When is recovery most effective after a breakup?

When is the best time to recover after a breakup?

Do you know how to manage love?

If I'm not mistaken, you have been living in a daze before, and in addition to the deep-rooted behavior patterns from the original family, even the superficial concept of love is also affected by the Internet. Therefore, the reason why your love can survive until the breakup probably depends on these elements: hormones, relationship constraints, future fantasies, physical needs, and psychological needs.

And you don't have a healthy system.

Why do people with happy original families have a great advantage in marriage, because for the management ability of marriage, these people have inherited these excellent abilities early on, just like the rich second generation. And people who are unhappy in their original families are like following the wrong teacher since they were children, doing the wrong things, and when they grow up, they face the exam directly, and the results are often not good.

Therefore, if you want to truly redeem this person, instead of simply being possessive or fearful, then you should study what love is, read more psychology books, figure out what love is, and ask a psychological counselor to help you solve the trauma formed in your childhood. To put it mildly, you have taken care of yourself from the original barren grassland into a peach orchard. At this time, if you look back, do you think she will be unwilling?

In fact, recovery is never a link of relationships, but a growth that we have personally completed, if you can grasp this core, the so-called recovery is easy.

What the? You said that by the time you get better, she will already be in love, and if you still have this worry and question, please go back and read the first article again. You can even accept that the other party is ugly, so can't you accept the other party to have two relationships?

In the end, I said a word from my heart: love is the training ground for your actual combat, and a mistake should not be repeated in a flashback, but to improve your strength and avoid being cool in the next actual battle.

Do you wish you were thirty or forty years old and married for many years, but you were turned into a grassland by the other party, but you still have to swallow your anger and live a lifetime?

I'm sorry, but a lot of men in their thirties and forties who don't know how to manage love are going through these problems, and that's what marriage counseling is dealing with.

So, young man, look at your current troubles from your current perspective, and you yourself will know how lucky you are and how hard you have to work!

I am the south of the south wall, a south who has hit the south wall a hundred and eighty times in love, the best thing about life for us is to let us see the reality, but also to find the beauty of life. Follow me to show you the reality of love and have the ability to love!

1. 3 days after the breakup.

In fact, many people say that breaking up is just to get the attention and care of the other party, and the best characteristic of this kind of person is that they are insecure.

From time to time, I will ask if I love, whether I care, etc., this kind of person says that the breakup is a fake breakup, and I actually want to come back for a long time, but I need a step. Wait for 3 days, buy a salvatory gift, and send it to her to say the words of redemption. It will definitely work.

2. One week

A week is between really conflicting couples. It's not easy to break up, this week will be completely disconnected, no contact and no attention, and it will take time to precipitate inside. So this week can only change my appearance and image.

After a week. The mood has been basically stabilized, at this time it is appearing, so that the other party will be surprised to see your change, and it will be moved to learn that your change is for the other party, at this time, say some confessional words, and break up and save without fear of unsuccess.

Some people, when they are in love, have been thinking about the scene of the breakup, and he has prepared what he should say and how to do it when he breaks up. Therefore, he doesn't love deeply enough, and he has been testing whether this love is reliable.

My cousin Ah Zhen.

When I was working in Guangdong, I met a Hubei man, and the last time I celebrated the New Year, the two of them went to Ah Zhen's house together for the New Year.

Ah Zhen's parents whispered to Ah Zhen, "This man can't stand it, and his attitude towards you is not enthusiastic at all, but a little cold." "My parents are both from the past, and I look at people very accurately, but Ah Zhen doesn't believe it, thinking that they can love each other for a lifetime.

When Ah Zhen's parents talked to the man, the man always flickered and inquired about the local bride price.

In the case of how much, the implication is that you don't want to give a bride price. In May this year, I often heard the news that Ah Zhen and her boyfriend quarreled, and they broke up in August.

Falling in love is always caught off guard, and breaking up is always prepared. A person who can prepare for a breakup, when he breaks up, there is no sadness on his face at all, and even he feels that the breakup is a relief, and he will not be nostalgic at all. A person who has no intention of love at all, after breaking up, will generally choose to "never see each other again, do not disturb each other".

