Is it so important for high school students to intrigue?

I'll just give you my opinion.

First of all, according to your title, I don't think high school students need to be so intrigued.

Judging from the grievances you vent, the other party embodies not only simple intrigue, but also the essence of a person. School is a multi-person environment where everyone has a different personality. There are good, and of course there are bad.

Time is one of the best ways to understand the essence of a person, or to let other friends understand the essence of this person.

So you don't have to be too deliberate about this kind of thing. If you don't get along with him or her, don't get along with him/her. If the other party is really that kind of "villain", I believe that other classmates will avoid him (her) after a period of time.

In fact, don't think it's a bad thing to go through this in school, just think of it as a training session before you go to the unit

High school students should be in the flower season, and they don't have to toss themselves so tired.

If you think about it carefully, did you do anything that you did a few years ago, or even a few months ago or a few hours ago, that made you feel ridiculous, just like when we lied when we were children, and now we think that those lies are full of loopholes, the kind that are exposed at a glance, and the parents may not have said anything, did they think they were very powerful at the time, and they actually hid everything, and it is quite interesting to think about it now.

Don't say ten or eight years after you get what you are doing now, you may feel very naïve in two or three years, so don't look at yourself very complicated now, you are all children who want to grow up and are eager to grow up.

I'm not that old anymore, I've just worked for two years, and now I want to laugh when I look at what happened two months ago, but there is something I want to tell you, friends in high school are friends who can really make you feel, and you don't have to worry too much about anything.

As the saying goes, learning is important

Where there are people, there is right and wrong, and the contradictions are gradually intensifying, so you should think that this experience in high school is a warm-up, and when you get out of college, there are countless "intrigues" in society, especially girls. After spending some time with someone, you have to think about whether this person is worth associating, and if the answer is no, then learn to draw a line with her in your heart. Remember, never get involved in right and wrong, keep a proper distance from everyone, and do your part.

Good fences make good neighbors.

What ABCD's, I don't understand, your current one is called intrigue, it's far worse.

Don't think about it if you don't speak, if you look at him in three years, he will definitely have a bad life.

That's how to be a man, just be fair and honest, just be worthy of your heart, whatever.

It's good to put your mind at ease, if you want to solve it, it will only be cut and messed up.

Where there are people, there is struggle, regardless of age, you do it according to your true colors, don't pay too much attention, in the absence of principled differences, don't be too serious, see more, think more, learn more, and prepare more for the future to face society.

High school students now know about fighting, whether it is the class officials, the student council, or the children, the fights are much more serious than before, who is to blame?! Under consideration.

Ignore them

provoked to hit them. I'm sticking with you.

Child. It's too calculating!

Relax!

Now that I'm in high school, I find that my classmates around me are slowly becoming a little "individualistic".

At first, many good classmates and close friends, slowly I found that in fact, I don't know my heart at all, and I don't dare to tell them (her) my secrets, and if you say it, they won't comfort you, but instead use these secrets and things in your heart as a laughing stock to laugh at you.

Another manifestation of classmates is that they can't see others well, are jealous of others, and secretly look at others is unhappy, but in fact, they are all best friends for playing. A dormitory, giggling every day, not disliking you, eating the same thing with you, using a bowl and chopsticks, the kind of friend.

She may stir up your relationship with other classmates, she may spread rumors about you everywhere, make small reports to teachers, isolate you with the whole dormitory, and you may feel naïve, but this is the true story of a high school student. Slowly, I found that in high school life, the relationship between classmates became worse and worse, and some people could not touch it.

How to solve this problem? Is it necessary for high school classmates to be like this? Slippage.

This is a "friendship problem" that many people have.

In fact, let's be honest, your classmates, brothers and sisters around you all have the same thoughts as you, feel lonely, helpless, and feel surrounded by intrigues. Therefore, it is not that you are bothered alone, but that people do not know how to read minds, so they don't know what others think.

In fact, the so-called "campus intrigue", "cold words" and so on are all manifestations of people's "whining, dissatisfaction, jealousy, psychological imbalance, etc.", and everyone will have it, but they rarely notice it, or even find it. Therefore, if you live in a group and don't know how to get along with others, talk and think, you will be dissatisfied with the outside world. Therefore, you must learn to be generous, generous, not to care, and to think of the people around you simply, so that you will be a little better.

People always have to grow up, have things that interest them, things they want to do, partners they want to stay with, and they want to have their own private time and private space. And people always have to learn to be independent, live alone, study, work, etc., when you go to university, go out of social work. Therefore, one day, you may suddenly find that your friends, classmates, and siblings will be far away from you, and you will gradually have little contact.

And not only are the people around you far away from you, but you will also find yourself away from others.

Adjust your mindset and focus on the more important and urgent thing ahead: learning. If you have any difficulties in life, you can respond to the teacher and communicate with the parents.

High school is a very important stage, whether your future is good, depends on whether you can learn to regulate your mentality and emotions in the past three years of high school, and whether you can get along with the people around you. Because when I go out to work and live in society, I rely on friendly interpersonal relationships, self-regulation and recovery, and strong ability.