My parents don t have a good temper and always quarrel, and they re going to get divorced, what shou

Updated on society 2024-02-09
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Do ideological work with them.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think you can persuade you to leave depending on what the quarrel is about, and the problems that cannot be reconciled. Of course, it can not be separated, but if life cannot be reconciled, you can leave first, and then live without separation, it will be better, my friend's parents have been divorced for several years, and they are still living together after leaving, and they are very good if they don't quarrel!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let them talk well, for your sake, they will.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can scare them into saying that they divorced you, don't really do it

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Not necessarily, when you really want to get divorced, you shouldn't quarrel.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Scare it, if they divorce again, you will leave, such a family is really not good for your growth, remember to really let them feel your importance, don't really leave,

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let them be apart for a while first to calm down, if both of them feel better than together. That's gone. Don't be others, and don't be yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Talk to them.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Children are the glue that binds parents, and it mainly depends on the role you play in the middle.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Sympathy! The parents' affairs are solved by the adults themselves, and you can help at all!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Persuade them not to leave. The recipient is always the child.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's all angry talk, just persuade it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Let them learn traditional culture.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It depends on why they are arguing.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Parents quarrel and divorce first to distinguish whether the marital status of both parties is irreconcilable, if so, it is necessary to respect the parents' hospital; If it is not an irreconcilable conflict, the child can play a role in alleviating it.

    Where the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The marriage relationship is dissolved when the divorce registration is completed, or the divorce judgment or mediation document takes effect.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If your parents have no feelings now, don't like each other anymore, quarrel and divorce, you don't care, they want to divorce and let them go, because two people have no feelings together, and they hurt each other, so there is no need to persuade them to reconcile or something.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If your mom and dad have a fight and divorce, then you serve as their bond of love. You need to keep them apart for a while and calm down. I calmly take out the reason for the quarrel and bounce it.

    Tell them that since you are so old, you know that marriage is not easy to come by, and you can do it and cherish it. Don't hurt others and yourself because of a little thing. Old companions, old companions, you will be each other's old companions in the future, supporting each other and tolerating each other.

    Only in this way can the marriage continue to operate.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If your parents quarrel and divorce, as a child, you should persuade them well, you must know that the divorced family is broken, and you are the most hurt, so you must persuade your parents to calm down.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Mom's quarrel as a child should be persuaded, not let them quarrel, and whose fault it is, you have to point it out seriously, mother's fault, just say that mom is wrong, dad dad is wrong, just say dad is wrong, and then you have to stop them from getting divorced, you say I'm so old, I'm also your flesh and blood, you divorce at this time, it will have a great impact on me and my future, you can't delay and destroy the whole family because of your impulsiveness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hello, if your mother is quarreling and is getting divorced, you as a child, you can let them not quarrel and let them sit down and talk about it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's going to rain, and my mother is going to get married, or something you can't control. You can only persuade both sides and try to resolve the contradictions between them, but if you can't do it, you can only follow their wishes, for you they are inseparable from your parents.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When Mom and Dad quarrel and divorce, you should calm their emotions, because sometimes divorce is just impulsive.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Quarrels and divorces are nothing new? Your dad and your mom quarrel and then get a divorce, you can separate the two of them first and let them calm down, after the cooling-off period, I think they should be able to recover as before, and when they quarrel, they get divorced, and they can't take it seriously.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think you should have a good talk with them. Let them all think about it for you. If they really love you, they will definitely consider your feelings. In other words, after the parents quarrel, they have a good discussion. It should be good if you build a bridge of communication again.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Dad and Mom quarrel and divorce, what can you do? First of all, you have to judge whether they are a matter of principle or an ordinary small problem, if it is a matter of principle, you should think about your own way out, think about who to talk to, if it is an ordinary small problem, just match it and let them solve it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Let them solve their own affairs, and you can't manage them. If you love your parents very much, you can beg your parents not to divorce in the name of your children. But remember not to take sides when advising parents, otherwise it will exacerbate their conflict and be counterproductive.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Mom and Dad quarreled and divorced, what should I do? If your parents quarrel and divorce, you have to persuade your parents well, tell them about it, let them check their own shortcomings, ease the atmosphere, let them all calm down and think about it, and they will understand that they will not make a divorce.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Mom and Dad quarreled and divorced, you study hard as a child, keep your grades, and in the future, no matter who you live with, you will have to go to college.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Mom and Dad quarrel and divorce, you don't have to care about anything, let them quarrel on their own, you are your own, do your own thing, and then go out.

    Maybe they'll have good ones.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You can act as a bridge between them, take the initiative to communicate with their father and mother, find out the reason for their quarrel, and then solve it, so that it is possible to resolve the conflict and become the original harmonious family.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Mom and Dad quarrel about divorce, and the first thing you should do is to stop them from divorcing. And to be a peacemaker in the middle, let them resolve the contradictions as soon as possible. Let you have a warm home.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Hello landlord, I don't know how old you are now, if you are still under the age of 18, if your parents are really divorced, you can choose one party to continue to live, of course, now they are in the divorce because of participation, ask them to quarrel and then mediate and ask them to do a good chat (you can also find your family's authority to mediate together, not a matter of principle should be mutually understandable.)