10 to 20 days after the breakup.

In fact, girls are generally soft-hearted, maybe she is very resolute and angry when she breaks up, and generally she will calm down after ten to twenty days of breakup, and at this time you go to redeem it, the effect will be better; Because when your girlfriend breaks up with you, the anger in her heart, under normal circumstances, within ten days, she will let go and will not care; So when she lets go of her unhappy things, you go back to her heart, and she will naturally be with you; Because she will understand that everything that happens to you is not a big deal. Some little things, separated from you, will feel that it is not worth it in her heart; So 10 days, 20 days, you try to get her back, is the best time.

In fact, many people say that breaking up is just to get the attention and concern of the other party, and the best characteristic of this kind of person is that they are insecure.

From time to time, I will ask if I love, whether I care, etc., this kind of person says that the breakup is a fake breakup, and in my heart I actually want to come back for a long time, but I just need a step.

Wait 3 days, buy a good gift, and send it to her. It will definitely work.

There are no rules for this, it depends on your fate with the next one, maybe soon, maybe very slow, you haven't walked out of the previous relationship, the degree of injury in the last relationship, you may not believe in love, but if you are your cheerful person it will be much better, if you meet a suitable person to talk to, then you can try to date, maybe that person is the person you are waiting for, then don't miss the fate, cherish it! Only divide quickly, there is no sadness, only love.

A short breakup can be redeemed within a week, and if it is certain that they will not be together again, there is no need to go back to the breakup.

It is more appropriate to redeem within a week after the breakup, because at this time the relationship between the two parties is still relatively hot, and they have not been completely disappointed in you.

I think it still depends on the individual, it depends on how your relationship is, if your relationship is very deep, plus you still have each other in your heart. It is the best time to get back to each other about half a year after the breakup, after all, you both have each other in your hearts and can't let go of each other, so I believe you will get back together with each other.

Generally speaking, it is more appropriate to recover as soon as possible after the breakup, then it may be to redeem within a week or a month after the breakup, which is more effective, first of all, both parties still have a certain performance, then secondly, that is, there is also a reversal here, this precipitation period, so there is a certain amount of reflection and change, which will be better.

10 20 days after the breakup, this is undoubtedly the best time to talk about getting back together. Because, after more than ten days of cooling, each other has been able to calm down and look at this relationship rationally, and the time to separate at this time is very short, and each other's enthusiasm will not fade immediately, if each other is interested, there is a great possibility of successful reunion.

At this time of breakup, it is best to recover it in about two or three weeks of breakup, and within this time, the other party still misses you this way, or the other party has not completely forgotten you, so it is best to redeem at this time.

I feel that it will be better to recover within 1 to 2 weeks, but if it takes a long time, the other party will think if you really don't care about the other party? I haven't been looking for him for so long.

I think that the time to recover after the breakup should be the time within three days after the breakup of the two people, because this time is the most appropriate, and to redeem it at this time, so that the other party can know your intentions, so that the two of you can be together.

Hello dear, as long as you find out that you love each other after a breakup, you can get it back no matter how long it takes. As long as you love, it's never too late, I'm afraid that you won't love anymore.

It is better to keep it within a week after the breakup, and at this time, the other party may also recall the things you have done to her at all times, which are more touching.

It is a relatively calm time for two people to be calm for about a week after the breakup, and if one party feels regretful at this time, it is most appropriate to propose redemption. During this time, each will think of each other's goodness.

After breaking up, as long as you still like each other, then you can redeem it at any time, but if the other party doesn't like it, then no matter what time period you choose, you can't get back a person who doesn't like you.

After the breakup calms the other party, it should be redeemed, not how long the other party will break up, after all, there are more variables after a long time, and maybe the other party will have a new person after a long time.

After the breakup, as long as both parties calm down and think clearly about what the emotional attitude of both parties should be, they can decide the future direction of the relationship and decide whether to redeem it.

The longer the time drags on, the weaker the previous relationship between the two people will be, which is not conducive to saving this relationship.

