Should We Break Up 20, Should We Break Up

There is a saying - distance produces beauty! When you fall in love with him and are not inseparable from each other, you will miss him very much, and most of what you see is his good, but once you enter the stage of getting along day and night, you will find those shortcomings in him that you have not seen before and you can't tolerate! It's a given!

Therefore, it is best for two people to keep a certain distance when they are together! Even if you are two people who love each other very much, leave personal space for each other! You also have to believe in each other, be considerate of each other, tolerate each other, don't be suspicious, and ask questions directly - otherwise, the more problems accumulate, they will rise into contradictions!

Here are some of my insights!

Judging by your story, your boyfriend doesn't understand you very much! According to you, it's a bit of a mess. So, I feel that either he doesn't think about you at all - maybe he doesn't love you (what he says is not necessarily what he thinks in his heart), or maybe he's a selfish person as you say!

Whatever the case may be, I don't think you're going to be happy together. What do you think?

This is just my humble opinion, how to do it depends on your own thoughts, after all, it is about your happiness, only you have the right to decide!

As the saying goes, it is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy one family. I really don't mean to break you up, I'm just talking about what is in my heart, I hope you think about it yourself and don't make a decision that you regret!

I hope your boyfriend can forgive me too!

Landlord, first of all, I think that as a girl, in fact, I envy you for having such a boyfriend who loves you, after all, the two of them are going to get married, the feelings and family foundation of both parties are solid, I heard you say that you will cry when you break up, hug you to sleep and say that I like you--- these are actually the performance of having you in my heart and loving you, many couples will have these actions when they sleep, and the regular sleeping appearance is a very old husband and wife, or just decided to develop together for a long time, right?

As for a lot of life planning or cognitive discrepancies, it is understandable, after all, it is only more than a year, even if you get along day and night, there is still a run-in process, the elders often say that after a man gets married, he will be qualitative a lot, these are a certain truth, after becoming a family, he is the head of the family, and the responsibility he shoulders makes his personality more calm, and he knows how to be considerate of his family. In addition to the communication problems between you, there are also factors in the external environment, he is still a bachelor now, give him some time, and the perspective of men and women is different, you feel that he does not fit the mature image in your mind, then maybe he is very mature in many other places.

In the end, your sleep quality is not good, you have a lot of chores to think about, you can't just get the fault on him, maybe he thinks you are insecure, and wants you to know that he is by your side to accompany you, in fact, this is also one of the considerate methods, but you don't like it, maybe he also thinks that you are shy and not really uncomfortable, this problem is the process of mutual tolerance between the two, you have to try to change him slowly, don't be too anxious!

I hope you are happy!

After a long time, the feelings faded, and the people who loved each other dispersed.

If you still have love in your hearts, then cherish each other! Don't end up being a stranger!

Actually, I think it's a bit of a fuss that you can see that he really loves you, because it's understandable that you like someone too much and sometimes inevitably do things beyond imagination, through what you said, I want to ask you, do you really love him? If it were me, I would like to sleep well, but if I kissed him, I would kiss him back, and I wouldn't fight as hard as you said, I think it's incredible. It's also possible that you're under too much pressure at work.

Try to relax and think about what you want, do you want him to ignore you in the future? Do you do what you say? Is this what you want ?

Loving someone is a feeling.

There is a saying that pain comes from the evil in your heart. But this sentence may not be understood by many people.

In fact, everyone is a "tiger" and their own king, if your boyfriend has not violated the fundamental bottom line of "seeking skin with the tiger" (but looking at your narrative, your boyfriend seems to have touched your fundamental bottom line), don't divide it. "A thousand years of cultivation can sleep together"?

You've said a lot, it's too complicated. I haven't read all of them, there's no need to complicate the problem, when you are in doubt, you can tell you for sure that the best choice is when you break up.

I also like to hug my girlfriend in the middle of the night and kiss her occasionally, and my girlfriend likes it too.

I think your boyfriend probably likes that hug.

You have such a big contradiction, why don't you sleep in separate beds?

…After reading this, I felt that he really loved you. Nothing else was seen.