It s hard to live in comparison all day, what to do

Updated on society 2024-02-09
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't live in an inferior life of blind comparison, which is too tiring and incomparable.

    In fact, I think the most suitable sentence for you right now is: contentment!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Have you watched "Three Fools in Bollywood"? I love the phrase in it: "Strive for excellence, not success."

    Strive for excellence, and success will inadvertently follow you." What about you? Pursuit of success or excellence?

    Classmates say that being ambitious is never a shameful thing, the key is how your ambition is reflected. I used to be an ambitious person who wanted to climb the ladder successfully, but I gave up halfway through. I gave up not because I was tired, but because I felt sad that one day I was going to be such a flattering and dog-like person.

    In the end, I didn't give up. But I became apathetic. I just want to do what I have to do well, do it well, get appreciated or promoted, it's good.

    If I can't, either I can bear it, then continue to do it, and if I can't work hard, then leave. When I left, I was still confident, because my work was never ambiguous.

    There's nothing wrong with pursuing success, but in the process, are you right to the person or the right thing? To people, you will compare, you will be in a hurry to express yourself and do not want to lose to others. Yes, you will do things well, be a responsible person, and strive to be worthy of yourself at all times.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think in fact, your understanding of success doesn't seem to be very good, if you are a person who works hard from scratch, there will always be someone better than you, because some people have a different starting point, and if you always compare with others, it will make you lose the simplicity of your initial pursuit of success, become complicated, and you will not have so much enthusiasm for hard work. In fact, you can think about your former self, every once in a while, compare your current self with your previous self to see if there is any progress, if you have improved, it means that you are one step closer to success.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    As long as you do your best, you can work hard, you don't need to blindly compare what it looks like, too tired and burdened to learn badly, can you still do a good thing when you have pressure in your heart?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    dwarfed, the pros and cons are hard to determine! There is a mountain outside the mountain, and the building is outside the building. The reason is understood, and the comparison seems meaningless.

    But to be honest, being good at comparison is also a benefit, in the comparison can grow yourself, of course, better than others do not be proud, always have a shameless attitude to ask, then you win.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This is normal and that while setting a goal, the subconscious mind is also accepting the goal that has been set. But as soon as you start to stop working towards the goal, the subconscious mind will delete the goal. So you have to discover the life and joy after achieving your goals.

    Instead of comparing it with those who are too far away. If you want to find fun, you're not far from your goal.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You first have to understand why you want to be successful. Is it just to compare with others? Get your own mentality right, don't care about others, do your best to do your best, just pursue what you want There are many great people in the world, you can't be the first, so why are you so tired of living, isn't it for yourself to succeed.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm guessing you're just lonely and need a warm and stress-free love, family or friendship. Meaningless effort, no matter how strong you become and nothing you want to protect, most of it is vanity, and it's no wonder if you're not tired. Something under the wealth is urgently needed, if I am right, reward it haha.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, you are a problem in your heart, always thinking about surpassing others, but you have never thought about surpassing yourself, relax yourself, and make appropriate adjustments.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You're in a constant state of tension, and you have to try to regulate yourself, to relax and see.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You're too persistent......Try to entertain while working.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    We must learn to relax ourselves, combine work and rest, and take appropriate rest.

    Don't let yourself get tired! Relax yourself at the right time, find catharsis, and relieve stress in the tired mind.

    The reason why people are troubled is that they have a good memory. What should be remembered and what should not be remembered will remain in the memory. And we often remember the things that we should forget, and we forget the things that we should remember.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think we should face this problem positively, don't forget to look back at the way we came, and don't just look down and look into the distance. Find the reason for your tiredness to change it and make your life easier.

    Especially after people reach middle age, they are faced with the old and the young and worry about work or career, which is really hard, and as people often say, the world of adults is not easy. But looking back, these hardships are all very valuable, and they are all worth working hard and striving for for yourself and your loved ones to live a better life.

    In addition, we are tired more of the inner pressure and troubles, in this case, more need a strong heart to support, so that they become positive, those who do not belong to themselves do not force, those who can work hard do not give up. After real efforts, the mentality will naturally become peaceful, and the whole person will be relaxed.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Learn to relax and live a little more relaxed.

