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There is no good or bad in the speed of emotional development, the key is that after this rapid growth area of feelings, whether everyone can understand each other, tolerate each other, and support each other, this kind of long-term relationship is more important for two people.
In fact, your current relationship is just on paper, and there is actually a gap between the Internet and reality. For me, I'd rather like you meeting up early to see if you feel the same way you normally chat. Of course, this is subject to the consent of the pair.
There are some things in the world that are very strange, and it doesn't matter how you talk about them on the Internet, but in reality, it's a different feeling. In fact, it is recommended that you meet in advance in the hope that you will understand each other and not let each other live in your own imagination. This kind of love will be more real.
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Feelings need to be cultivated, time needs to be invested, and your true feelings are needed but don't be too involved.
In order to understand each other, give in, help and so on in order to be more solid The important point is to be considerate! I don't know what kind of character she is. But if you talk to her every day, it may show that she is a girl who lives with her ideals, and that there is someone to spend time with her every day.
I hope you can work hard and live a happy life You need to have the necessary material things as a foundation! I'm just talking about the tip of the iceberg in life。!
I wish you all happiness and go further!
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Embarrassment, I've been talking for half a year, and it's fast? Emotional communication is an indispensable step in love, and I envy you for chatting about the hotter the month, you must know that my husband and I have nothing to talk about.
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Nor too fast, unless you're rich. If it's fast, you'll have to take care of everything, but your burden will be heavy. Think about it.
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Fast development means that you like each other, don't think too much if you have feelings, just follow your feelings.
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I'm the same as you, can I talk to you?
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When many couples are first together, when they are carried away by love, they will quickly enter the next stage, resulting in the rapid development of the relationship, but the development of a relationship too fast is not necessarily a good thing, and there are often many problems, so can a relationship develop too fast for a long time?
1. Insufficient trust.
It is a very dangerous thing for the relationship to develop too fast, and there will be a lot of uncontrollable things happening, because two people don't have enough time together, so they lack understanding of each other, and at this time, it is very likely that because of a little thing, it will affect each other's feelings.
If the relationship between two people develops too fast, there will be a lack of trust, even a little misunderstanding, it is likely to make two people break up, if you find that the development is too fast when you are in love, it is better to consciously slow down the pace.
2. The surrounding resistance is too large.
If the relationship develops too fast, it will be stopped by the parents, because the parents are from the past, and they actually know that it is not good for the relationship to develop too quickly, but there are still many people who feel that love is a matter of two people, as long as they are willing to be together, then there is no problem.
But they forget that in real life, love is also related to each other's friends and each other's parents.
If the relationship between two people is developing too fast, your friends around you will give advice and will say to you, "Don't you think you are developing too fast"? At this time, it's easy for you to get lost.
3. Sweetness disappears quickly.
People feel very sweet when they fall in love, but if the relationship progresses too quickly, it will consume the sweetness early, so the freshness of two people is easy to disappear, because you have done everything that has not yet reached the right time, in fact, it is very bad for the relationship, and the sweetness disappears quickly, which often leads to a breakup, so a relationship must not progress too fast.
4. It's not easy to cherish each other.
Only two people who have experienced wind and rain together can go further, otherwise the relationship is unstable, if your relationship develops too fast, it is easy for each other to feel that it is too easy to get you, so that after a long time, it is easy to cause each other not to cherish the phenomenon.
5. The speed of breaking up is fast.
Usually a relationship comes fast and goes fast, because the relationship between two people needs to be run-in, and the relationship without run-in often can't withstand the test of feelings, and sometimes a little contradiction may make two people give up completely, so if you want to make the relationship last, you have to develop at a normal speed, and if you are too anxious, you will break up faster.
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The relationship between two people is developing too fast, whether it is good or bad, it depends on the specific situation. It is better for some feelings to develop quickly, otherwise, there are still easy impulsives and situations.
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It's not good, love should be more rational. If it develops too quickly, it is easy to get carried away by emotions and make impulsive decisions.
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Some people think that whether the relationship lasts or not has nothing to do with how fast or slow it progresses. Generally speaking, girls like to be slower, and they don't feel like they suffer for a long time; Boys like to be faster and have the feeling of taking advantage, but the idea of losing and taking advantage is unhealthy. It is necessary to start from your own heart, "devote yourself to liking a person, and even lose yourself", and silently rub the relationship that is determined only by suffering from gains and losses, so that it will not last long.
If the relationship starts quickly, it means that you and she are attracted by the characteristics of the other party at a certain moment or the appearance and temperament of the other person, and hurriedly and unreservedly show their likes and loves.
And the period of emotional love.
Once passed, a series of problems such as contradictions and value gaps, personality gaps, and consumption concepts caused by insufficient understanding between the two sides will erupt in this period, and over time they will inevitably move towards separation.
At this time, you will say that some people just grow old from the beginning, and most of this situation is that two people run in with each other and slowly become suitable for each other, which is a compromise of themselves and feelings. And the other type is that he happened to be so lucky, and he happened to meet the most suitable one among thousands of people, everything is so perfectly matched, but how much is this luck.
We can only wander for half a lifetime, constantly searching to find a relationship that will last a lifetime.
We are all independent angular individuals, and it is because of these edges and corners that the world is so varied and interesting, we can keep our shape, or we can grind them away for the sake of those we love.
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It's okay to move too fast, but it's based on mutual understanding and trust.
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I think that the relationships that develop very quickly are basically not sincere early songs, because Shuangmin still knows very little, and it is likely that they are just hot-headed or want to treat feelings with the mentality of having fun.
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Personally, I think that sincerity has nothing to do with the speed of the development of the service change, some people are very slow to develop, and they do not pay sincerely, and some feelings develop very quickly, and they also pay sincerely.
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