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It's up to you to decide what you want.
No matter how rich he is, if you don't love him and don't feel for him, then you won't be happy together.
YOU ARE LOOKING FOR YOUR HAPPINESS ...
You don't feel anything about him, and even if you spend money every day, you'll be upset.
You can't spend money like that every day, and when you spend money, you're happy. Won't it be troublesome when you don't spend money?
You're married to him, can you still spoil other people's money every day?
It's okay to open up a little bit, but you have to find your own happiness.
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First of all, you have to determine the person's character, don't suddenly find out that he has a wife in Cambodia and Laos and other places after a few years. If it's okay, you might as well get along, feelings can be cultivated, but family background can't be cultivated. If you marry him, you at least don't have to live a hard life.
If you marry someone who needs you to work together, maybe the long and tiring life will slowly wear out your love, and in the end you will only complain to each other. Marry him, and you can spend your youth on enjoyment. Remember, stay away from the junior and cherish life.
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Money is not everything, and no matter how good the relationship is, it is a very sad thing to have no money.
Since you are good in all aspects, find a man who can match you and slowly cultivate a relationship.
Otherwise, if you meet a man who can make you fall in love, don't doubt that you will meet him.
Because God has arranged that every man or woman will have his or her own suitable other half.
I believe you can come across it, let it be!
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If you don't like it, don't get married, the key is that you are still young and still studying, don't give up studying in order to get married, otherwise you will regret it, and since he loves you, let him wait for you to graduate before getting married. If I love you very much, it doesn't matter if I wait for you for two years.
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It's not worth it, it's not going to be happy.
I'm sure you'll find someone you have the same heart for, right? I wish you happiness.
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The family also wants you to live a good life, but without love, everything is stupid.
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Love must be financially supported, and if not, it will soon disappear, think again.
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Advocate marrying for love, haha.
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First of all, the first young lady is unwilling.
She thinks that if the other party does not give her a bride price when she gets married, it will make others feel that she is not valued, and there seems to be no guarantee if you marry into your family without spending a penny, so no matter how much the bride price is, you must give a little, if you marry only the other party does not give the bride price, she will never marry, even if her parents agree that she will not agree.
The second young lady's will not either.
She thinks that in fact, you can think about this problem empathically, if you have a daughter yourself, raised for more than 20 years, and suddenly one day a boy wants to marry your daughter, and he is not willing to give you a penny of dowry, can you accept it? Will you let him marry him?
The third young lady is that if I like it, I will marry.
She thinks that there is no need to ask for a bride price when she gets married now, the key is to look at the feelings of the two people, if the relationship between the two people is good, if the other party's family economy is really not very good, the bride price can be omitted, but she can accept it, it does not necessarily mean that her parents can accept it, maybe the parents still want to ask for the bride price.
The fourth young lady will not marry.
Because he is an only child, if he marries like this without a dime of the bride price, he will feel that the other party is very insincere, and he will also feel that he is not very happy to marry, so he can't accept it.
The fifth young lady is: Look at the relationship between two people.
She thinks that if the relationship is good, even if there is no bride price, it will not be recommended, you can struggle with him in life, and you must not destroy the relationship between two people because of the bride price, so it is really not worth it, if you like him and love him, she will definitely not care about these, because she hopes that she can marry love.
In general, my idea of wide argument is the same as the third one, marry if you meet someone you like, whether there is a bride price or not, just be careful if you don't like it.
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If a woman spends money more casually, on the one hand, it means that her husband is more capable and has a high income. On the other hand, women have a position in the family and control the finances. I'm average.
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Of course, by the way, he is especially willing to spend money on me, only 10 yuan, and he is also willing to spend 9 yuan on me.
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Yes, if you marry the wrong person, you will be ruined for a lifetime, and you will not be happy, so a woman must look carefully when she marries to see if the other party's character is worth entrusting.
So how to avoid grinding grandchildren and marrying the wrong person?
First, it depends on his character, his relationship with his family, and his relationship with colleagues and friends. If you have a close relationship with your family and are friendly with your colleagues and friends, this man is still more reliable.
If the man has a bad relationship with his family, then the person is unreliable. Even if it's good for you, it's temporary, or pretended.
Second: It can be observed in the details of life, if a man is scheming everywhere, he is not suitable for marrying him.
Third: you can look at his ability to work. If you are not motivated at work and keep making excuses for not being promoted, this kind of man cannot be married, and it will be painful for a lifetime if he marries.
A woman's greatest sorrow is to marry an incompetent man.
Fourth: see if he has the courage to take responsibility. If you excuse yourself for any mistakes, complain about others, and shirk responsibility, this kind of man can't marry.
Fifth, the way money is used.
One saving, one wasteful, for example, when you receive a utility bill every month, the party that may save will complain
Why do you always forget to turn off the lights? Why do I keep the water on when brushing my teeth? One buys it when he likes it, and the other always buys a bargain ......The difference in the use of money and the difference in the way of buying things actually contains the difference in the whole value.
Sixth, family matters.
In fact, it not only includes the question of who should do how much housework, but also some trivial things that need to be paid attention to: for example, a love to throw it around, a hanger and a hanger are almost the same distance between them; One loves to take everything, and the other blindly misses the magazine and disposes of it as garbage after reading it; Even as small as squeezing toothpaste, small things add up to big ones, and such details often become the fuse of a big noise.
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It's a good job to take care of the next generation, keep to yourself, and live a lifetime. The third is to marry a rich man, even if the relationship is not harmonious, at least the mother is expensive with her son and enjoys a petty bourgeois life.