    In fact, the pressure on people is very great now, and every day is very hard and tiring, but we must have the motivation to overcome the hardships bravely, and slowly life will get better and better.

    When I first arrived at the workplace, I was not familiar with anything, I was just an intern at that time, it can be said that it was very hard and difficult, whether from the business aspect or interpersonal relationships, it was necessary to integrate well, this process was very hard, after more than a year of my hard work in the unit to have a place, the performance improved, and the employees here also mingled, slowly the days will get better and better, not so hard.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is nothing in the adult world that is not hard. Everyone is tired and lives a job that requires motivation to persevere every day, which may be the kind of life we wanted to live when we were children. Eat the family's food, wash the family's dishes, and worry about the family.

    Life treats everyone the same, and it takes our patience and endurance to persevere. When you really can't hold on, you can stop, wait, and after this period of time, you will find that we will really change.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It may be that what you want to do is not what you like, so you will feel very tired every day, unable to find motivation and interest, the most important thing is that you must pay attention to what you do, your interest and happiness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you have a hard day, the best way is to give up something, something. A person has a hard time, it is nothing more than pursuing too much, if you pursue too much, it is easiest to make yourself feel tired. So, let yourself relax and let go of something.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's hard every day, but it's also hard work for your future. Stick to it, it's not easy for everyone. Sometimes when you're idle, you feel a little useless. People who work hard are also lucky.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    "Heaven will be entrusted to private individuals, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, and starve their bodies and skin. "Don't be afraid of hard work, hard work now is the foundation of happiness in the future. If you really can't endure the hard work, you might as well think about why you are working so hard, grasp your motivation to move forward, and then give yourself a proper solution to release the pressure in your heart.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Life is inherently bitter, depending on how you deal with it, only people who are content and happy will enjoy happiness every day.

    Don't waste your time, you can be full of wisdom by reading books. In this way, you won't feel particularly tired when doing things, and you won't make yourself very hard.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Adjust the mentality, I didn't feel so hard when I didn't have money before, but now I'm pregnant, and I suddenly feel that time is very slow, although I don't work every day, but it's still very hard, just like the current weather, it's hot, the whole person is out of breath, and I have to take oxygen every day, I really hope that the baby is as strong as me, and I look forward to seeing us!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Life does bring me too much pressure, and it also makes many people live a very hard life, so we must know how to combine work and rest, and relax ourselves appropriately, so that we can spend every day in a happy life!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I finally have time to calm down and think about asking questions, this year has passed, and the real life is too difficult and too hard. I'm a cow who has been raising cows for 26 years, and a few years ago, I opened a fresh milk bar as soon as my brain was hot. At that time, my mind was full of how to make yogurt taste the best, how to make cheese more in line with everyone's taste?

    How can I process the fresh milk produced on my farm into various dairy products through my own fresh milk bar, and then sell them all?

    Everything comes from practice and goes to practice. A practice you will find that you may have this and that problem in Yinzhou, for a time full of problems, at that time I felt like a full clockwork machine, I couldn't stop if I wanted to, every day I did it for more than ten hours, many times we are constantly finding problems, constantly solving problems, forcing ourselves to grow and progress every day,.

    I used to have a head full of cows, and then my head was full of milk. Together, it's milk! Maybe the milk industry is what I have been fighting for all my life, and I can't do without cows and milk for the rest of my life.

    Now I live a stressful and fulfilling life, but I am too tired and hard every day. I remember a few years ago, an old man who came to my store to buy yogurt suddenly asked me: Wang Dajian, let me ask you, you have enough to eat and spend now, why do you have to work so hard every day?

    At that time, I didn't know why he, too, why did I have to work so hard when I had enough food and flowers, and I had to live my life so hard? Every day is so tense and almost overwhelmed from morning to night. Why?

    Today I figured out why I live so hard every day. Everyone has their own part of life, or wonderful or dull or inactive, anyway, as long as you do what you like, do meaningful things, what does it matter if you work hard and tired?

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