The guy I like is too persistent and only likes his ex girlfriend.

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Attachment or attachment is just a "small emotion", maybe the ex-girlfriend first said that he broke up, so he felt unwilling, or maybe the ex-girlfriend was a better girl in his eyes, and when he didn't meet a better girl, he only tended to be an ex You don't have to think he's cool or try to find a topic to talk to him If it's a little boy, you can start talking about his interests and hobbies, play with him and do things that he will be happy about, if it's a big boy, you can find a topic of work and life to talk about I believe that he can slowly feel that you sincerely want to be friends with him or a lover.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you like your ex-girlfriend, why let it go in the first place. This kind of person is boring. This kind of man is not worthy of your liking.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Even if he likes his ex-girlfriend, then you talk to him about his ex-girlfriend, and then slowly get to know him, and finally let him only like you.

    But if he's hopelessly persistent, then you have to learn to give up for your own happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You are unrequited love, there will be no result.

    If you are still very persistent, then slowly influence him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't be too tired, just put it when you need to....

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A boy who plays cool must have some psychological or spiritual sustenance! Not confident, not focused! It's the hope that others won't be able to discover his artificiality and show his external form!

    Give others a sense of staying away! Being too attached is sometimes a virtue, like how do you transfer that attachment to yourself? It's another university question!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    So why would you give up an entire forest for the sake of a tree?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Find a chat with him on a topic he likes, and keep an eye on the changes around him!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you're like this, I don't think any amount of hard work will come to fruition.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This should not be possible. If he still likes his ex, he won't fall in love with another girl, and if he loves two girls at the same time, it means that this guy is not emotionally single-minded. If that's the case, as a girl, it's better to stay away from this kind of boy and avoid being hurt.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No. Because after a relationship ends, new feelings will emerge.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The hypothesis also scores that person, what is his psychology? If he feels that his ex knows that durian lets him go, he still has a liking, after all, it is the ex. If there is information to ask someone now, and I fall in love with someone first, then if he still has feelings for his ex, it is already in the past.

    This session can't be generalized, it's all different from person to person, if you encounter something or meet someone, it also depends on your own ability to discriminate. So you can't just think about it, think about it very closely. It's a hard time to make a decision these days.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Possibly, if he has a deep relationship with his ex, he must still like his ex.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If a boy likes and loves the current girl, don't like his ex anymore, and if he still likes his ex, how can he break up with his ex.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Probably not, since he loves this girl very much, then he must love this girl very hard, and he will not do anything that disgusts this girl.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When a guy loves you very much. It can't be said that she likes her ex very much. It is. Before you, they get along for a while. It will be in his heart. There is such a status. He also thinks about it often when he's fine.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Probably not, but it's not easy to completely forget about your ex, unless the two of them have never loved, and any unforgettable relationship is not something that can be forgotten by forgetting.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Boys like it. A current schoolgirl. Most guys don't like their exes anymore. There are still some people who can't forget their ex. Predecessor or? Some missing.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Social freedom, no regrets in the future, bold action, let him know, if he is still like this. You think about it well, whether you really like his person, or just like a certain shining point of him, there are many boys with the same shining point, if you like him, it is not easy to do, the most afraid of meeting someone who is dead and stubborn, you can change his obsession, then you will be happy for a lifetime, if you continue to insist on not changing his obsession, you will be bruised. Look at the personal choice, do not personally experience, what others say is always just a strategy, choose to stick to the end, give up do not regret it, other people's eyes, ideas will also affect you, but the most important thing is to see if you can make up your mind.

    Assertive. If the boy just has a crush and doesn't have a girlfriend. You are definitely hopeful, and your faith is most important at this time.

    Don't self-deny before you act, there are so many can't do it. Like, and hopeful boys, isn't that enough? doesn't even have the confidence to replace the figure in his heart, love will only get farther and farther away from you.

    Confidence is the most beautiful woman.

    Show yourself and attract his attention. In fact, liking someone often starts with getting to know each other. Then to make him like you, you have to let him understand you.

    Occasionally approach him, chat, and get to know each other. To be yourself, you must pay attention to your own image, what kind of image you are, and what kind of impression you give to others. That's why many girls are ladies in front of the male god and act like something when they come back to the dormitory.

    Hehe) bring out the best in it, attract his attention, leave a mark in his mind, and slowly deepen it in the future. As for the bad side, whatever, soak him in the talk. Ha ha.

    Don't know him too well, know how to keep a distance. If you like someone, there is one of the biggest misunderstandings, which is to be a good friend to the person you like. Friend, I have to tell you that pure friendship is real (scumbag side go).

    Especially if the other person already has a crush. If you know him too well, you can only be friends.

    Be ambiguous and let him guess. You can be a little more ambiguous, let him think cranky, and slowly his head is full of you. If your own conditions maybe, you can use the routine of "if you are far away, you can use it far and near".

    Finally, you can try to make a deliberately suggestive confession. A very critical link, success or failure, one step difference. Sensitive words can be used in language.

    In terms of physical contact, it is also possible to touch appropriately (pay attention to appropriateness, do not think crookedly). After doing this, I think a man understands that he will have you in his mind for a period of time, depending on his inner struggle, whether you win his heart, or whether he can't let go of his crush.

    In the end, let's confess. You've done a great job and don't accept that you're going to remember you for a long, long time. If you don't have the courage, he doesn't have the courage or he simply doubts life (not sure and a little confused), you miss it, and you can't blame anyone, you can only take a lesson.

