I m confused and sad? I m really sad and confused, what should I do?

If you don't do well in the first test, it doesn't mean that you won't do well in the end, so you just need to work hard and strive to do well in the next test, there is no need to quarrel with your mother, you just need to do well in this test.

Now you are in a more difficult stage, so you must study hard and have a chance in the future, if you don't work hard now, it will be very painful in the future.

Hello, your age is the age of struggle. Work hard for your studies! Let go of these children's affection for a while.

Because your mother wants you to study hard, but you want to indulge yourself one last time and work hard, you didn't say it, and your mother didn't know it, so it was misunderstood.

I think you have to put your mind right first, after all, you're about to enter the second year of high school, and your task now is to prepare for the university entrance examination.

There must have been times when my mother was sad before, and my mother didn't trust it, so I quarreled with you. It's the second year of high school, although it's not time to sprint, but now I can't relax. You can't wait until the third year of high school to work hard. Talk to your mom calmly, and mom will understand you.

Now that you're ready to study, don't play with your phone, don't say anything, just play with your phone for the last time, just put your phone aside, and let your mother rest assured, and naturally there will be no quarrels.

You can have a good talk with your mom and say what you think. And can make a promise to your mom that this time I really am going to be the last. But be sure to keep your word.

I think no matter what, you should still adjust your mentality, then study hard, take your exams as the most important thing, or don't have too many conflicts with your parents.

I think that since I have decided to say goodbye to my mobile phone, I will stop playing with my mobile phone at all, and there is no need to say that I will indulge again, and my family will also care about you because they care about you.

In this world, as long as you are strong enough, no one can hurt you. Many times it is only you who hurt you, and you are the only one who loves you the most.

Since you want to start working hard, you can turn off your phone and indulge again at the end, which is just an excuse.

When it is broken, it is broken, and from the moment of decision, simply don't touch the phone. It's the real determination.

A man is accustomed to a woman's willfulness, coquettishness, and even unreasonable and troubleshooting, this is love; A person will write a Weibo and follow another person for him, this is love.

I guess you're still a minor, and you can't be independent yet.

So you can only endure it, and when you get to university, you can be admitted to other places, and then work and get married. You'll be able to get out of it. Now at this stage you can't do anything.

You can only be an obedient child in the eyes of parents. Have you seen the movie "Dog Thirteen"? Isn't this how generations of children in China have grown up?

I saw you ask other friends that you want to change this situation, how can you change it? Do you have a say?

What you eat and live with is at home, and you reach out to your family to get money, so you can only endure the grievances.

Today, when your mother complains about you, you just listen. There is no such thing as the dirt in the back, you say yes, just accept it.

If you're already an adult, I'll say the above in vain, if you're already working and making money, you can move out. If you don't get together every day, you will have a very harmonious atmosphere when you go home occasionally.

It is difficult for Qingguan to break the housework, in short, I hope you miss your mother's kindness to you, from how much hard work you have suffered in October pregnancy in your mother's womb, how hard you have to take care of yourself before you are weaned, how much hard work you have to bear, and you have to wipe the feces and pee, and you have to feed about 12,600 buckets so much, and how many times you have to be woken up by a child in the middle of the night, and many times a day to save your life, because the baby is too fragile, a mouse can break his life, and when you grow up, you have to worry about your life and learning, and you are reluctant to eat all the delicious food for you. Provide you with all the clothes you wear, in order to maintain how much toil you have suffered in society, how many ...... you have sufferedIn short, there is endless kindness, filial piety first, look at the example of the ancient 24 filial piety, as well as the true story of the blood and flesh of the Buddhist scriptures to repay the kindness of the parents, you may know what to do, but also read more of the mother's merits (benefits and advantages), pity the hearts of parents in the world, parents are not virtuous saints, how can there be no shortcomings, not no pain of the Buddha and Bodhisattva saints tolerate them more, see more of their painful places, compassion and understanding, if you have the ability to help, more heart than heart, For the sake of the other party, so that the problem is easy to solve, "Adopted son Fang Xiaoniang works hard" "When the parents are there, it is like the sun, the parents are not there, like the sunset, when the parents are there, it is like the moon, the parents are not there, it is like the dark night" "The parents are kind and taught, the sorrow is endless, the sorrow is endless, the joy and sorrow are born with the son, the love is over one's own body, looking at the present and thinking about the past, the grace is equal, even if the two shoulders, how can it be repaid!" "Cherish the fate with your mother, treat your parents well, honor your parents and repay the grace of endless long-term love, and be a useful person to the society! Hope this is helpful to you!

You compare yourself with the sick, the disabled, the indebted. Learn to see hope, in fact, you are lucky everywhere. Live one day at a time and earn one day at a time.

I think it's not wrong, it's inevitable, maybe it's because you're young, they think they can tell you the truth, no one is right or wrong, it's good if you grow up.

Study hard, be helpful, do more good deeds, and improve your strengths.

If you are too stressful in life, you can choose to change your lifestyle, and if you are in a bad mood, you can listen to **, go out for a walk, and release pressure appropriately.

Personally, I think that the only way to convince others is to treat her the way she does to you.

Why? Look at the loneliness and troubles of life, and think more about the good!

Discord between husband and wife in the family, the destruction of a family is disastrous, the impact on future generations is quite large, it is normal for you to be confused, the key is how to avoid affecting yourself, as a person who has come over, I will give you three suggestions.

1. Escape, they quarrel with them, out of sight and out of mind.

2. Be tolerant, who is right and who is wrong, you must have a rod in your heart, do not judge who is right and who is wrong, and forgive your parents.

3. Don't publicize the ugliness of your family, don't try to tell people you know that your family is not in harmony, ask for help, you will be more passive.

I hope my advice is helpful to you, and I wish you well.

Make more friends. Have fun and play. Eat and drink.

There is a solution to any problem, find the best solution for your own problem, and let time solve it if it doesn't work.

It may be really difficult to adjust, and the power is weak, and parents will always feel that they are right.

Find a friend to travel and ask for their advice.

Why are you sad and confused, is it a relationship or something else?

It's as big as your own heart.

It's okay to listen to **, Buddha songs, light**.

Grow up with peace of mind and become independent.

Get a good night's sleep and think about what you want......

Generally speaking, Chinese before the age of thirty are in a state like yours, and I was the same before. Now that I'm almost forty, a lot of things are understood. If you want to improve your realm, you want to become wiser, this is not something that can be said clearly in one or two sentences, nor can it be achieved in a year and a half, you need time, you need to experience, you need to learn, you need to experience.

Here are a few things you can refer to:

2. Invite more wise, talented, and moral people to dinner, ask them for advice, and be more proactive.

3. Experience more things, such as making friends, doing business work, starting a business, etc.

4. Listen to the speeches of some eminent monks, which can be found on the Internet, such as "The Book of Ordinary Business".

I can't say it clearly, I hope it helps you. In particular, the book "Life is Beautiful: The Ultimate Wisdom of Saying Goodbye to Anxiety, Confusion, Tension, and Depression" is very good, and I must read it well, and I have gained a lot from this book.

There is also a book called "Meet the Unknown Self" that can also be read.

Bless you!