Just a week after the breakup.

People who just broke up and made trouble to get back together are almost zero to recover. At this time, neither side has yet extricated itself from the previous contradictions, nor has it completely calmed down. At this time, to redeem is an act of pushing the other party farther and farther away.

The other party will only think that you are unreasonable and vexatious, and will not look back at all.

But a week after the breakup, both of them were already in a calm time. This is also the time when the longing for each other is the greatest and most vigorous, and when the life of two people becomes one person in an instant, no one will get used to it. Therefore, at this time, it is more successful to try to redeem than to say that it is redeemed just after breaking up.

Stick to the determination to move forward.

The most taboo thing in emotional recovery is hesitation, and a considerable number of the clients I have contacted have always wavered in solving emotional recovery problems, and just want to try it, this attitude is obviously wrong

Whether it is a relationship or life and work, if you can't have the determination to deal with it with all your might, the result is often not very rewarding, and if you want to save your love and save your marriage, if you want to solve it, you must have perseverance and determination to move forward.

Individual circumstances are different. Break up and save the best time.

1. 3 days after the breakup In fact, many people say that the breakup is just to get the attention and care of the other party, and the best characteristic of this kind of person is that they are insecure.

This mainly depends on the difference in the way of thinking between men and women, men are born with a desire to control the things around them, and they don't like others to refute the things they have decided.

So don't make amends within three days after he finishes breaking up, except for small fights, you have to coax when you should coax, regardless of men and women.

Answer: Hello, are you a boy or a girl? If a boy wants to get his ex-girlfriend back, he must go to it right away. If you are a girl, you have to wait a month or two to get your ex-boyfriend back, and when he has had enough, he will start to think about all the good things about his ex-girlfriend.

Ask the boys. It's been almost a month since I broke up with my girlfriend.

Because she told me before that she would go home in the next two days, and I worked in the same department as her, so I went to her post just now to see her, and asked her when she would return, and she replied tomorrow, and then said let me leave her post, and I left, please ask me if what I did was right or wrong.

Did you break up just because of this incident?

Before the question was asked, it was a breakup, and I was talking about going to see her just now.

Before we broke up, I used to go to her post a lot, but she wouldn't tell me to leave right away.

You can try to talk to him again, give her a small gift, and chase her again as you did in the first place.

Whether or not to redeem after a breakup is actually not so reasonable.

Whether it can be recovered after a breakup mainly depends on the attitude.

About 3 months.

1. 7-15 days after the breakup is still in an emotional outburst period, at this time, two people are often in a state of passive aggression and caution, and it is difficult to really establish a connection.

30 days is the period when the other party begins to miss you, at this time your appearance can refresh the other party's cognition, but the other party will avoid rejection in a hurry to make peace.

60 days is a process of habit formation, which continues to pave a comfortable emotional environment for the other party, so that the other party can adapt to and enjoy the rhythm of chatting with you.

90 days is a critical period for reuniting, because at this time, the other party's emotional concentration on you is relatively low and the degree of nostalgia is relatively high, so it is most conducive to reuniting.

The performance that the boy can't let go of after a breakup.

1. You are not allowed to have an affair with other men.

After a lover breaks up, the woman often needs to find a new sustenance, and that sustenance is often a little warmth in the so-called ambiguity. At this time, I believe that even if the man proposes to break up, he is still interfering with whether the woman will have an affair with another man.

2. Look at it often**.

When a boy can't let go of you, he will look at the previous ** from time to time to solve the pain of lovesickness. He can't help but ask his friends about the girl. Seeing the dynamics of the girl, although I no longer bother, I also want to know if she is doing well, and I am still worried that the girl will not take care of herself, but she pretends not to care in her daily life.

3. Appear in front of you often.

If a man breaks up with you, he will often appear in front of you. That actually proves that this man didn't let go of you, you broke up with him, and it was only one-sided, he couldn't understand why you left him, and you didn't explain the reason to him, so you blocked his ** and cut off contact with him, which made the man feel ridiculous.