My parents have been fighting a lot lately, and even threatened to divorce, and I was really scared

I understand your situation! When everyone has a quarrel, you don't have to be too nervous. Of course, you can also help them to do the work of unblocking the problem and help them get out of the current situation in time.

But it is not excluded that they really want to divorce, and if so, the first thing you need is to convince yourself. Marriage is a matter for the two of them, and it is unwise when they have no feelings together and only barely make do with them for the sake of their children. When two people who look like God are separated from each other, contradictions will continue to appear, which will have a great impact on your future outlook on marriage and life.

Correct awareness of the root cause of the problem is beneficial to everyone! You tell me?

Hello, I think you can often communicate with your parents individually to understand the focus of their conflicts, help them analyze the causes, and find out the essence of the problem; You can also ask them to go with you to what activities to create some opportunities for them to eliminate conflicts. In short, you are the bond of good parental relationship, and you must have a good relationship with each party, and you must not take sides. I wish your whole family a speedy restoration of harmony and eternal happiness!

Legal analysis: If there is still affection between the parents, maintain a certain degree of neutrality, and can persuade and not dissuade them. If the relationship between the parents has broken down and can only accept the fact of divorce, you can consider which parent is better to live with, and if you are over eight years old, you can choose which one to live with.

Legal basis: Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children. In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child.

Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

Hello baby!

The teacher read your description and understands your feelings very well! Hug you!

Your parents are divorced, you will definitely feel that this family is very lonely, feel very helpless, and very scared, you don't know how to face life without your parents in the future, and you are about to become a single-parent family, thinking about it, you feel powerless to do anything, and you are not in the mood to study.

But it doesn't seem to be of much help? Can you ask Mom and Dad: I feel bad when you are quarreling, you say it's all because of me, I'm guilty, I don't know if I'm doing badly, I just know, I think I'm scared, I like Mom and Dad to be at home, so I feel very secure, Mom and Dad, I know that your quarrel is also a way of communication, can we find a marriage and family counselor to try to analyze the conflict in our family?

So what can we do to save our families?

The teacher is hugging you, we are not in a hurry now, let's actively think of a way together, okay?