How can parents develop the social skills of kindergarten children?

How to develop children's interpersonal skills! Episode 2.

Let him communicate more with children.

1. Strengthen the training of children's self-confidence.

Self-confidence is the premise for children to dare to communicate, and children with self-confidence will have the courage to express themselves and be willing to communicate. In addition to general nurturing, it is also an effective strategy to let children socialize with peers who are younger than them, because the advantage of age will give them an advantage in ability.

When children accumulate a wealth of social experience and build self-confidence in the process of interacting with younger children, they will gradually dare to socialize.

Secondly, teaching children a few "unique skills" is also a strategy to improve children's social status. Young children tend to look up to people who are more capable than themselves, and they will be happy to be close to such peers.

Therefore, teaching children some skills in their spare time, such as origami, magic tricks, etc., will have a psychological advantage in themselves, because with the skills that others will not know, children will become more confident and willing to interact with others.

2. Teach children communication skills and cultivate communication skills.

The most basic interpersonal skill is greetings. Parents should teach their children how to greet others, how to bow and shake hands, how to introduce themselves to others, how to use respectful language, and so on. With the expansion of the scope of interpersonal communication and the enrichment of social experience, people can gradually comprehend some communication skills and make good use of them.

3. Pay attention to the cultivation of psychological quality required for interpersonal communication.

Interaction requires good psychological qualities and personality qualities, such as kindness, trustworthiness, sincerity, cheerfulness, honesty, etc., which need to be consciously cultivated by parents in their daily lives. Pay more attention to your child's words and deeds and develop good communication habits. For example, be polite when visiting the door, don't take other people's things, don't grab toys, and tidy up toys when you leave.

4. Create an open social environment for children to motivate them.

Parents should encourage their children to spend a certain amount of time and energy to chat, play and travel with their peers, and never ignore their children's learning in this area under the pretext of the importance of cultural learning. For example, take your child out to play more often, and support your child to bring his peers to play at home.

1. Create a good family environment. It is not advisable to have a democratic and equal family, which cannot be centered on parents or children. Parents should communicate more with their children so that they dare to love and speak.

Let the child participate more in the big and small affairs of the family, listen to the child's opinion, so that the child's self-confidence is beneficial and the child can communicate with adults.

2. Provide more networking opportunities. Parents can provide more opportunities for their children to socialize, take their children outside to contact other children, and can also encourage familiar children to play together at home, share toys or appropriately integrate children into their social circles.

3. Tell more stories. Tell more stories to children, and it is beneficial for children to learn the right way to communicate from the stories. Why not be able to better understand what others mean in interpersonal communication and help children fall in love with reading?

4. Cultivate children to be polite and treat others equally. Parents should let their children learn to use polite language in interpersonal interactions

Hello", "Goodbye", thank you, "Sorry", tell your child that people are willing to play with him if they are polite. At the same time, we should learn to treat others equally, and encourage children to use polite language appropriately in activities, so as to strengthen children's habits of sending Yang.

5. Learn to follow the rules. Parents should teach their children the rules of the game they make themselves in interpersonal interactions, and whoever breaks them will be ostracized collectively. Only if you follow the rules yourself, people will enjoy playing with others.