I feel weak, but what is it like to be humble?

Sometimes it's polite, and sometimes it's a testament to your child's good. Be humble and say: It's not that good, it's just a little better now.

When others praise me as a child, sometimes I will say: yes, envy. The joking giggle is gone.

Don't bother with that. Children, there are good times and bad times. When it's good, praise and express your love.

When it's bad, stop criticizing. The rewards and punishments are clear, and the child will not be bad.

When I encounter this kind of life in life, I politely say "****, it's far worse", it's too modest and contrived, but a tsundere demeanor that belongs to me may sting the other party. Some distances between people are the best, the attitude is neither humble nor arrogant, and the golden mean is feasible.

Never take other people's compliments seriously, but when they compliment you, praise others from another angle. This is a polite thank you. For example, you've lost a lot of weight lately, and if it were me at this time, I'd say, "Oh, it's just a thin black dress."

Alas, your dress is so beautiful, it really suits you. Where to buy it, you have to pay a few thousand dollars.

I once met a little girl who was very good-looking, and her eyelashes were so long that she could bend her upper eyelids. It seems that it is the kind of smart and clever child, this kind of intelligence is not like some children will jump out and deliberately express themselves and seek affirmation, but you will feel that the child has this intelligence in his bones. When I first met her, I couldn't help but say:

Wow, baby, your eyelashes are so long! ”

Her mother was beside her, looking at her with a silent smile, and then said, "Baby, what are you supposed to say?" The little girl looked at me and said very kindly

Thank you Auntie. After a while, when they said something, I was amazed by the little girl's brain, and praised her again: "Baby, you are really capable of thinking like this!"

The little girl looked at me confidently again and said, "Thank you, Auntie." ”

I'm still very ashamed to be praised by others, maybe it's the relationship of experience, and I can't spy on people's hearts, I don't know if the other party is sincere or malicious, so the most choice will be an embarrassed blushing smile, and then slip away when no one is paying attention. It's very rude. Not recommended as a reference.

To be honest, it's usually hard for me to be complimented, but I do occasionally encounter it, and my personality is different in front of people and after people. Occasionally, when they compliment me, I blush and smile and say, "Thank you, but I'm not there yet."

A classmate participated in the competition and won the national award, and others praised him for being smart, he said, "No, no, I did it for more than a month, and the calculation was changed dozens of times" may not be able to describe his tone at that time, that is, firstly, he showed that his IQ was not higher than others, and secondly, he expressed that he could bear hardships and stand hard work.

Mainly a lot of praise for her good looks, cute, kindergarten teachers call her cute, classmates' parents also said that she can become an Internet celebrity if she is posted on the Internet, so I am a little worried that the child will not listen too much to this kind of praise for her appearance is not very good, I don't know why I always feel embarrassed to hear this, think back and review myself, is it my own problem? What should I do when others praise my child for being cute and beautiful in the future? I'm a little dazed.

It may be that some people are really humble in their daily lives, and they themselves have a deep understanding, and they can understand their own restraint, so they feel that they are more humble, and that is normal.

There are also some people who usually do things in a very high-profile manner, but in order to show off and be embarrassed, he will swear that he is very modest while being high-profile. This kind of person, I guess he just says that, and he is still very proud in his heart.

As for me, with the two situations being different, I think I am humble, that is really humble. Because I can't even be high-profile if I want to. Therefore, while I think I am humble, I feel quite depressed.

It's that I feel very good inside, but in fact, it makes people feel very boring.

For example, there is a colleague in our unit who has this mentality, feeling that he is very modest, and he uses honorifics when talking to people, but others listen to it very falsely.

The tone and tone of the speech make people listen to it very awkwardly, and I think such a person feels particularly hypocritical, unauthentic, and particularly annoying.

I am also a person who thinks I am humble, and sometimes being humble puts me in an awkward position.

Being modest in front of some people who don't know their temperament is often ignored by the other party, and I feel very aggrieved. Especially in front of the Lord who does not know himself and is competitive, he often regrets his modesty, after all, sometimes just out of courtesy, the other party takes what does not belong to them as a matter of course.

Therefore, I think that humility should be moderate, knowing that you should be humble in front of some people, and you should be confident enough in front of others, not humble or arrogant.

I think that modesty is an affirmation of my own morality, and now in this impetuous society, there are few humble people. Being humble will make you feel confident when dealing with people and things, and you will also make the people around you feel very comfortable.

This feeling is not bad, but it is not so high-profile, when others praise you, you will be very humble and say to him, oops, no, I will continue to work hard next time. And your humble qualities look good to others too.

I feel good about myself, I think I'm good, and I feel a little inflated mentally. Sometimes modesty is necessary, so that you can gain the approval of others, you can win the favor of others, and when others praise you, you have to quickly deny yourself, in this way, others will think that you are deliberately pretending, but in fact, you have no meaning, just want to be humble.

I think it's a more cautious feeling, because you're afraid that others will think you're proud and ignore you, so you disguise yourself as a more modest person, you can win others' favor with you, and when others praise you, you have to quickly deny yourself, in this way, others will think that you are deliberately pretending, but in fact, you don't mean anything, you just want to be humble.

You will feel good about yourself, think you are good, and you will have a small sense of psychological expansion. Sometimes humility is necessary in order to gain the approval of others. But if you are not really modest, if you think you are modest, it will easily cause disgust from others and easily cause some trouble in getting along.

I sometimes feel that I am quite humble, that I am not so high-profile, that I am not so brilliant, and I just want to listen quietly to some opinions and suggestions of others. Sometimes when I think I am humble, I will have a sense of steadfastness and think that I am so sensible. Think you're humble enough and should be loved by more people.

I'm the kind of person who thinks I'm modest, I usually do everything very low-key, I don't like to show off myself, I don't want others to do what I should do, I always think that this is what I should do, there is no need for others to say, this is also my responsibility!