Is there really a past life? Is a past life marriage real?

Calmly think about the reasons why you can't impress the other party, try hard, and if you can't get your wish, it's better to go with the flow. There is always happiness of your own.

Don't believe in fate! This is a negative outlook on life, which is completely inconsistent with the truth. The destiny of life is in your own hands.

People can improve their personal moral cultivation by correcting their own shortcomings and mistakes, treating everyone sincerely, helping others, and achieving themselves. Thus changing fate!

Love is managed by wisdom, and true feelings can always move people. This reminds me of the Western wedding ceremony, where the priest asks both parties whether they can never leave each other under conditions such as illness and poverty, but in fact, the true love is the essence of love. If you always weigh your gains and losses, it's a deal.

Take a look at "The Four Disciplines of Lifan", which is the four family mottos written by Yuan Lifan to his son, telling about his own process of changing his fate (available on the Internet). You will know the true meaning of "life is self-reliant, happiness is self-seeking". Believe that fate is better than life! It will be very happy to be a wise man.

I wish the landlord all the best!

The girl you love can't be in love with every boy, so it's possible that she hasn't been in love with you.

There is a cause in the front and a fate in the back, and the woman on the left is called marriage, and there is no fate to cultivate for another five hundred years.

This can only be regarded as wishful thinking, and it has nothing to do with the previous life!

Persuade the gentleman not to be fascinated by love, only those who are above love can get their true love.

2:23 And the man said, This is the bone of my bones and the flesh of my flesh, and I may call her a woman, because she was taken out of a man. ”

2:24 Therefore a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.

Is this the case for couples to understand?

If there is a cause, you can read the Jizo King Bodhisattva Survey Sutra.

There really is a past life marriage in the world.

When the two meet for the first time, they will have a feeling of brightness, and they are not surprised by each other's appearance, but shocked by this sense of déjà vu. Although the first time we met, it felt like we had known each other for a long time, and this feeling was confident and unspeakable, and I couldn't describe it in words, I always felt that I had seen it somewhere, but I couldn't remember where I had seen it.

This feeling of déjà vu is the fate that has been destined in the previous life, and the reason why there is this feeling of déjà vu is because the love in the previous life is too profound, which leads to a sense of time and space confusion when we meet for the first time in this life.

It is said that fate is cultivated in the previous life and destined for life, which is not unreasonable.

Although we can't see the past life, we can see this kind of destined thing from the fate of the two of you, so as to judge whether the marriage between the two of you is suitable, whether you live together happily for a long time, etc.

The relationship between friends is magical, they may become friends because of similar interests, or they may become friends because of the distribution of external environment, such as being assigned to the same dormitory and the same position.

Becoming friends because of similar interests, after all, is your own subjective choice, and the closer the connection between each other, it is easier to be suitable friends.

Love sometimes comes with a bang, giving yourself the illusion that it will go on forever. But in the daily details, it has actually been fed back that you are not suitable.

They come from different environments and have different habits. Unlike friends who are only in contact for a short time, lovers have been together for a long time, their respective preferences, life expectations, and future plans, if there are differences, two people need to run in together and regret it.

There are some things that are not suitable for us in the first place, and forcibly holding them is a burden to ourselves and affecting our own lives.

Life is limited, energy is limited, friends who are not suitable, lovers who are not suitable, and things that are not suitable, let go early.

Only by embracing the right will you reduce your internal friction, make your efforts meaningful, and gain something.

It is true that wide things have past lives, in fact, there are past lives and even more. It's just that you can't see it. Because there is no guidance from Buddhism, every life is "you and I today are still repeating yesterday's story", so Buddhism calls it "reincarnation".

However, many people do not believe in reincarnation, and that is because they do not see the complete trajectory of life. But just because you can't see it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

Let me give an analogy, we can have a rough understanding of the cycle of life: take the process of caterpillars, chrysalis and butterflies, anyone knows that a caterpillar turns into a chrysalis, and then breaks out of the cocoon and turns into a butterfly, in fact, it is the same life that is changing its life form, but please note that if you say that when you chat between the chrysalis and the chrysalis, you don't believe that you are a caterpillar who changes when you kill it, because although this life has not changed, the caterpillar's memory is cut off (it is not lost, but it exists in its subconscious, It can't be found anymore), so as far as this little life is concerned, the caterpillar is the past life, the chrysalis is the present life, and the butterfly is the next life.

Of course, they don't believe that they were caterpillars in their past lives, and they don't believe that they will become beautiful butterflies in their next lives, because from their point of view, the memories of each life have ended, but as people who are a level above them, they are clear and visible, and this is the mystery of the "segmented birth and death" of all things in the world discovered by Buddhism: life is always continuing. Every life is the same life in reincarnation, but the person concerned doesn't understand or believe it.

Therefore, there is such a saying as "cause and effect in three lifetimes", that is, "past life, present life, and future life", which in modern terms is "past, present, and future". If this caterpillar understands the cause and effect of the third life, it will definitely eat the leaves desperately and try to avoid natural enemies, so that if it becomes a pupae, it will naturally be fatter than other pupae, so once it breaks the cocoon and turns into a butterfly, it will naturally be bigger, stronger and fly farther than other butterflies. If you want to know the consequences of the next life, the doer in this life is" to describe this process, which is very apt to serve Qiaosheng. In the same way, if there are old creatures that are more advanced than us humans, they can easily see our past and present lives and future lives (but we can't see or believe it, the principle is the same as that of chrysalis).

The cycle of life is not visible to everyone, because our ordinary people's body and mind are limited to the three-dimensional space in which we live, and Buddhism can see the six reincarnations, precisely because the practitioners of Buddhism pass through the three-dimensional space of our ordinary people, but the cycle of life does not have to be seen by religious people, nor is it the exclusive belief of Buddhism.