Dictate what I should do if I have a romance with a colleague in the office

For a long time, office romance has always been taboo for leaders, because leaders think that if the relationship between the two people does not get along well, the breakup will affect the work, and they will often see each other in the company, and the scene will be very embarrassing, especially after the breakup, it will affect the emotions of both parties, and these negative emotions will also directly affect the work, so this is also more taboo for leaders.

When an office romance occurs, many people will choose to conceal it, but there are also many cases where the office romance is discovered, and if such a situation occurs, it will be more embarrassing and I don't know how to deal with it. Someone asked, how to deal with such a situation? Let's talk about how to face office romance correctly.

If the two people in love are in different departments, then they can be like ordinary colleagues in the company, keep a certain distance, do their own work, treat the office romance with a normal heart, separate their work and life, and don't bring life into the work, which is also something that the leader does not want to see.

If the two are in the same department, and it is a relationship between superiors and subordinates, I personally recommend that one of them apply for a change of department, do not work in one department, the two are in the same department many times, other colleagues will feel unfair, even if you are fair and just to everyone, but other people's thoughts and opinions will still be different, others will think that you are opening the back door to him or her.

Feelings are said to come, and they can't be stopped, but we must have a clear conscience, in the company to achieve a clear distinction between public and private, separate work and life, do not bring their emotions to work, and do not want to achieve their own goals through love with each other, serious and down-to-earth work, others will also look at it, then even if the office romance is discovered, others will not say too much, the two should also keep a certain distance in the company, do not get too close, the company is a place of work after all, It's not a place for you to fall in love, it's the best way to distinguish the occasion and prove yourself with your own practical actions.

Take the initiative to make it clear. Because two people are together after all, there is no need to hide, and there is no need to hide it, this is disrespectful to each other.

You should learn to avoid it, you should not give any explanation for this situation, and then work seriously and not be distracted by this kind of thing.

If you encounter such a situation, I think you should admit it generously, but you must keep a low profile in the company.

Before I came to work, many people told me to keep my distance from the office leaders, otherwise I would suffer a big loss, but after this kind of advice met love, I was completely lost. In the beginning, I just wanted a stable job, but I never imagined that I would be involved with my male boss, and even this entanglement would be for years. Many people think that I am in it for money, but they don't understand my inner thoughts, and this office affair between me and my male boss will also make me unforgettable for the rest of my life.

I've always been very introverted, and after graduating from university, my classmates went to job fairs in order to get a good job. And I didn't want to go to the job fair, so I just found a random unit to generalize. Later, at a class reunion, my roommate told me that there was still a shortage of a female secretary in their company, which happened to be very compatible with our major, and she wanted me to try it.

I might as well try to apply for a job after I go back and think about it, after all, it is also a piece of kindness from my classmates. When I first applied for the job, I didn't have much hope, I knew that it was a big company, and there were a lot of people who wanted to work as secretaries in the company, and it would be nice for a clumsy person like me to come for an interview.

As I remember that day, I also deliberately dressed up and put on a light makeup. At that time, the person who interviewed me was the big boss of the company, and when he saw me for the first time, he shook my hand very politely, and at that moment it was as if he was dreaming. After the interview, he asked me to go back and wait for the results, but I didn't expect to receive the company's personnel wheel in the evening**, and asked me to go to work next Monday!

When I started work, I shared an office with my male boss, and he took special care of me. When I first went to the company, there must have been a lot of things I didn't understand, and he would explain to me patiently. At this moment, I seemed to feel the unique charm of a mature man, and slowly I had an indescribable feeling for my male boss, and I can be sure of this feeling of love!