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Let Mom and Dad separate for a while to calm down. , sometimes hot-headed in a quarrel will make irrational choices. You make peace from it, and turn the big things into small things and the small things. As for how to do it, it depends on how you find the solution point to cut into the matter.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You have to do a good job in this situation, you are a third party ready to do a good job here, you have a good relationship with your father, your mother and you, you can adjust them from this, see you as a bond, as long as you handle their relationship well, the divorce of your parents is inseparable.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You try to help persuade peace. Do your best to save their marriage and relationship, that's what you should be who you are. The duty of due diligence.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Parents quarrel and divorce, you should know what the reason is, you should tell them both that they should understand and tolerate each other. They are the ones who brought you into this world, and they should be responsible for you, you need to have a proper home, not want to be in a single-parent family.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Hello, you can first understand why you quarrel, if it is because of some small things then you can persuade them, but if you have been arguing for a long time, then there is no need to persuade, even if they you persuade them, they do not quarrel for you, but they are torture for them, so if it is really not good, you will consider who to talk to.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Mom and Dad always quarrel and say they want a divorce, and I think they are just angry and not true. You should persuade them to communicate more together, and I think they will understand you. It is also for you not to get divorced, nothing is as good as a sound home, and if you maintain your home well, you will be happy.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I think that if Mom and Dad quarrel and divorce, you can not be influenced by them, let them go their own way, and don't not divorce because of you, after all, marital happiness belongs to the two of them.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Mom and Dad quarreled and divorced, if you can't change the outcome of their divorce, then you don't have to stop it, you can consider inheriting property and choosing a guardian, in short, although it hurts feelings, but you also need to think about yourself.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Legal analysis: Mom and Dad quarrel divorce is not a trivial matter, so as a child to learn to mediate the conflict between them reasonably, first of all, we must be clear about what the reason for their quarrel is, is a small family matter or a big conflict within the family, if their age is relatively young, then they should find the adult elders in the family to adjust, such as their aunt or aunt and other relatives, some problems may be communicated between adults, the effect will be better, in short, family harmony is very important, Everyone has an obligation to maintain family harmony.

    Legal basis: Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China The relationship between parents and children shall not be extinguished by the divorce of parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

    After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

    In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Mom and Dad quarrel divorce is not a trivial matter, so as a child to learn to mediate the conflict between them reasonably, first of all, we must know what the reason for their quarrel is, is a small family matter or a big conflict within the family, if their age is relatively young, then they should find the adult elders in the family to adjust, such as their aunt or aunt and other relatives, some problems may be communicated between adults, the effect will be better, in short, family harmony is very important, Everyone has an obligation to maintain family harmony.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Hello. What to do if your parents quarrel and want a divorce.

    1. Absolute neutrality.

    At this time, it is necessary to remain neutral, wait for the parents to quarrel, and then do ideological work, first affirm their respective right, and then say the wrong party, so that the parents know the truth that a slap does not make a sound, so that there may not be a divorce.

    2. Don't pull the bias frame.

    Don't keep impulsively pulling the shelf, this will only add fuel to the fire, and it may be that your intentional favoritism will make the parents' war out of the original track and become out of control.

    3. Be coquettish.

    If you are still relatively young, you can use coquettishness to extinguish the fire, tell your parents that you are afraid of quarreling, so that your parents will consider your feelings and slowly become calm, but you must have enough coquettish and cute talents to pretend to be pitiful.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    1. Absolute neutrality At this time, you must remain neutral, and wait for the parents to quarrel, and then do ideological work, first to affirm their respective right, and then say what is wrong, so that parents know the truth that a slap does not sound, so that there may not be a divorce. 2. Don't pull the bias frame all the time, don't keep impulsively pulling the bias frame, this will only add fuel to the fire, and it may be that your intentional favoritism will make the parents' war out of the original track and become out of control. 3. If you are still relatively young, you can use coquettishness to extinguish the fire, tell your parents that you are afraid of quarrels, so that your parents will consider your feelings and slowly become calm, but you must have enough coquettish and cute talents.

    4. Don't be a judge at this time, don't be a judge, because home is an unreasonable place, if you are high up and judge them, you will be annoyed and angry with the party who admits mistakes.

    Questions. They are still in the room, and my mother came to tell me to get away.

    I don't dare to persuade. I'm in sixth grade.

    Don't persuade them now, they quarrel hard.

    Why did you quarrel with each other?

    Questions. I don't know very well, it seems that they took me home from the training class yesterday, and they were arguing about who picked me up, and then my father suspected my mother of lying, and then they quarreled because of work.

    Understood, maybe it's because they're too busy to pick you up, and then your dad thinks your mom should be able to pick you up, and then he doesn't go, so he thinks your mom lied.

    Questions. And then add the reason for work.

    If it were because of this, I don't think I would have gotten divorced.

    It may be that they have been under a lot of pressure lately.

    Didn't even understand each other.

    Questions. My parents have quarreled 6 times before because of a lot of things, and this time it's been 7 times, my mom really doesn't seem to be joking, please, what should I do.

    First of all, you wait for them to finish arguing, and then you go to do ideological work.

    To make use of yourself, you have to be very pitiful to communicate with them, first to the father, and then to the mother, to let them know that their divorce is hurting their children.

    But children, you sometimes have to understand, maybe your parents really can't get along, then you still can't escape the problem of their divorce, unless they are willing to do it for you.

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