What is it like for parents to scold their daughters for not being able to earn money?

Your parents are not satisfied with your job and want you to change jobs, but your parents don't think it's easy to say it directly, so they use this method to force you to change to a more decent job for them. For example, if you have a brother, your parents want you to give more money to the family every month so that you can subsidize the family or support your brother. No matter which of the above situations, you must communicate well with your parents, tell your parents your actual situation and ideas, don't quarrel with your parents, and you can't hate your parents because of this, if you really can't get your parents' understanding, and can't stand your parents' nagging, then you can live in a unit, or share a room with other people, and move out to live temporarily, but you have to always care about your parents and go home regularly to visit your parents, I want to deal with it like this, In time, your parents will understand you, and this problem will be solved.

I haven't had this kind of experience, but I know that when I am denied, I am depressed and sad, and since I can't make money, I will work hard to earn money. Making money is also a process, not everyone is born a prince and princess, a rich second generation, starting from what they can, and then expanding themselves to make more money. Generally, family members say that they make less money, so they should be mostly ridiculed.

My family only asked me to take care of myself, and I didn't ask for subsidies to my family, so I saved money while making money, and usually bought something to send home.

I think that the amount of money earned is a relative problem, each person is engaged in different jobs, everyone's ability, physical condition is different, of course the salary is different, as long as you do your best, take the work seriously and responsibly, be worthy of the salary you get, do have a clear conscience, and be relieved, as for your parents are not satisfied with the salary you get. The expectations for you are too high and somewhat unrealistic, which is because your parents have a misunderstanding of your work ability.

Parents were the two umbrellas of our childhood, and no matter how stormy it was, they supported their children. However, when we grow up, we suddenly find that our blood is thicker than water and our family relationship has become a stranger. The root cause is the failure of education, and there is no way that this failed education model is not taken seriously.

Education itself is a guide that stimulates the creativity of the individual. When you enter the society, you have to understand that you are in infancy, you must rely on time to grow, and the first step is still on yourself. Whether you used your parents' hard-earned money to invest your first pot of gold, even if you made the first step you took, is wrong.

You must rely on your own strength and experience to learn this first step, not rely on all the help from outside, everything on your own, to earn the first pot of gold in life.

I was a girl, and my family was more patriarchal, so I was forced to give up the opportunity to study for my brother when I was in middle school. I worked in the factory for four years until my brother graduated from college, because of the long-term factory fatigue left a lot of diseases, the physical deterioration and insomnia, so I resigned, came out to look for a job only to find that it was difficult to find a job without education and skills, let alone find a job with a high salary, I was always unemployed, and I have not saved any money, but every year during the Spring Festival, I will give the family a few thousand yuan, my brother will get married after graduating from college and working for more than a year, and I will also give him thousands of yuan to get married.

As a college student, my mother once ridiculed me that 20-year-old people have not paid anything for the family, I feel very sad, in fact, I want to work hard to do something for them, but limited to time and place, a college student can do too little, but I still understand my parents very well, I am still looking for a variety of directions, believe in yourself more, don't put too much pressure on yourself.

I'm 27 years old, I don't have a boyfriend, I don't have a career, and my future is uncertain. In the past few days, my mother always calls ** and says that whose daughter only graduated from middle school, and people give their parents 20,000 yuan a year, saying that I always can't make money and doesn't give them money. I also blamed myself for why I was so useless, hated my uncompetitive body, and always had insomnia.

Everyone else can earn money for their parents, but I can't give anything. How much do you give your parents each year after you work?

Through the cases of parents, children can experience the role of learning and the meaning of hardship. 2.I'm sorry I gave birth to you, but time is irreversible.

I'm really sorry that such incompetent parents gave birth to you, it is your misfortune to be reincarnated into this family, but can it be changed? What if you can't change it? Do you want to replicate the life of your parents?

In fact, many children think that their families are poor because they are comparing themselves with others, comparing what you eat, comparing what you wear, and what kind of shoes you wear all the time. Those who have money may wear famous brands, and those who do not have money can only wear street stalls. It may be very difficult to get over the face.

How old is your daughter? If you are still a child, it is best to communicate with her more, educate her as soon as possible, don't dislike your parents, no parents without her. If you think your family is poor, you should work harder to change your current life.

You said that you don't want to enter this house tomorrow, don't pay attention to her **, it'll be fine in a few days, and I have a deep understanding.

3. In fact, for us, it is also in line with the social reality that parents are rich and their daughters are poor, but they must be based on a choice based on sufficient economic foundation. In fact, for us, it is understandable for parents to choose the nature of poor children and rich daughters, and there is no social reality, but it must be built on a sufficient material basis, if the son's living expenses are too small, it will limit the quality of life of the son, and because of various problems, it will even lead the son to go astray, so because of this, we should learn to balance the son's mentality and appropriately increase the cost of living.

In fact, for us to analyze the specific problem, under normal circumstances, parents give their daughters 5000 per month, this level of pocket money has exceeded the financial support capacity of most people, because it is indeed more, and on the basis of the theory of rich daughters and poor children, we should learn to take care of the psychological balance of our sons.

Personally, I don't think it's much, this money is completely my own, and I can completely dispose of it by myself, and there is no need to consider my son's feelings at all.

I don't think much. If you live in a first-tier city, the living expenses of 5,000 per month are still relatively tight, except for rent, water and electricity bills, and living expenses, there is not much left.

Personally, I think it's a lot, and I give 5,000 yuan a month, which is equivalent to a person's salary in our place, which is really a bit inappropriate.

I think it's a lot, and you shouldn't take so much money, but you should rely on your own efforts to support yourself.

I think it's a lot. The cost of 5,000 yuan a month can be quite good in both big and small cities.

I don't think it's much, it's a normal **, if my son makes such a big noise, it's not necessary.

I think 5,000 is a lot, and the average college student's living expenses are two or three thousand per month, and there are very few 5,000.

I think it's a lot, because if the cost of living is 5,000, it is unacceptable in an ordinary family.

I think giving 5,000 yuan is indeed a bit much, because so much money is enough for a family of three to live a very stable life, which is indeed a bit inappropriate.