    In the near future, listen silently (the best of us). Be the perfect regret in your life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't think I want to. Because he still likes your ex very much, no matter how much you give, he can't see it. Instead of wasting time on him, magnify your vision in case someone is waiting for you behind you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You shouldn't think about fighting for it, because at this time he still likes his ex very much, and even if they are together, they treat you as a spare tire, and the life between the two is not happy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You should fight for it, because he and his ex have broken up, which means that the possibility of the two getting back together is relatively small, and if you like him, you should be brave enough to pursue it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In the face of such a situation, you can observe for a period of time, and wait for the other party to completely let go of your ex before attacking, so that it will be easier to succeed.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You shouldn't think about fighting. Because the guy you have a crush on doesn't like you, it doesn't make much sense for you to pursue him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You can consider fighting for it, after all, he is single now, and if he can have feelings as soon as possible, he can forget his ex.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You should fight for it. Happiness is in your own hands, and if you like him very much, he is also single and still has to work hard.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Yes. Since the guy you have a crush on is single, you can take the initiative to fight for it to avoid missing out on your true love.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You should fight for it, because the chances of this guy getting back together with his ex are not very high, so you have to fight for your own happiness.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I'm not going to fight for it, because it's not going to work out, and it's going to be very embarrassing.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Of course you can, after all, he is single now, and there is no consideration for this, you can be brave.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    No. Because such a boy doesn't have you in his heart, there is no need for you to ask for hardship.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    There is a saying that a twisted melon is not sweet, and the most important thing in a relationship is that two people like each other, so that they can walk together. Everyone girl will have a crush on a boy, but the crush boy still likes his ex very much, and I think it is necessary to consider fighting for it, after all, he is already an ex, and he can't go back.

    At this time, you can tell him: Although I am not the best choice, but I am willing to accompany you and wait for you, I don't care about this, I fulfill you, but also to fulfill myself, just because I don't want to see you sad, most people have a past, why bother with your ex, you can try me.

    Maybe he will really impress this man, and slowly this man will see your shining point, and he will find that there is such a good girl by his side.

    Let me tell you about me, my boyfriend also has an ex that I can't forget and can't mention, and they're getting married. My boyfriend was my high school crush, and I confessed to him a few days after the breakup, and he said yes and decided to give it a try together. We've been talking for almost a year, and once I accidentally mentioned that he didn't do anything, saying that she was no longer important, and being with me was the happiest thing.

    So, when you meet someone you like, you must be brave enough to chase it, and only if you have fought for it, you won't regret it, even if he has an ex, so what? You don't get involved in her relationship with others, you just pursue your own happiness. Everyone deserves to have it, and it belongs to self-respecting love.

    It's already said that it's a crush.,Then I don't know if you like him.,You must be treated as a friend.,Since they've been crushes for so long.,It's time to confess to him now.,The crush boy likes the ex.,So what? He just didn't find out about you, and if you were brave enough to confess to him, maybe things would change.

    When you meet someone you like, you must work hard to chase it, as long as you don't intervene in other people's feelings, even if he has an ex in his heart, it doesn't matter, the iceberg will melt one day.

    I hope everyone can find the other half of each other's hearts.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Of course, it is necessary to fight for Yixiang, he likes his ex-girlfriend, and no matter how much he likes it, it is also a cover in the past, and he is just a kind of thought that is difficult to give up, since he likes him, he should consider fighting for it, if he doesn't fight for it, how do you know what he thinks, he likes his ex-girlfriend, the two of them, if he wants to get back together, the girl doesn't give him a chance, he has no way.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It is necessary to fight for it again, because he already has someone who he unswervingly wants to like, and even if you confess, he will not be too good to you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    In fact, if this is the case, I don't think you need to fight for it.

    Because the boy you have a crush on is particularly fond of his ex, it means that there are indeed some particularly unforgettable memories between this boy and his ex.

    If you confess to this guy at this time, or if the two of you are together, this guy still can't forget his ex, so I think you should give up appropriately.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    In this case, there is no need to fight for it, because the boy you have a crush on likes his ex very much, which means that the hand or god has the other party in his heart, so you can't go into the heart of the other party, so giving up is the best for you.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If the boy you like still can't let go of his ex, you can consider temporary, fight for a bad posture, after all, the two of them are not together, you can pursue him, if he is really obsessed with his ex, or tremble to find a way out for yourself!

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I don't think it's necessary, you can continue to maintain the relationship of the old sailbird's friend, one day he really let go of the waiter, you can pursue him again, after all, he has such a person psychologically, no one can replace him, only if he lets go of himself, you will have a new love, not that you moved him, moved is not feelings. The love of the sedan car should be unique, only yourself.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    The boy who has a crush still likes his ex very much, but since the hungry are all exes. There's no need to take it to heart. If you want to be stupid, try to fight for it.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Don't fight for it, even if he is with you, he will always miss his ex, and if the ex turns his head to him, he will immediately abandon you.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I have a crush on this boy, but now I still want to like his previous ex-girlfriend very much, in this case, I think it is still necessary for you to fight for it, since you have become an ex, it means that it is impossible for a story to happen between them, so now you have to have a little more relationship with Bu Changzhi, and slowly let him know that you like him, if it is still possible, maybe he will choose to be with you again, and then forget his previous girlfriend.

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