was alone with the child, and sometimes I wanted my husband to do something?

During the confinement period, my husband went to work. In the baby's more than 40 days, I took the baby back to my parents' house for seven or eight hours in the car. The baby is more than two months is the end of my maternity leave, because during the confinement period my mother-in-law said to let me resign to take the child, so I took the child back to the unit, so far the child is almost three years old, I am very glad that the baby is well-behaved and sensible, so I have never blamed my husband, but sometimes I will complain.

As the baby grew up, more and more things were taken care of, and I slowly became a woman. The experience of these years is enough to prove that I can take good care of myself and my children by myself, and my husband is nothing to me. If you know what I've been through, I even had to pay for calcium tablets during pregnancy; When I gave birth, the doctor hugged me through the bed with the husband of the woman next to me, and my husband was called by my mother-in-law to go to the supermarket to buy a spoon to feed the baby water; Every time the baby is uncomfortable, I take care of it alone, and I have never said ** greetings, and I never ask if I still have money to spend.

I still choose not to care about it again and again, but slowly I find that I don't need such a man in my life, maybe it's the three-year itch, and there may be a seven-year itch in the future!

Actually, to be honest, I don't need much, your concern, your understanding of me, my unreasonable understanding, and the so-called sense of security that can give me nothing more, but I don't feel it at all. If one day I really choose to leave, please don't come to me, I'm really tired and can't go on, I will take the baby, but please rest assured that you will not be deprived of your right to be a father.

I finally made up my mind to pull you into the blacklist tonight, because I gave you too many opportunities and you didn't cherish them, so I chose to withdraw my feelings; You made me a fake single mother, thank you for making me grow, my love!

After pregnancy, your fiancé died suddenly, and you can choose to keep his child, then you are a single mother, born out of wedlock, and the child is also a child who grew up in a single parent family.

Single mothers will face the following four dilemmas.

First, having a child out of wedlock can bring a lot of difficulties to raising a child.

If you are married and have children normally, you can raise children with your lover on the premise of having a stable life, which will make the burden of raising children much lighter. The state of giving birth out of wedlock will affect your own life, and you will also be out of sync with your other half in raising children, which is very detrimental to raising children and will bring a lot of difficulties to yourself.

Second, having children out of wedlock will affect the child's education and is not conducive to the child's growth.

A child's growth and development progress requires a good education, which needs to be done by both parents. For married couples, this is a natural thing, it is easy to do, and the children will get a good education, but the situation of out-of-wedlock births is different. Since both parents are not married, there will be problems in the education of the child, and the child may also be affected in matters such as schooling, which is not conducive to the growth of the child, so the birth of an out-of-wedlock child will bring more difficulties to both the child's hidden parents and the child itself.

The third point is that there is emotional Bisun disorder, and in the process of growing up, there are problems such as mental anxiety, low self-esteem, and weak willpower, and problems are often dealt with emotionally, and truancy, early love and other behaviors are more likely to occur in adolescence. The child's low ability to resist frustration is directly related to the lack of parental education, and the father's bravery, strength, enterprising and other masculinities can promote the child's personality development to be more sound. Fourth, social interaction is restricted, most of the mothers give their children emotional needs, while the father is to cultivate the child's way of thinking and the ability to deal with others, the child who lacks father's love, social ability and life ability are simply limited, the father is the hub of family and social contact, is the child's guide to the outside world, they can teach the child how to get along with others, how to expand the social circle, how to deal with problems properly and so on.

If there is no chaos, there is no pressure, and I am afraid that something will happen.

Is your child a son or a daughter?